army wife

I wouldn't stress out to much. I think it will all work out in the end. Sometimes people just need time alone to think about things. Just let him know that you understand and you will be waiting for him to come back. But it sounds like you two really do have something.

Thank you all so much for your advice. I have been really upset for days about this. It looks like I will just have to do alittle secret investigating. Thanks agian for everyones replies.

About my friend being in a relationship. She is 17 and has a boyfriend. They have alot of problems. She says he is to needy for attention. She had a relationship last summer with my brother-in-law and claims she is still in love with him and she was talking to a 33 year old at her work all at the same time. So that could be a reason I don't feel good about her hanging around when I'm not home. My husband just came home from a year and a half in Iraq. We have always had problems with him ignoring me. But since he has been home it seems almost like he doen't care anymore or would rather be somewhere else. I keep thinking that could be because he has alot on his mind. Mabey he is still trying to settle in. I have confronted him about my feelings. He just says that its rediculus and that she is just a kid.

My husband works second shift and I work first. Lately my friend has been coming to my house will I am at work and he is at home. The first time I knew she was coming out here because he needed to put a part on her car. After he put the part on the car they come inside. He claims he was doing the dishes and "talking" to my friend while my daughter was in the other room cutting her hair off. The second time I met her on the road as I was coming home and she was coming from my house. I didn't say anything to my husband about me seeing her at first. Then about 20 minutes later I said "so how long was so and so here" he said "yeah she came over to see you" Lately when she is around all she talks about is my husband. And he used to get off work around 1 o'clock in the morning now he comes in around 3 or 4"oclock in the morning. He says they just have alot of work. With the holiday coming up. I have been married for almost 8 years. I don't want to overreact and lose him. I just feel it in my gut that something is wrong.