Imsocurious..

No, this stuff about "Girls like confidence and men that can handle themselves blah blah blah"... It's a bunch of crap.. Look around you man, you see men. Shy men with beautiful wives. (Or at one time beautiful). Some chix do like confidence. I notice alot of girls like guys that are very not loud but like my brother very outgoing.. Not afraid to make an *** of himself. I am more shy and quiet and yet, my exgirffriend of 8 months, was much better looking in my opinion and her personality kicked total *** compared to any girl my brother has gotten. It's all about the chic you can't say all girls like the samething it's just not the case, some girls like weirdo guys that sleep upside down at night. It's just something that happens... Get my point, be yourself wait for the right person..

Haha, takes me about 6 months to begin showing who I am to people, I am really shy, takes about another year after that for them to figure me out.

women will mess up your life take it from me forget about them... but then again they have that saying "better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all" which is complete crap. I would have rather'd never loved to never lose. but dude, dont be scared never be scared.. Fear will get you no where.. That is why I am where I am no where and i have nothing.. Wait i got my health.. ya... what an excellent way to look at things on my part

I know all of what you guys are saying is true. But you guys also know that none of those are the awnser im looking for. I was looking for Hope. My immaturity is getting away of my logical thinking.. I am thinking far to emotionally.. What I want as opposed to what is right. Thank you guys I think I am gonna back off maybe if she changes and comes for me.. But, if not i'm moving on or going to try to.. Can someone tell me when I can expect this pain to subside? Someone in a similiar situation?

Okay, Ill make as breif as i can its a little complex. Now, I am not the perfect boyfriend far from it but i'm not horrible either. So, my girlfriend of 8 months goes to me "Im going to a hockey game with my firend his girlfriend and one of his guy friends".. Now, she has been seeing this kid every weekend just hanging out you know.. I didn't get to upset cause she always said "you cant get mad at me for hanging out with my friends" I was like whatever but this was really bothering me especially when they were gonna hang out at her house and she said this to me "your invited but itd be weird if you came because my friend and his gf dont like you and his friend doesnt know you".. I was highly offended but still I sucked it up. Then the next morning my brother tried to commit suicide. and I was telling on of my friends online about it.. But I had thought I was telling my gf. Well, when my girlfriend responded with "Well im gonna go watch tv" I had thought she totally disregaarded what i was talking about with my brother and stuff.. and was being horribly mean. I made the mistake of calling her and telling her I didn't want to go out anymore. She then hung up on me. Then I found out what I had done, and have a nervous break down type deal.. Almost throwing up.. I cried (yes im a guy sad isnt it But she doesn't care I told her what I did and it was a mistake but she doesnt care she is acting as if we broke up doesnt matter. and now shes talking to this kid steve more then ever... I don't know what to do.. I am very much in love with her as I said 8 months.. Please help me... I really need some guidance.

Okay, so heres the story.. My gf is upset that we always fight all the time.. Now she brings this up at a completely random time I thought we were doing fine.. going strong.. but I was wrong.. She said that the only way she can think of fixing this is to break up and start new.. I kinda flipped not like on her i had kinda a break down.. but then I told her we arnt going out.. but then she wanted me to go over last night and she was all over me.. I felt so uncomfortable while shes trying to hug me and kiss me and all this stuff Im like okay buddy how bout you not do this.. Friends don't do this..So later on that night she goes "do you love me" im like ya.. so we got back together and we are together right now but nothings changed shes mad that I didn't "wait for me til i figured things out" cause i kinda pressured her into it.. She told me she wants to not be together but be together at the same time.. I feel she wants me when im with her but any of the other time not be with me.. Like she doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship but still have someone there for her..I can't do that..I don't know what to do guys if this makes any sense PLEASE help me..please

Call him! if hes like me hes to scared to call.. not scared just shy call him please.. do it for me

Okay, 30lbs in a month is alot of weight I am not sure if its possible while remaining healthy, but you can lose a signifigant amount of weight if you listen to me. First of all, eat right. Eat 5 small meals a day, SMALL.. Drink lots of water. With the 5 meals. Make sure to eat fruits and vegies and meat.. Everyone knows how to eat healthy its just a matter of self-control. Stay away from candy, soda, you know anything bad for you. Anything with to much fat. Try not to eat to much bread. But still eat this stuff don't cut fats/carbs out completely you need them. Now, thats for your eating. Maybe do a little research google up weight loss. Okay, now for the fun part exercise.. Jog 2 times a week for 30 minutes. Jump rope 2x a week for 15 mins. Lift weights 3x a week (upper and lower body) I can't give you a routine but look around. Ask at the Gym.. Your a female but please lift weights, you WILL NOT get bulking.. Go to a gym and hit the weights i suggest light weights 10-12 repitions each set. and theres myths about weight lifting making breasts smaller, its not true. Try to keep your caloric intake between 1200-1300cal per day What your goal is to burn more calories then you intake. So say each week you eat 6000 calories, you wanna burn 10,000. (thats not acctual numbers but something like that) But eating and exercising are EQUALLY important you WILL not lose weight if you dont eat and train right.. Hope this helped..

im not gay and but my friends say i have alot of gay tendencies i mean i joke around alot.. this might sound weird but my friend was like bent over and i just like smacked his ass... i dont really know why i guess i thought itd be funny.. he stands up and goes "NO JUST NO" with bulging eyes i think i just like to watch the reaction because guys are like ahh dont touch me im so straight that touching isnt allowed.. I would never go near a dick and the thought of it disgusts me or like holding hands affectionatly with a guy is really gay or like the thought of kissing or cuddling with a dude grosses me out.. but this one time me and my friends are out in the woods and its pitch dark and we cant see were we are going thenm we hear footsteps of like something large (you know when you can hear something large coming towards you) so me and my friend start running and just happened to grab each others hands so like we wouldnt lose each other.. i dont think its gay depending on how you do it..

i just broke up with my gf and i really dont know why.. I feel like i have no emotions im not hurt scared happy sad i feel so.. like nothing... i dont know i just can feel anything. I need some help.. maybe its puberty? maybe im just messed up please give me inspiration i wanna be with my girlfriend i know i love her please someone help me..

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i ask her to help me get it in but for some reason she wouldnt shes like no... i was like okay..

Okay, today me and my gf tried haveing sex... but i could not get my penis in her no matter how hard i tried.. and i kept going limp and id ask her to get me up again and she would and then i accidently came... Im so ashamed so embarrassed. Could someone please comfort me and tell me im not a screw up and give me some inspiration.. Also, why couldnt i get in im prettty sure i was in the right spot and i tried fingering her to try and loosen her up but i dunno what happened?

fingering i recently fingered my gf while i was making out with her.. she seemed to enjoy it.. and when i asked her if she wanted me to stop she said no. but do you girls enjoy it.. and if you can like describe the feeling please do... not trying to get any kicks from this but its a real question..

ummm, well 2lbs a week is quite hard to do.. I am trying to gain weight im 150lbs right now trying to go to 175.. but anyway.. You grew 4 inches well dude, you went through a serious growth spurt.. Just exercise and watch what you eat.. check with your doctor make sure yoour all good..but 7'2 350lbs... sounds about right..