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Hi everybody happy thanksgiving. Well i have posted here about my x breaking up with me 2 months ago we were together for 9 years she moved out 2 days after she broke up with me i have handled the whole breakup quite well i must say I did not beg all i asked was are u sure? and let it go. Well Yesterday morning she picked up "our" dog to take it with her to her sister's house in virginia were we have spent our last 9 years together for the holidays. When she got here in the morning she asked me two times why was i not ready to go with her? I told her no that i had many things to do this weekend. So she left 6 hours later she calls saying she was upset i said about what? so she said how come she did not get a thanksgiving gift because i sent a little something for her sister which is my best friend. So she said she was upset and jealous i told her that it was a thanks for her sister always being there for me she knows we are very close she is like a sister to me but my x made sure she told me she was upset i told her let it go. what do u think she is acting this way? thanks for the responses

Hi everybody I had posted here before about my ex of 7 weeks now and that we were together 9 years well tonight she contacted me to asked me something and ended up talking for 1 hour i must say we had a good conversation about everthing. She did say she missed me as a person that always was there for her good and bad and that she missed our friendship. Which i'm not ready for. She did tell me that she is talking to people and that she has slept with 2 people. I though that It was going to hurt me emotionally but it did not I felt nothing. I just felt like talking to an old friend just giving her advise and to watch out for people. I actually felt bad for her because she is not taking the time to find herself and find out what she wants with her life. But I did not say anything or made comments about her choices. I know I'm taking my time for myself and to feel better and when Im ready to date again it will happen but not right now for me. so what you people think about me not feeling anything? is it that i'm over her already? I was confused to not feel nothing. Thanks guys is always nice to hear your opinions

Well it was a surprised that my ex contacted me after a couple of weeks of no contact. She was just basically asking if she got any mail in the house since we lived together for 8 years. I was cool about it and told her yes so she asked to stop by to pick it up i said fine. But now as soon as I got home what i did was put her mail in a bag and put it ouside by the door so that way she does not need to ring my bell to get it I feel its best so i don't see her i have been feeling really good lately after 6 weeks of the breakup. I was actually battling inside me either to put it outside or not because i don't want it seem mean but it will show her that i don't care if i see her or not i hope i did the right thing.

hi everybody My girlfriend of 9 years just broke up with me 6 weeks ago she moved out 3 days after and it still hurts but i try my best to go on and have fun the best thing I have done is no contact. I do find myself thinking about her sometimes but i make myself stop and think that she is not thinking about me so why should i then i remember this is what she wanted to give it to her and i did noticed that i feel better when i don't know about her. If you guys want to talk or need support you can e-mail me at email removed

Hi It seems that I'm in the same boat as you guys its been 6 weeks since i got dumped by my girl of 9 years We were separated for 8 months before 2 years ago then we got back together for 2 years then 6 weeks ago its over. the same thing happens to me sometimes i dream about her and i feel alone and sad but i'm really in the no contact thing i won't call her unless is extremely life or death and i noticed that when i don't talk to her i feel better and want to go on with my life and have some fun. so the best thing is no contact. Alsothink of the bad things that they did to you i mean the worst is that we got dumped so they did not want to be with us so let them be without us let them see what they missing. The way i see it is that i don't think she even spends 5 minutes a day thinking about me so i try not to and if i catch myself thinking about her i tell myself to stop and shift into something else.