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  1. capricornprncess
    from personal experience, i would not. simply because i was in that situation, i wasnt out with anybody and i was dating this girl and she clearly was. it didnt work out obviously, though i did love her, i could not bring myself to be public with it, and that ended it. so to answer the question no i wouldnt.
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    there's something to be learned from quietgrl's boldness. if i've only did that with some of my past interests mm ...as the famous quote says (dont know exactly by who) "nothing ventured, nothing gained" goodluck, hope he calls
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    in my experience, it is a major turn off. First of all there's physical attraction, and date goes great, start to get a little closer and then the kiss. whoa it turned out this person is not a good kisser, what do u do? do you stay with that person until he/she learns how to kiss? um in my case no. i've tried that, went out with someone who physically was a 10! but when it came to kissing, that person sucked! i went out with that person again to see if i could work thru it but it didnt happen. So what i'm saying it depends on the person
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    i've been reading your thread and i'm really sorry for what your going thru. and her moving out right now you might not see it, but its the best thing for you. and as they say, time heals everything.... its going to be painful coming tuesday and she's not there, and even harder wednesday, but trust me in the long run itll get better. can you hang out at a friend's house on monday when she moves her stuff ? or go someplace else until tuesday? ..just get out of the house, bec. itll be painful if you see her leave....i dont know just some ideas i'm thinking of, . we're here for you!
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    congrats evanescence!!!! goodluck!
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    it makes sense of the fact that even if the situation doesnt improve, you still want her in your life, i understand that talking about it to her is not working since you've done that. my advice is to just wait it out, move in to the guestroom if you want. but just remember that after you move out of the bedroom and into the guestroom, any affections that she'll probably want to give you, you MUST stand your ground and just treat her like a roommate, since shes doing the same thing to you. Hopefully youll figure out what your going to do with this situation. goodluck!
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    wow about2giveup, i've read your thread from the beginning and frankly i dont know what to tell you, i've never been in that situation before. one question i have for you, if she decides that there's not gonna be any more intimate moments between you, will you stay with her even though there's not gonna be anything more? i know from what you posted, you love her and i can sense she's your soulmate, but being that intimacy is very important to you, are you going to adapt to life without intimacy?
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    wow thats a tough situation your in. i would keep it a secret until your financially stable and not living with your parents. same thing happened to me, i made the mistake of coming out to my parents when i was living at home, it was hell! but now i'm financially stable and have my own place they've come around a lil bit, but they still wont accept my lifestyle, but thats fine i respect their decision i love them regardless. keep it a secret until your done with school or move out of your parents house. goodluck
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    i agree with tigris. tell her. GL!
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    sevendeadlysins, i was just thinking that "lust at first sight", i'm currently dating one thats just drop dead gorgeous as u put it, just got the courage to talk to her and its being almost two months since we began dating...what i'm trying to say is ..looking is alright, go right ahead, but why not make it more interesting and talk to her, see where that gets you... goodluck!
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    yup ..theres no more guessing after this..SHE WANTS YOU!!!! GO GET HER!!! good luck
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    thanks guys for your imput..i agree with what you say, my friends say the same thing...its not only disrespectful to me but to the person she's dating. i will have to tell her to just leave me alone and part ways...i just needed a wake up call..thanks maemae lansing and jazzgirl.
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    ok...maybe this is not the right place for this but i figured i would give it a try.... i was going out with this girl a couple of weeks back...we met in june and started going out in july..things were great at first(she has a daughter) she's not older actually two years younger than me. well hanging out with her was great...we didnt have sex or anything..just heavy petting, kissing and "stuff" but not sex....anyway august comes and i know she's busy with work and of course her daughter which i totally understands but then she never found the time to hang out with me, she hung out with her friends,siblings etc...but yet she always texted me " imiss you" "i wanna see you so badly" etc...i always came out of my way to give her a chance to see me but she either was too busy or something came up and she couldnt'... i finally gave up and called it quits. i have myspace and last week she sent me a comment on my page "i miss you" etc..the same S*#t again. i responded with a friendly tone and just asked her how'd she'd been etc. well the thing is i think she's seeing someone cuz she keeps putting in her page how she's taken etc...i pay no mind to it yet she always initiates contact with me. i just shrug it off. what does she want from me? on one side she tells me she misses me and always contacts me, on the other she is dating someone else..i don't know what to do? what do you guys think abt that? want some insight on the situation. ps. i dont like her romantically anymore, just see her as i would anyone else...nothing more.
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    diggity dog hit right on the money...i am in the same boat as you but i just ended it with the person i was going out with, its not worth it, the dating period should be about having fun, getting to know each other, spend time together, with minimal to no conflicts at all. she clearly does not hold you in high regard, my advice to you is to walk out and let her know that it isn't working out for you. good luck confusedmale
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    dude ur desperate!!!!!!!! plenty of more fish in the sea. i just say let her go!!!!
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    ur not being stubborn at all MJ..i was in a similar situation with my ex two years ago..and trust me when they say they need a break is just a cowardly way of getting out of the relationship w/o actually saying it. in your case, if she really loves you, then you guys can work on it. i know that LDR can be very hard at times, and with her going to college and all...her friends must be telling her to get rid of you, which i'm afraid she's starting to listen to them. IF you guys do take a break, do it for urself as well, see if the rel. is worth your time. but give her a timeframe! never tell her to "take her time"..give her a timeframe. hope everything works out for you. keep us posted.
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    the correct number is 5 1/2..anything smaller than that is tiny..big would be bet. 8-10 inches..but c'mon women, we do not want anything bigger than 9! after 9 it is really uncomfortable.
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    hey thats kool..keep looking forward for that vegas trip and dont worry abt it..you will get over this guy, have fun in vegas and remember "what happens in vegas stays in vegas" hehe just wanted to say that. latahs!
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    dear Sbrew, on breakups that are so recent, one goes thru ups and downs, one day you feel fine the other you dont. is part of healing. STICK TO THE NO CONTACT!!!! it must be twice as hard since he lives next door, but not impossible. stick to it girl!!! keep us posted
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    the reason you didnt feel anything for that comment it was maybe because you dont think about her that way anymore, and maybe you dont want to date because ur finding yourself, so as not to make the same mistake again with the next person date.but i think your over her, not completely, but certainly almost there.
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    i agree with you ocrob, you just gave me an idea for the new year, i'm gonna set up a goal as well, backpack to europe,i've always wanted to do it but never had the guts to go by myself, and this year has been so hard for me bec. of my ex,and how things ended that i want to start fresh, ill be getting my bachelors next year and i'm psyched about that,i think its time to get up the couch and do something bec. life is too short to dwell on something that passed. kudos to you ocrob, you just inspired me to set europe as a foreseeable goal. thanks.
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    ok so i did ask the girl out, She accepted!!!! thanks guys for the advice, she turned out to be a great girl, we did go out for coffee yesterday, kept it casual, very funny. we'll see what happens, we didnt kiss though, and i like that , she kept me waiting. i'llkeep you guys posted on what happens with her.. thanks guys
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    sorry abt what happened to you watch me...same thing happened to me a year ago with my ex..everything was going well and then out of the blue she said we needed to break up..its nothing you did, you didnt do anythin g wrong, its just that maybe he has a lot of issues to deal with, and prob didnt want to drag you into it. if you cant be friends with him bec. its hard to when you have feelings for him, just tell him that, he'll understand. since your brake up was in good terms, maybe in the future you guys can be friends, but not at the present time, you need some time to heal right now.
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    hi thanks guys i'll try what you suggested chai..usually i dont have a problem talking to girls, but with her is different. and congrats tigris!! thats awesome =D> thatnks for the advice as well.. i'll keep you guys posted as to what happens this weekend. take care
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    ok hi guys, havent posted in a while now..i have a question...how do u ask a girl out? i never had problems asking a girl out..but when i'm near her i just turn stupid, can't talk, hold a conversation, nothing!! it's frustrating. she invited me to a halloween party last friday but i couldnt go bec. i had a date, but all i could think abt during the date was her. i said hi to her yesterday, and she always says hi to me..but i just dont know how to go abt it with her, why is this so difficult? any imput will be greatly appreciated.
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