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  1. blueberrypie
    Okay, you are not even my "ex," since we were never even in a "committed" relationship. But I still miss you, and I wonder how your days are going. I hope that you are doing well, but I also hope that you realize that how much I meant to you, even though you didn't realize it at the time. But, your therapist will probably tell you that you should let it go.
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    20 months after the breakup. I still miss you. It doesn't hurt like it did right after the breakup. I even sometimes feel happy without you. But I still feel the ache if I go to the dances. That's why I stopped going. Not because what we did together didn't mean much to me as you suggested, but because it means too much for me. And honestly, as much as I want to see you, I am afraid of running into you if I go to those events we used to go together. Although I wish you to be happy, I am afraid that seeing you happy without me will break my heart all over again. But honestly, I would do anything to get you back... Still.....
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    After 3 1/2 months, I still miss you, and love you as much, if not more. I can't believe that I still love you as much. I thought that after 3 1/2 months, the memory will fade away. But it is becoming more clear, if anything... I miss you. I want to call you and say that I still love you, but I am still so afraid of rejection and getting my heart broken all over again.. so I am just writing it here. I can't believe that you are still going to the event we went together, and have a breakfast party we threw together. But I guess, it is your life, and you can't stop living your life because you broke up with me. I hope that you won't be with anyone else at this event. Not yet. But.. I need to let you go...
  4. blueberrypie
    Not really a success story, but shows that you never know what the future holds. When I was going through hard time with the breakup, I asked one of my friends if she was ever married before. And she said that she was close once, and told me about this guy. Basically they dated few years, she wanted to marry him, but he was not sure. So he broke up with her. It took few years for my friend to get over him, because in her mind, he was the right person for her. 15 years after the breakup, he called her and told her that breaking up with her was the biggest mistake in his life, and asked her to marry him. By that time (yea, it's been 15 years), she was already over him, so she told him that he was 10 years too late. So... they didn't get back together, but it shows that people can come back even after a long time, and doesn't necessarily test water... I also found the book titled "My boyfriend's back" written by Donna Hanover, which has a lot of reconciliation stories..
  5. blueberrypie
    When I broke up with my first boyfriend, I had a lot of other options. But I still wanted to get back together with my ex, and I crawled back to him. If anything, it made it worse that all the other men wanted to be with me when the only guy I wanted to be with didn't want to be with me... If the merit of attractiveness is having other options, I don't think that being attractiveness reduces the possibility of getting back together. Just my 2 cents.
  6. blueberrypie
    I still miss you. I want to believe that this is not the end of us, just a break for both of us to grow, so that we can have a better life together...
  7. blueberrypie
    I like this.
  8. blueberrypie
    Do you mean that if tw people are right for each other they will overcome by sticking with each other, or even after split they will get back together?
  9. blueberrypie
    I know I should move on. But this story gives me hope in a sense that you never know what the future holds. Thank you for posting this story, Calblee!
  10. blueberrypie
    I still love you... I want this pain to end...
  11. blueberrypie
    Day 16 It doesn't seem to get easier not to call him. I almost called him today. I dialed my friend's phone and then just stopped. I am still here. I still believe in 'us'. ... come back...
  12. blueberrypie
    Agonizing: I know how you feel...what I am thinking...
  13. blueberrypie
    Day 15 Still miss him deeply. Just want to send him a love letter. Just want to hit ctrl+Z.. Only if the life is that simple... I feel crazy, because one moment I want to send him a love letter, and the next minute, I just want to get over with it and just starting to date. I was looking at the speed-dating website. I know it is too soon, but I want this pain to go away... What would be harm in looking around when he is not coming back anyways?
  14. blueberrypie
    Day 14 I still want to call him and just talk to him...
  15. blueberrypie
    once I was walking down a street with my good guy friend, and he said "it's amazing that how people with no academic background can keep conversation going." I couldn't stand one more second with him! so I guess....elitism?
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