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    If she's having problems with her boyfriend and is turning to you for a shoulder to lean on, great. For right now, I'd say be her friend. Dont try to push another relationship on her until this one is completely gone and over with. In time I'm sure she'll realize you trully do care and whatever happens afterwards happens. Good luck! JyNx
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    lonely

    JynX replied to khujo56's topic in Dating Advice

    I was always taught: best things always happen when you least expect them. During the years that statement proved its worth. If you keep waiting and waiting for love to show up, most likely it never will. Before anything else, you have to be happy and secure about where you currently are, single or not. Hope this helps. JyNx
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    That was very beautifully written...if you ever decide to give it to someone special I'm positive they'll love it. Thanks for sharing it and keep up the good work! JyNx
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    Beautiful poem...please keep writing! You have true talent! JyNx
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    This is something I wrote a while back...it's something I might give my mother one day so she'll see my point of view on hers and mine relationship...please comment! *I'm Sorry* I'm sorry I'm not perfect I'm sorry I'm not you I'm sorry I keep trying and never make it through I'm sorry I'm not good enough I'm sorry I'm just me I'm sorry that I need you in ways I always do I'm sorry that you've hurt me I'm sorry my scars won't heal I'm sorry for my pillow and all the tears it's seen I'm sorry you didn't want me I'm sorry that I came I'm sorry I keep waisting your precious time in vain I'm sorry that you're sorry I'm sorry we are through Most of all I'm sorry I've cried these tears of pain JyNx
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    Great poem...it shows alot of emotions...some of it is rather confusing. But great job! I enjoyed reading it. JyNx
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    I'd have to agree with avman. If your daughter is happy to be with her father, that's all that matters. No matter what your current boyfriend may think or say about the situation, its no reason to deprive her of a father. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and I havent seen or talked to my Dad since then...trust me, life is alot harder without your biological father. You just feel empty and alone inside, as if a part of you will always be missing. Don't let that happen to your daughter. And if he's changing like you said he was, then I dont see what your boyfriends issue is. It'd be a different story if he was still abusive. Hope this helps! JyNx
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    She might just need some personal space right now. Or maybe she has some problems, life family for instance. If that's the case, there really isnt anything you can do except be patient and wait until she's ready to talk about things. Hope this helps some. JyNx
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    To me it honestly doesnt matter how many times you go out with the same person again and again. As long as you two still like each other, go out and have fun. Dont let numbers get in your way. Hope this helped. Good luck! JyNx
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    People say you dont treasure something until its gone, and that seems to be the case here. Break ups are hard to get over and take time, but eventually you'll move on with a new person, unless, of course, you love this girl. Then...it may be more difficult. As for your questions, lonelyness might play a part, but then again you have kissed 5 other girls, so it looks like you can get a gf easily. As for the fear of not finding someone else, the fact that you've kissed other girls after her shows you're capable of getting someone. I hope this helped. Good luck! JyNx
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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. Truthfully this is my best relationship I've ever had. We never fight, I feel true love for him, and things are just great. What's not so great is my parents. They say he and I see each other too much, which is bull. The only time I get to see him is during school and sometimes on weekends. So now my mom has this theory that we spend too much time together and that I need to be at home with the "family". I havnt seen my boyfriend for a week now and today asked if he could come over. Her reply was "You need to be here at home with me." When i told her I havent seen him in over a week she just acts as if it doesnt matter. It really makes me mad. I feel very happy with him and what she's doing now is hurting me. Even his mom says that my parents are being unfair. What can I do? Do I talk to my parents? If so, do I need to mention that I'm the only person out of my group of friends who doesnt see her boyfriend during the school week? My friend Britt and her bf see each other every day and their parents are fine with it. I just dont see why mine are being like this. I guess it could be because this is my first real relationship and they're unused to it, but then again they're the ones who supposivly want me to be happy. If thats the case, why not just let my bf and me hang out more than twice a week? I'd apreciate any advice on this...I really dont know what to do. Thanks, JyNx
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    Generally when you break up with someone you have a stable reason as to why. From what I've read you broke up with her for...well, nothing. Maybe you're just scared of committment because of past experiences? That was my problem a little while back. If that's the case, take a chance. If you arent willing to risk it all you dont want it bad enough, someone once told me. True words to go by. If you do love her, why break up the relationship? Maybe you're afraid of 'love' or maybe it's not love at all. You didnt give a lot of information to base this with...so I hope this somehow helps. JyNx
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    I agree with Maggie. It's obvious he's moved on, and if he didnt, then he has a funny way of showing it. The worst thing you can do in this situation is make it obvious that you want him back. Grovelling and begging just isnt worth it. If its meant to be, it'll happen. Maybe in time he'll realize he still feels something for you. If that's the case and you still want him, good luck! Im not too good at giving advice, but hope this helps! JyNx
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    Thanks for all your replies. Yes, I have talked to her about just letting me be who I am and backing out of constantly comparing Diana and me, but the conversation always goes down the same road. She says that I'm exhageratting and that she isnt comparing me to Diana, or she says that she's just trying to help me. I'm sorry, but thats not the kind of help a 15 year old teenager wants. ...But I suppose thats never going to change. Thanks again! JyNx
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    Hi For as long as I remember, my mother has always compared me to her best friends daughter, Diana. Diana is two years older than me and we've been close friends for almost 4 years now. She and I are opposite: her main focus in life is school, she doesnt date at all, and she rarely goes against her mother's wants and donts. She's basically the all around perfect daugher my mother wants me to magically poof into. But thats not me at all. I love my boyfriend and cant see myself without him. School is important to me, but I dont devote all of my free time on it. I do enough to make good grades, and I do make good grades. But my mother always always compares me to Diana. Earlier she asked me, "Why cant you be like her and not worry so much over your love life?" It hurts me to know that no matter what I do I'll never be good enough for her...I just wish she'd see what her expectations do to me. I know if she could she'd change pretty much everything about me...but the person she wants me to be and the person I am are two different people...and I'll never be like Diana, we're too different. I am who I am...wish she'd see that. If anyone has any advice on how I can get her to see that or just anything else, I'd apreciate it. Thanks, JyNx
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    Hi Lately I've been hearing many different opinions on the simple four letter word. I still have to make up my mind on what it means to me. What does love mean to you and how do you know when you've found it and not just a simple crush? If you'd please respond and give me your opinion I'd apreciate it. Thanks, JyNx
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    thanks a lot...that was just what I needed to hear. i do trust him, i guess its just me i'm still having trouble trusting. and you are right, its happiness i'm so not used to but hopefuly in time all this will leave my head and quit bothering me!
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    Hey Physicaly I dont have any problems with my looks so that cant be it...but it very well may be trust issues...thanks for both of your replies, they've helped some.
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    Hey I'm new here and still trying to figure out how to use this...but while I'm here I thought I'd bring up a problem I've been noticing. My boyfriend and I have known each other since summer started. With my past history, I told myself I'd never love again, but when i met him it all changed. He's everything I could ever ask for and more. I guess you can say we've clicked. We've been dating for a few months now. I can honestly say I've fallen in love with him. I think about him constantly, when I had a bad day all it takes is to see him for me to smile again, and each time he touches me it sends a small shiver down my body. Now I've been having mixed emotions. I'm afraid something will happen and I'll lose him. Im the kind of person who doesnt like to get attatched to people because in past experiences each time I'd get close to someone and let them in, one of three things would ALWAYS happen: 1) something would happen and i'd move somewhere new and eventually lose them 2) I'd somehow mess things up or 3) they'd backstab me. So inturn I dont trust people easily. Lately I've been really scared that the same thing would happen with me and him. I just dont ever want to lose him...but I've been feeling some distance ever since school started. I dont know if its just me or him or something else. It could be thatt now that school started we get to see less of each other, but what if I'm the one who's slowly pushing away, afraid of getting hurt again and instinctively protecting myself? I know he'd never hurt me intentionally, but somethings there are circumpstances we cant control. I also dont want to seem distant to him so he may think my feelings have changed when they havent. So now I'm stuck...I dont know what to think or do. He and I have talked about this...but I need some other people's opinions. Please give me your thoughts and anything that can help me get over my fears of getting hurt. I'd really appreciate any comments you may have. Thanks, JyNx
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