brokenhearted929

Oh my gosh, I feel for you right now. I unfortunately think your suspicions are right on target. You have to be sneeky yourself and get some evidence. Sometimes its the not knowing even when you feel like you don't want the truth. Men like this will deny even when you finally get your evidence in black and white. I just don't understand myself why they do this. But try to get the evidence you don't want to jepordize your family if you are wrong..

All encouragement I received from your replies is what I needed. And when I said great guy what I meant was under normal circumstances he was never abusive or mean as many past relationships that I pick. Yes I understand cheating is abusive. I just didn't understand Why he would lie to me about loving and wanting a life with me? One said I am holding on to pain and distrust, I guess I don't know anything else in my life from childhood on and maybe it's time to figure out What my Problem is.. Thanks to all replies. I needed them!!

My boyfriend of 2.5 years is a cheater. I caught him last year and he swore it would never happen again. Now I have caught him with someone he met on a sexsearch on the internet. I love him so much and he is a great guy but I know now I was played by him. I'm finding it so hard as to WHY? He just tells me that they are Ho's I'm not , but what does that mean? They are good enough for his sex and I'm good enough to do dishes. I just don't understand!! It hurts so BAD. I's effecting my whole life physically and mentally. I know the proper thing to do is leave. I just don't know why he tells me he wants children with me. He askes me to marry him. We are looking for a new house to buy together. I'ts not that he needs me financially. Does anyone know why someone would screw with peoples emotions like that. He does'nt love me like he says so why say it. I ask him all these questions all I get is nowhere. There is really nothing lacking in the relationship according to him. Can someone help me understand a little better. I'm not that strong to handle this.