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Usually when a guy friend of mine comes over, we watch movies, walk around outside, swim, play video games (if I'm willing to be humiliated at how badly I am at them), or just sit around and talk. But that doesn't happen too often, usually we're all in a big group hanging out at each other's houses like bums lol. But if you're worried about things getting too boring when its just you and her, I'd suggest inviting someone else. JyNx
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That's really helpful, thanks DaXMan. I've only known him for a little over a year, so as you can see it's not all that long for him to be looking out for me. But then again maybe he is. I told my best girlfriend about this and she's known him far longer than I have. She said he probably likes me. I just wish he'd tell me instead of doing all of this. JyNx
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I agree with sisterlynch. The best thing you can do is simply tell her. If you wait too long and she finds out (believe me, she will eventually..things like this always always come out), she's going to be mad at you for sleeping with him AND for not telling her the truth. After all, best friends keep no secrets between each other, right? If your friendship is strong, you'll get through this bump...it will take time, but it's possible. If it's not strong, however, you may lose her as a friend. JyNx
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I know where you're coming from...I was in the same situation last year, granted my parents still fight and argue all the time. But if you hate being at home, go do something outside. Join a club or team at school. Spend more time with your friends...but the most important thing to do is just talk to your family about this. The sooner you get it out of your system the better you'll feel in the long run. You dont deserve this, no one does. Talk to them. JyNx
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I dont think he knows something I dont, because honestly the two of them have never even talked to each other directly. I honestly am in love with my boyfriend...whereas Jimmy and I are just friends, atleast in my eyes. I just dont understand what other motives he'd have. Like today for example, he asked me, "What would your boyfriend do if I told him you were cheating on him with me?" I asked what his reason for even saying that was and all he said was he was just wondering...then he quickly looked away. JyNx
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I have the same problem...I'm very self conscious, or atleast I was up until I met my boyfriend. He gave me the confidence I needed, and his opinion is what matters to me now. But before you can be fine with yourself, you have to accept you for who you are and be happy. I'm also not a good picture person, I hate pictures...but some do come out looking nice, so my advice would be just go with it. It's probably all in your head. It'll take time, but tell yourself you're confident and eventually it'll happen. JyNx
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He's constantly flirting with me...tickling my sides and messing around with my hair and constantly keeps eye contact. I'm guessing those are the kinds of signs you're talking about, right? JyNx
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My guyfriend Jimmy and I have become closer this school year. We have a class together, lunch, and he rides my bus...so we've been talking alot more. These past few days he's been talking about my boyfriend more than usual. He always says things like I should dump him, that I can do better...today he said that he thinks he's just using me. He's also very critical of him. I don't get it...why the sudden interest in who I date? Does he like me? Does he just not like my bf? I'm really confused because he's sending mixed signals...help! JyNx
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It definetely sounds like she likes you. Girls usually do that when they're interested. Go ahead and flirt around with her, see where things go! JyNx
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I dont think you're taking him away from his friends. In order for a relationship to last both of you have to make room for each other AND for your friends. It's not right that he all of the sudden changed his mind like that...did you talk to him about this? It might help to get his side of this out in the open. Have you guys fought before those two fights? I wish I could be more help... JyNx
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Need help cheering her up and fixing things
JynX replied to ConfusedWithThings's topic in Relationship Advice
It sounds like you really do love her...I wish you luck with everything! The ideas that you have sound good as they are, but I'd suggest doing something very romantic as well. Girls are suckers for those. A candle lit dinner, a sunset at the beach, or even something as simple as a list of the things you love about her. That doesnt seem like much, but it means alot. My bf did something like that for me the other night and every time I read over that list I remember all our good times and laughs and memories. JyNx -
I dont have a doubt that he loves you...it sounds like he does. To some guys marriage is a very big step. It may be one he's not ready for. By avoiding the subject, thats the message he's sending out. I dont see the hurry...you've only been together for a year. The best time to get married is when you're BOTH ready for it...otherwise it wont work out. JyNx
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Boyfriend still mad over cheating I did 4 months ago
JynX replied to huckleberry-jinx's topic in Infidelity
What I dont understand is you say you love your boyfriend...if you love him why cheat? So what if he was going away for a little bit? It hurts me to even THINK of how my bf would feel if I did that to him. It'd completely destroy me if something like that actually happened and I hurt him this bad. He and I had times where we were both away and didn't see each other for a few weeks, but during that time no other guy was in my head, at all, because what I feel for him is true love. In my opinion, and I dont mean to sound harsh, but if you really loved him you would have never cheated in the first place. Maybe you're the type who needs constant attention from guys? If that's the case...I'm sorry, but you dont deserve your boyfriend. The fact that he's still with you shows he cares and you're making his sudden bitterness to be something that's not your fault. It is your fault. Like pretty much everyone here said, it's really hurting him now that the reality is starting to kick in. I'm sorry if this was harsh...but I didn't know any other way to put that. JyNx -
Thanks guys...it all makes sense now lol. And like you all said, guys arent complicated, its us girls, the complicated ones, who make guys seem complicated. Alright I just confused myself on that one...>. JyNx
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Hmn...that's exactly what my boyfriend said lol. I still don't get it...but guys are an unsolved mystery, as I've already come to find out. Thanks for replying! JyNx
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Lately I've found myself wondering...why do guys find it so exciting to watch two chicks kissing or making out? Is it just a guy thing or what? I'd appreciate it if ya'll could shine some light on this topic for me... JyNx
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"If you arent willing to risk it all you dont want it bad enough" as many people have told me in the past. True words. My advice would be to go for it and ask her out. The worst that can happen is her saying no. If that's the case atleast you'll know and can move on to someone else. JyNx
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The mall is always a good place. Or join some clubs at school. This year I did volleyball and met tons of new people that are now my good friends. Try to get your current friends to introduce you to their other friends and so forth. Hope this somehow helps! JyNx
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Need advice...Quick!!!!
JynX replied to confused chicky's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Getting over someone isnt the easies task in the world, but it's not impossible. Before you sit down to study, go and hang out with your friends, forget your problems for a few hours. Go for a walk somewhere. Listen to music and think about things. When you start crying, dont stop; let it all out. After a few hard break downs, it'll become less frequent. I've been there before and it wasnt a blast...but I got over it and so can you! Just keep a positive outlook on things, dont let yourself get depressed over a guy...they're not worth it. JyNx -
I think both of you need a break from each other. A little distance won't hurt, and if it's meant to be, it'll strengthen what foundation you guys already have. If it doesnt work out, however, you'll see right away it wasnt meant to be and wont waste any more of your time on something that just wont happen. JyNx
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There's nothing unusual about hanging around your ex. My ex bf for example, is my best friend so it's kinda hard not to hang out with him. Maybe it's the same situation with her. Did you ask? Personally I think you overreacted just a bit. Did you feel like she still had feelings for the guy? If that's the case, I'd agree with your course of actions. But if not...I'm not sure. There really isnt much you can do until you find out what her stand on this is. Sorry I couldnt be more help. JyNx
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I say go ahead and go for it. The worst she can say is no. Besides, by you asking her again will show her you still care. Maybe the awkwardness you've been feeling from her is her not knowing how to tell you she and him broke up. Only thing is, I would ask her right now, give her some time to get over her last relationship. JyNx
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I'm afraid there's no easy or gentle way to say that. Is it possible for you to drive over and see her, since its only an hour apart? If it is, I'd say talk to her about this in person and be honest. She will get mad, yes, but you have a right to tell her how you feel and a right to be happy. She needs to see that. Maybe after you talk to her in person and she cant just hang up to avoid the subject, there will be some improvement. And you may find that she's having the same thoughts, but just didnt bring them up. Just remember, whatever happens, happens. JyNx
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I liked it...beautifully written! Keep it up! JyNx
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My Dad had the same problem as you. He wasnt sure if it was ADHD or not, so he surfed around the net for a while and learned about it. Later he decided to go see his doctor and get tested for it. Indeed, he had it. After he got prescribed some sort of pill, he's been a changed man. He even told me so many times. I've also noticed he's been alot happier with his life. So my advice would be to simply go to the doctor and get his opinion on it. After all, what have you got to lose? JyNx