FiredandHurt

Good post. You are right. They do not care about you at all. Since I am also in CA, I think the age discrimination is bad here. This is a youth culture and these companies are flippant because so many people want to live here. I don;t know. I am in a major midlife crisis right now and am ready to leave CA. Thanks for your post.

HI I don;t know if anyone here can relate but I am just past 40 and after getting screwed over in my job last year after giving them everything I had for nearly a decade, I am completely and totally burnt out. I feel the way someone feels when they break up out of a relationship and the last thing they want is another relationship. Well, the last thing I want is another corporate job right now. I hate the politics, unfairness, favortism, age discrimination, control freak bosses, spies, backstabbers etc etc. Just hate it. I am lucky to be in a position where I can use my skills to manage my stock investments for some income, do taxes for some income etc. I just don;t know how to get my fire back. I was the type of person that always did everything right...started working at age 9 *paperroutes...put myself thru college, worked my butt off despite being treated like garbage in my 20s doing 2 jobs...and recently busted my butt for nearly 10 years before a jerk boss decided to start treating everyone in our department like hell in the hopes one of us quit and when that didn;t happen, scapegoated me out despite stellar reviews. I am just spent overall. Any advice on how to get my passion back? Fire back? I feel so incredibly exhausted and starting over at the bottom just feels too overwhelming. Thanks for listening.

Welcome to Fascism. Seriously, we are being monitored everywhere. Technology in the wrong hands creates monsters. It is very hard to find privacy anymore and I am worried it is going to get way worse.

You know how many guys masturbate everyday? tons! You are normal.

Same holds true for guys sometimes....if my wife teases me all day with "I am going to spank your * * * tonight but good", it gets me all jazzed up all day so that when we have sex it is awesome.

A friend of mine owns a sex internet site *toys only* and says that many women buy spanking items, more so than men, believe it or not. Not sure what this says but interesting nonetheless.

My wife and I would be both A. She is definitely an A....I have learned to be an A since she enjoys it so much.

PLEASE LIST IF YOU ARE FEMALE OR MALE.... Adult Spanking and sexuality - a) A huge turn on, keep it coming or let me paddle you. b) Intriguing, I have tried it. c) I like just doing love pats d) I don't understand it and it does not turn me on. Thanks...can;t wait for results....

I am a guy but having my nipples licked drives me insane...they are super sensitive and it feels so awesome.

Just curious...women in general are hard to figure out.. Do any women here entertain any fantasies? Curious what the most common one is? I would imagine 50 years ago it was male dominance but I don't think that is the case now... Thanks

Yeah but more and more companies scan every single thing you do on the internet and don't tell you. They snoop like crazy. I was in front of a computer for 15 years and can no longer do it. I just can't. I want human contact and human interactions. I don't care if I have to sell cars. I am not doing the computer thing anymore all day.

Masturbation usually helps...IT IS NORMAL to think about sex alot. It is as powerful a drive as hunger in some people and you wouldn't tell your girlfriend to stop eating or never be hungry. There are things outside of intercourse your girlfriend can do to help you...(hand jobs for example). I just don't buy this "must not have any sexual feelings until married" crap. It was instituted by religion to make you feel guilty and as a method of control.

I feel sex is something that is to be shared between your significant other and you. Paying for it just seems wrong on so many levels.

She said it is whacking my butt with a paddle. She says it gets her going. Now, I admit it is a turnon to have someone take the dominant role for fun but do you think she is serious about this being her fantasy? Everytime I ask, this is the answer I get... thoughts?

Especially the talking about it...seems to make things steamy. She would rather give than get but it adds spice to the relationship...trust me, there are millions that do it.