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  1. CowgirlFromHell
    The sex was incredible. I've been with two other guys, and they were horrible. This guy was amazing, it went on for 2 hours. He just kept going, but I couldn't "go." He kept saying "God you are so beautiful." It was amazing because he actually cared about me going, and tried really really hard, and now I feel like he's avoiding me. I don't really know him, as I've said we only hung out twice. He's a really nice guy and I don't want this to be a one night stand.
  2. CowgirlFromHell
    Well, I'm supposing that I had my first one night stand. Met a guy that I knew of(live in a small town). We'd only hung out twice, and then we had sex. I called him the next day to see if he wanted to meet up but he didn't answer his phone. He called the next day but I didn't answer my phone because I was busy, and he left a message saying sorry he missed my call and to call him. I called him back but he didn't answer again, so I left a message saying "Hey, just returning your call.." Didn't hear from him for 3 days, and then he called while my phone was off (was at the hospital) He said "Just calling to see how you're doing, give me a call back." I called back and again he did not answer. It sounded like his phone was out of service and I didn't leave a message so I don't know if he knew I called. I went 3 days without calling him after that. I called him after the 3 days and he didn't answer his phone AGAIN, so I left a message "Just calling to say hi, bye now." This was 2 days ago. I have not heard anything. What the hell is going on?! lolb]
  3. CowgirlFromHell
    Well, I'm just surprised that he was being so sweet. When I say we had a bitter breakup, I mean we had a BITTER BREAKUP. It was horrible. I was very immature throughout our relationship, hanging out with guy friends, and I even told him once when we were fighting that it was over and called him an hour later and told him I wanted him back. I was a pretty horrible girlfriend, he wasn't a good boyfriend either, and we both made mistakes. I realize mine. Well, after dumping him that day, it wasn't the same. He found another girl and didn't tell me, so I had to catch them together. That was the end of our relationship for me. I believe the end for him was when I told him it was over. Anyway, we were so inceredibly mean to each other after breaking up, partly because we were still sleeping together. He started seeing another girl, and I flipped out. We didn't speak for a month. So when I saw him the other day, it was all a big surprise. He's never been so sweet. I was so confused, I didn't know if he was just being nice because he wasn't seeing the other girl anymore, or if he was being nice because he wanted desperately to get laid. (He said it had been a month and he was really in dire need of it) I called him today but he didn't answer his phone, so I guess things aren't the way they seemed. I think he just wanted to get laid. My advice to you Sad is is probably not going to be of any help now because my ex ignored my phone call, and we are not getting back together.
  4. CowgirlFromHell
    Hi all, I have quit a situation on my hands and I will make it short. My ex and I have been broken up since March, and it was a bitter breakup. On Monday I sent him a text wishing him a happy 4th and to have a good summer, and he called and we decided to meet up for ice cream. It was like when we first met, the awkwardness, the fidgeting..etc. He opened his car door for me, opened the restuarant door for me, and he paid for the ice cream. When we were together he never did any of this. It was kind of shocking, almost like a 360. During our relationship I always complained that I wanted to be treated better, and not always having to be the one to pay for things. And upon departure after getting ice cream, we hugged, and he wouldn't let go and he says "I've missed you so much." This is really sappy but my eyes welled up and I looked at him and I said "I've missed you too" and we kissed. On the ride home, he said that he was going to build a house with his buddy sometime next year, and then he stuttered and said that he would "hook me up". I asked why and he goes "Well if I'm going to be loaded I'm gunna hook you up, I'll pay your bills, whatever you need." I took this as just words, and I just figured that actions speak louder than words and ignored it. I'm leaving for Hawaii tomorrow, and he calls and tells me to have a good trip and to not pick up too many guys while I'm there. I guess the advice I'm looking for is what is going on? We had a very bitter breakup, and some hurtful things were said. I don't know if I should walk away. He was never this sweet when we were going out. I also have reservations because I believe the girl he was seeing after me dumped him, and maybe he's using me as a crutch. Any advice or suggestions would be highly appreciated, as I am very confused as to what to do. Thanks!
  5. CowgirlFromHell
    I was 20 when I got my license. I failed the test 3 times, and got so discouraged that I didn't take it for 2 more years. Eventually I decided that I really needed my license and passed. I think they felt bad haha.
  6. CowgirlFromHell
    Uhhh, do you want her to just sit there and not say anything? I'm sort of just baffled as to why you are bothered by it. You don't think that's hot? She obviously wants to please you, so again, why are you bothered? You know that Usher song that goes "I want a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed."? Well, that's what you have. I wouldn't even worry about it. Do you think that she's a promiscuous girl? I really can't understand why you are bothered by it. Please elaborate. How old are you?
  7. CowgirlFromHell
    Ok, if she's crazy, why would you break the N/C? I hate when guys say their exes are crazy, yet still continue contact with them. If she's nuts, leave her alone!
  8. CowgirlFromHell
    WOW, that rant just totally covered all the aspects of my relationship with my ex. It seemed like he kept me on the backburner during our whole relationship too, and then he found some girl he liked better and cheated on me with her. This was three months ago and the longest we've gone without communication is a week. He keeps calling me, won't go away, but I've never told him to go away. In a way, I enjoyed the games. I woudln't call him, but when he called I would be elated, knowing I had won. Sick, I know. Well, I don't think he will be calling me now, I went psycho on him the other night, blew up his phone with phone call after phone call, all of which he ignored. Left him like 3 messages, telling him how in love with him I was(I was drunk, but I don't think he knew that, I sounded completely coherent) . So yea, if you want him to leave you alone, I suggest doing something like that lol.
  9. CowgirlFromHell
    WOW, you'd think by the time someone reaches that age, the games would stop. He sounds just like my ex, with all the games and constant BS. It was like he was always trying to one up me. It was pure torture and I don't know why I put myself through that time and time again. It takes alot to let go, even if you know they are not right for you. Just try as hard as you can not to call him. He's going to call you, trust me, but don't make the same mistake I did by going back to him. It's going to be more games, more BS, and more one-upping. Be strong and good luck.
  10. CowgirlFromHell
    Well, considering the fact that he cheated on me, I don't feel I should be nice to him. I did everything for him during our relationship. Did his college papers for him, paid for mostly everything, etc. I was TOO nice, let him walk all over me. That is my fault, but I don't feel I have to be nice to him anymore. We broke up. I was pretty horrible to him during the initial stage of the breakup, acted really immature, but he always came back a week or so after drama ensued. He's not a nice guy by all means. He tells me he's a player, doesn't want any chick to be his woman, doesn't care about any girl, told me I was crazy and that I stalked him, told me he played me. He told me if I got pregnant to have someone kick me in the stomach and that he would move miles away just to avoid the responsibility. So I feel that I don't have to be nice to him for everything he's said or done. I've admitted my wrong-doings, I acted really immature as shown in the previous post, but he always comes back.
  11. CowgirlFromHell
    Wow Goddess, that sounds just like my situation. My ex and I still see each other, but we are not exclusive anymore. We have sex like once a week, and we only meet for that reason. He's also seeing another girl, and for some reason I'm not particularly bothered by it. I care for him alot, I'm not madly in love with him like I once was, but I do care for him. I do have some feelings of attachment but I keep them in check. However, I'm always wondering how it is that he can not have any kind of attachment towards me, or this other girl. It's so baffling. I don't understand how people do that. He is young, 23, and he's really not ready for a relationship by any means. Maybe your guy is the same way? Is he young? My ex says he's not settling down til at least 30 and wants to play the field, which is understandable since he is very good looking. He says no girl is his woman, doesn't want a girlfriend. That's fine with me, I'm just glad he's my friend. I think the young guys just don't want to settle down with any one girl, no matter how perfect she is. I think our guys are just not ready for the commitment and want to see what's out there, even if we are the perfect girl.
  12. CowgirlFromHell
    I just have a really simply and honest question. How can a guy have sex with a girl repeatedly and not form any kind of emotional attachment? What is it that keeps them from becoming attached to a girl?
  13. CowgirlFromHell
    Well, I'll just give a brief rundown of my recent breakup. 1. Boyfriend found someone else and failed to mention this to me. I show up at his house unannounced while the other girl is there and proceed to bang on the doors and windows for 20 min until he talks to me. End of the relationship. 2. After the breakup, I called him 20 times in a row one night until he picked up his cell phone. I went psycho. He was VERY angry. 3. We continue speaking, but it always ends up in fights and drama. We are very mean to each other, saying horrible things, alot of drama ensued after the breakup. 4. I hear he shows up at my favorite bar with his new gf. I get PISSED. I call him and tell him never to go there again, screaming at the top of my lungs, drunk. He went there because he was meeting his friend, which is believable since we live in a small town, I just assumed he did it to make me jealous. My point; he still calls me. He still tries to get me to go see him. I could blow up his beloved mustang, and he would still call. I don't call him as much, if he doesn't hear from me in a week, he calls. No matter how psycho I go on him, how mean I am to him, he always comes back.
  14. CowgirlFromHell
    That stuff works wonders! I noticed a difference in about 5 days, and I was overjoyed. One of my friends always makes fun of my "translucent" skin, but after a week she was like "Wow, I can't see through you anymore." I use it everday, love the stuff. It doesn't really turn you orange, but my ankles are a little darker than the rest of me but it's hardly noticeable. I give the stuff an A +.
  15. CowgirlFromHell
    This story reminds me so much of my ex and I. We also rushed into a relationship and spent all of our free time together. We broke up 3 months ago because he decided to see someone else on the side and failed to mention this to me. I loved him, still do, and for three months we argued, mostly because I was confused. We still slept together after we broke up because I still had feelings for him, and he said he felt the same way. He said he didn't want to have a gf, but I would always be his number one girl and when the time came for him to settle down, he would do it with me. Talk about confusing. I know now what his motives were, he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He didn't love me, he just kept me around til something better came along. He told me I was young, beautiful, and should just have fun and not settle down. I believed this for a week. Yea, maybe that's what he wants for himself, but I myself cannot handle that. I want to be monogamous with one person. It seems to me like your ex is young, I would guess 22 or 23, am I right? Guys that age, I find, have a hard time settling down with one girl for any extended amount of time. How long did you guys date for? I would say move on to greener pastures, find an older guy whose more mature and looking to be in it for the long haul. Your ex sounds like he just doesn't want a relationship with anyone.
  16. CowgirlFromHell
    My boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me, I believe, because I didn't fulfill his emotional needs. I gave him the greatest sex ever in the hopes that he wouldn't cheat. Silly me for thinking sex was everything and the only thing that would keep him. Our sex life mirrored pornography. But while I was so consumed in pleasing him amazingly, I neglected his emotional needs and he found someone else to fulfill that. This is all in hindsight, I don't know if that's why he cheated, but looking back, our whole relationship was based on sex. No one can say why men cheat, but one man told me that it's really unreasonable to believe that our needs as human beings can be met solely by one person. One woman can meet his sexual needs, another could meet his emotional and vice versa. This actually made alot of sense to me, I don't know if it does to anyone else.
  17. CowgirlFromHell
    I wouldn't necessarily call it cheating. If she's not being totally open with you about their relationship, I would be a little worried. I have alot of guy friends, I go out with them every Saturday. My now ex despised the fact that I hung out with guys. I would invite him to come out with us, to meet my friends, but he always declined. Saturdays he would go out with his single buddies to different bars, and I didn't mind. I was always really honest about the people I hung around with, and most of these people I've the funny things that happened. I really have no girl friends to hang out with, and I get along better with guys, and this really ticked off my ex. I'm very attractive, and most people would assume that these guys only hang out with me for one thing, and he always told me that was the reason they hung out with me. They never tried anything with me, and they know if they did they would get a busted lip, but my bf didn't trust me. I think you should talk to her about this, or at least ask if you can all go out together sometime. If she's not up for that, I'd be reaaaaal worried.
  18. CowgirlFromHell
    You are mature bittersweetly. The fact that you are not vindictive towards your ex shows that. When I'm slighted, I feel the need for revenge, almost like a kid who gets revenge on their schoolmate for breaking or stealing their toys. It could also have something to do with me being a Scorpio, haha J/K. I'm just surprised no one has admitted to trashing someone's car, or paintballing their house. Somebody on this forum must have done something to that effect!
  19. CowgirlFromHell
    I'm just wondering what everyone thinks about who should say I love you first. Girl or guy? Does it matter? I was going out with my bf for 4 months and I let it slip. He says "I know you do and I love everything about you." I wasn't mad, I just figured he wasn't ready. He told me not to get mad if he didn't say it back. I said it once more, and he said the same thing. I feel like an idiot for having said it, but we're broken up now so it doesn't matter. Anybody want to tell me how they first said it?
  20. CowgirlFromHell
    I was spoiled by my parents growing up. I'm 22 now, and I could still get what I want from them. I've only been in 2 relationships, but my selfishness got in the way. I was never happy with my partner, always thinking they could do more for me. I just broke up with the 2nd guy recently. To make a long story short, I dumped him one day out of the blue because I felt I wasn't being treated fairly. He never took me out, and when we did go out, he complained about the money. The guy was pretty cheap. I don't know if he was just being a jerk, or if it had something to do with my being spoiled and wanting him to spend all his money on me. When I did pay for things I never got a thank you. We got back together though, because I thought I was being ridiculous and being too hard on him. But I guess he didn't take the relationship seriously after that because he found someone else. He failed to tell me he found someone else, though and strung me along, told me he had to work alot more and we couldn't hang out as much. I caught on pretty quick. I keep thinking if only I hadn't been so selfish, he wouldn't have found someone else.
  21. CowgirlFromHell
    I think I have you all beat haha. I dumped my boyfriend because I sensed something wasn't right in the relationship, but a couple days later we decided to hang out. A half hour before I was supposed to show up, he calls and says he has to work and I did not believe him. I drove by his house and noticed there was a girl there so I went up and banged on his door for 15 min until he came to talk to me. Turns out that feeling of something not right in our relationship was dead on, he was cheating. I was yelling at him, asking him why he cheated on me, no tears, just screaming mostly, all in front of this unsuspecting girl. She dumped him, too. I also did the no eating, crying all day, staying in bed all day thing. That lasted about a week. I found a website (link removed) and sent him a prank envelop, both to his work and his home that was from a Homosexual Society. Oh yes, and I heard that he brought his new girlfriend to the bar I like to go to on weekends, and I called him and reamed him a new BEEEP. I told him not to go there. Not the smartest thing on my part, but he knows I'm still hurt and I felt that was really disrespectful. So yea I think I've got you all beat lol
  22. CowgirlFromHell
    Personally, I would trash all of it, or at least keep it at the bottomless pit of my closet for a long time. If you want to heal, I suggest just keeping reminders out of view for a while until you can deal. When I broke up with my ex, I only had one reminder of him; a stuffed moose. I threw it away, mostly because of the fact that he cheated on me, and was really heartbroken.
  23. CowgirlFromHell
    Whatever you do, do not sleep with your ex! Friends with benefits only benefits one person in the equation; there is always one person who is not happy with the situation. Believe me, I know. I continued to sleep with my ex for 3 months after our breakup, while he was seeing another girl! I feel horrible having done such, and it totally delayed my healing process. The only reason I slept with him afterwards was to hold onto him, it was a false sense of hope. Don't do that to yourself.
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