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  1. Iceman26
    It sounds like your first date went really well! Personally when I was single I never tried to kiss on the first date. I didn't have a rule about it, I just avoided awkwardness. I felt that if the girl went out with me again, the next time would be more appropriate. I digress. Yes, I would call her up to go out again.
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    He just met her. She doesn't know him well enough yet to miss him.
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    And poke at you like the Pillsbury Doughboy.
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    Obviously your boyfriend's family caters to the grandpa so I'd just be flat out honest with him. Tell him you respect his grandfather and his love for his grandfather, but you don't want to be around him, especially around dinnertime and bedtime. #1 and especially #2 would bug the crap out of me.
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    I would call again tomorrow and leave a message asking her to give you a call back when she is free. If she doesn't call back I would move on.
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    You wouldn't know what you were or weren't missing because you would be dead.
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    Essentially, my example response to her email would hopefully start no contact, yes.
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    I would write her and tell her thanks for the well wishes, you are glad she is doing well, but you need some time before you are able to have communications/friendship with her, and at the end of the email, say thank you to her for being understanding of your wishes.
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    I found that learning from the experience and forgiveness of yourself were the two key things that helped me get over bad relationships.
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    Though you don't want to, I would end the relationship. It sounds like you have given it your all, why let her drag you down with her? You can't change people unless they want to change, and she doesn't sound like someone that wants to change the way she feels about herself. That kind of behavior gets old really quick and life is just too short.
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    Do you want to maintain a real friendship with her, with the possibility she may not date you again or do you want to move on?
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    Agreed. I would also ask what you would want out of a relationship with this girl? You already know that she accepts drinks, flirts, and confides in other potential suitors about how bad her relationship with her boyfriend is going. Is this someone you would really want to date or is she just someone you want sleep with?
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    I feel she only wrote that email to ease whatever guilt she is feeling over the two of you breaking up, and to encourage you to be friends with her brother again. If it were me I'd write back and say "Thanks for the well wishes" as a subtle way of telling that person they need not write me anymore. That is just my 3 cents.
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    I think this is a good idea. I would suggest rescheduling the date until after she has completed the move to her new place.
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    This is a big problem, and I hope you are going to be able to work through this one. Good luck to you Hootz.
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    Man I read both of your posts about this girl and I'll one up what DN said. Don't walk away, run like hell. This is someone that doesn't take accountability for her actions, nor does she care about your feelings. I have dated more than a few girls that acted like this and trust me when I tell you that you will be better off with someone else. The bottom line is she would rather spend time with her friends and avoid hanging out with you, so you wouldn't you be better off with someone that would make you a priority?
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    Has she been into hanging out with her friends this much your entire marriage, or is this a recent thing? She says you get offended easily. What is it she says that you take offense to? The reason I am asking these questions is because what from what I am reading it doesn't sound like you are a priority of hers. Another thing I noticed is that SHE had the problem, yet you were the one that moved out. That is your house too, and you aren't the one having doubts here.
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    Has spending a lot of time with her friends been a priority of hers? What I mean is do you feel she puts them above you? What is it about her hanging out with her friends that makes you feel insecure? What kind of positive feedback are you looking for?
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    I am curious to hear as to what has been going on with her friends that have made you feel as if they are more important.
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    Whattheheck - I am curious if there is something she did that made you wonder about the number of partners she has had 8 months into the relationship. The reason i am asking is because normally this is something people ask at the beginning of a relationship, not more than half a year into it. When i was younger I worried about numbers too, until I realized that in the grand scheme of things is doesn't matter. If I were in your shoes and you have concerns about her past I would just get a blood test done for the both of you.
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    Its another way to tell someone to f*** off.
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    I would give her a call tomorrow. You gotta strike while the iron is hot. I wouldn't make plans with her over the weekend though. When I was single I always made first dates during the week when I could, because if the date is a bust you haven't wasted a weekend day.
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    Normally this happens when a guy is checking out T or A and doesn't want to get caught and possibly face a rude reprisal. That, or he is shy.
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    But where does it stop? Two hundred years from now people could have like 10 last names. I just started a genealogical chart for my family so our children can see where they came from, on both my side and my wife's side. In my opinion, it serves the same purpose, and if my kids don't like their last name then they can change it when they are legally able to.
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