I have a common situation but I have never been in it. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. It will be a year on St. Patys day. I love her very much. I dont want to be with anyone else. I am very loyal to her. The problem is she wanted to "take a break"...
She lives 3 1/2 hours away for College and she will be there for other 2 years and we started dating with her living 3 1/2 hours away. We took turns driving to see eachother. I work Mon-Fri so I would go on the weekends and then she would come on the weekends. But we did the math and we probably saw eachother 80 hours this year. We talk on the phone everyday and every night. I went and saw her last weekend and we talked and its getting hard on her because she feels she lives 2 different lives. Because she goes to college and she lives the college life, going to school, and then goin out with friends, and my life is goto work, come home, watch tv, play videogames and then goto bed Mon-Fri. She said the temptation is hard for her when she goes out but she says she loves me...Is she just saying that we are together when Im there and then she single once Im gone? I dont know if I should actually put up with it or just say walk away now. I mean, if you love someone, you can beat temptation. I did...Am I being stubborn?
