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I think your doing great Dude! Keep it up...lucky gal!
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Just because I had to...
needtobealone replied to MR's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
Great poem MR! Everyting takes time......you'll be ok. -
I don't think anyone knows that answer but you my friend.
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I agree with Heretic, it's just something that you know when your with that one person, a feeling that's hard to describe with words.
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Good luck Gilgamesh
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How do I move on?
needtobealone replied to Angel_babygirl's topic in Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender
I think you should just walk away. She seems like she just wants to have fun for now so it's best that you just spare yourself from more pain. Also, if your not happy in your marriage why are you still married? I think you just needs to take time off of dating or being with someone for a while. I hope things work out for you. -
my soulmate is taken... please help (the 'other' woman)
needtobealone replied to coldplay8's topic in Relationship Advice
Hey she came here for advice not to be judged! You two look as shallow as you seem to think she is casting judgement like that. Coldplay8, honey stay away from this guy as much as you can. As much as I hate to say this....those two are right, he married and you don't want to be a home wrecker, and if he's cheating on his wife what makes you think he won't cheat on you? I wish you the best. -
I agree with them too browneyes, I think you should leave your hubby if he hasn't changed. This new guy sounds more promising. Good luck to ya!
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Sweety just work on you first. Kick that nasty habit, then see what else is out there. I hope things work out for you.
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Maybe you shouldn't go out with her for coffee or walks anymore. I mean it can make you feel like she's trying to get back with you and stuff. I think you should tell her need some time so that you can heal from this break up. I know how hard it can be when your ex from an LTR hangs around you and has no intentions of taking you back, so take some time off of her.
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Do you guys ever consider taking a little break from eachother? My bf (used to be ex) was like that too, ya know not showing his emotions and stuff. I really never expected him to be the one who was going to be begging for another chance. Anyways 3 weeks after not seeing eachother and just saying "Hi" once in a while he called and said that he was in hell w/o me. So I think all we needed was a break. Maybe this can work for you guys too. I know how you can feel betrayed, I would too. Talk it over with him. I hope things work out for you. 8)
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Ok so the poor girl that my ex met during rebound is like obsessed with him. Heck, I even told her myself that me and my ex are working things out and she just replied by saying "I think that there could have been something more between us". He's told her over the phone and through emails that she should move on, and still, she leaves offline messages to him saying crap like "Missin' my hunnie". Please tell me any other good ideas besides kicking her butt.....lol.
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Is the porn messing up your guys sex lives? I personally don't see anything wrong with my guy looking at porn. I guess I'd rather have him do that then go out and get someone else. You need to really sit this guy down and talk to him. Let him know that his distructiveness is way out of line. Good luck to ya.
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I think you should just give guys a rest for a little while. Just be alone for now. If you get lonely call up some girlfriends. Rebound sucks. Hope everything goes well for you. 8)
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I was just wondering, In your opinions how much of an age gap relationship is too much? I'm talking about 18+, not dirty old guys "loving" 15 y/o's and stuff. What do you guys think?
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Ahhh don't feel bad, I still have feelings for my ex too. We've only been broken up for a month though. It's funny because the way we broke up, I never for one sec thought he'd be the one begging me back! My my, how the tables have turned .
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You go girlie! I'm glad to see a nice post about someone moving on.....good luck out there.
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I think you need to drop this girl before you wind up even more hurt than ever. She's just using you, and it doesn't seem like she wants to make things up with you. My advice.....move on. You can do better out there.
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Hello again stillthere, First of all I have a question for you. Do you still like her? If she's having a hard time coping she obviously still has some feelings for you. I just feel sorry for the poor guy that got caught up in the rebound.
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I think she still has some feelings for you. I mean obviously she does. It prolly bothers the hell out of her that you moved on. As for the new rs, it's prolly something she got into so she wouldn't feel lonely (rebound). Also, as for her being scared about getting into fights again......what couples don't fight? I mean that's to be expected. My ex tried to get with this other chick while we were broken up, and now she won't leave him alone. He told her (I was on the other phone) that he was getting back with me and she started to beg him not to. And still, she sends him messages calling him "my hunnie". Ugggggh ! Why does love suck sometimes?
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Thanks for your reply miss sweet. I think your right, we should take it step by step. He's coming to see me and we plan to have dinner and talk about our feelings in person.......wish me luck
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Hello everyone, me and my ex broke up about a month ago. We decided to end it because we just weren't seeing eye to eye anymore. Anyways I moved out and we weren't talking until last night. He called me saying that he made the biggest mistake of his life by letting me walk out the door. That he still loved me and that he even tried dating other women and none of them can hold a candle to me. I still love him so much as well, but I'm scared of getting hurt again. I guess I just want some opinions about this. Should I give it another go? Like I said I still love him so much too......I just don't want to be hurt again.....*sigh* help!
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It lasts forever if you want it to...
needtobealone replied to Chhota's topic in Relationship Advice
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Well said Gil! I've cheated on a bf once back when I was really young, but I did it 'cause it wasn't really a serious relationship and my bf at the time wasn't paying much attention to me even after I told him I needed it. I guess I should just broke up with him first but I was young and didn't really think like that. Oh well. But anyways I agree with Gil.
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Hello again marionusnick, I don't think the love will ever go away and that's fine. But you do have to move on to be happy. You should look into doing others things to keep your mind off of your husband. Just try not to think about it so much, if you have a hobbie take that up. Even just being around those you love can help so much. You did the right thing by leaving him so give yourself a hand for being strong. Good Luck!