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    Yeah, ill be happy no matter who wins, but of course I am leaning towards Indy because I have followed them since I was 6 years old and had to watch them stink on ice for a long time until they got where they are today.
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    Hey Andy, One of the lessons I have learned in life is that you can't please everybody, so there is no use trying. You really need to come to a decision about what is best for you. Your cousin certainly isn't putting your best interests at heart.
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    That is kind of the way I feel too. To me it used to be a really cut and dry issue, but after reading some of these threads I wonder if my thinking has been shortsighted. I think you are right, that it is up to the person that was cheated on. Hahaha. You know what is tough for me? The Bears are my second favorite team. The Colts are my favorite in the AFC (I was born in Indianapolis) and the Bears are my favorite team in the NFC (my whole family is from Chicago).
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    I noticed I got approached by girls a lot more between the ages of 17-20 than I did from say 21-25.
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    Sleeping with a woman you don't care about is one thing. Sleeping with your cousin is something else entirely different.
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    I have read various threads over the past two years about people who have been cheated on and stayed together with their partner that cheated on them. Though it is not my place to judge, I can't help but think that they are weak because I view a person that stays with their cheating partner as not valuing themselves. After I think that, I start to doubt my own line of thinking and wonder if perhaps the person that was cheated on and stays with their partner is actually stronger, because they love the person that cheated so much that they are able to look past what happened, forgive them, work on what caused the problem and move on. Maybe it has nothing to do with strength or weakness after all. I don't know. What are your thoughts?
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    Right on man, I hope it makes things easier for you.
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    Owning a house in Irvine at 25 is pretty impressive dude. I used to work in Irvine and bar hop at the Spectrum. Irvine is a little bit more difficult of a place to meet nice girls IMO, but I also think that there are nice people everywhere so hang in there man.
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    Crash - Dave Matthews Band
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    Great point Beec!
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    When I heard break up lines like that it was all a bunch of clicks and whistles to me. blah blah blah I am breaking up with you blah blah blah.
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    When in doubt, change your cell phone number. I did it a few times in my past when the girl just didn't get the damn hint. Sure it is kind of a nuisance letting your friends know your new number, but in my mind it was well worth it. I did the same thing back in the days of pagers.
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    Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye Master and Servant - Depeche Mode Sea of Sin - Depeche Mode Bump N Grind - R Kelly Doin' It - LL Cool J
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    Man that is one hell of a way to lose your virginity. I am a little surprised to hear there were no rubber sheets or gerbils involved. I agree with LostInMyThoughts. If it comes up I would tell her you aren't a virgin anymore, but the details aren't any of her business.
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    If you are worried that some got through, you can go to a Planned Parenthood or a clinic and get the morning after pill.
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    Maybe you should write the letter, but just not send it. It might help to just get it all out on paper for yourself, but not for his benefit.
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    From what he says it sounds like he is interested in you. I mean if he is telling you he likes to hear your voice I think that is clearly a positive sign.
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    It doesn't make sense to me, but if I were to take a guess I would say that if the person were trying to get caught they were either trying to get out of the marriage, or they were seeking revenge against their partner. I am sure there would be other reasons, but those are the two that immediately come to my mind.
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    Hey Robert. A fan of The Cure? A relative of mine's wife cheated on him and then married the guy she was having the affair with. As far as I know, she is still married so I guess it worked out for her.
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    Phone number. Always phone number. Email isn't very personal, and in the beginning of a relationship you really need to set the tone by communicating effectively. Plus, not everyone checks their email frequently.
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    Ordinarily I would tell you to dump a cheater, but since you are having counseling, what I would suggest is to go with an open mind. I think what you really need to do is focus on what is good for YOU. Hopefully you will realize that you deserve better than someone who treats you this way.
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    I think it is possible, however I believe that the friendship will likely end when one or the other meets someone new and they don't like their new boyfriend/girlfriend hanging out with their ex. To my line of thinking it is only delaying the inevitable. Then there are those that are friends with their ex's simply because they want to get back together with them.
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    You don't rebute that. You have no argument. It is her life. However, you need to keep in mind that you have a choice. You don't have to be with someone that chooses to be a barfly. You can be free to work on yourself and be with someone that you WANT to be with, not someone you feel obligated to be with. You just have to have the courage to leave, for your own sake. Finding the courage is easy; think about how badly this girl has treated you in the past. Multiply it by 10 and you will have your future. It won't get better with a ring on her finger.
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