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PunkPyro912

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  1. yeah...the forumn does need that...after a while the forumn seems reeaall depressing lol
  2. i agree with everyone here...but i just wanna say that i commend you for actually GOING or signing up for therapy...even if your parents made you your still going thats a really good thing. i know plenty of people with probelms like these and they wont go to a therapist or anything and that just makes matters worse. u can PM me anytime if you need anything.....even though you might not want to talk to a 13 year old about this stuff
  3. i know that coming from a 13 year old you might just ignore this.....but i think that its a good idea to have this conversation your tlaking about with him. i mean at least give it a shot...what have u got to lose? just tell him how you feel and what you posted here...and if hes willing to accept it then u might have the relationship again..but if he doesnt accept eh, its ok, even thogh it might be hard to let him go...so if you do have this conversation with him (which u really should), please PM me and tell me how it goes...if your willing to talk to a 13 year old about this stuff...just trying to do what i can.
  4. id see a therapist or something...they can help if you just tell them all your problems. and i agree...first thing u need to do is stop cutting...i got friends that used to cut and they feel soo much better since theyve stopped...or thats how they describe it to me. as stupid as u think a shrink might be they can actuyally help
  5. lol i agree hell most likely not mind youi kissing him and then just see what happens...if he likes it keep giong but if not just stop and explain to him...even if he rejects u remember u can always be friends...plus there are plenty of other fish in the sea
  6. Yeah i agree with computerguy...just follow what hes doing or you cuold try something different that might turn him on 8)
  7. Well if shes only a few years older i dont think it would be a problem. And age shouldnt only be considered. If you both like each other id go for it, whether shes older or not 8)
  8. maybe its a way of flirting, but it could be a way to show you something or even annoy you but it all depends on what guy it is and what the situation is...If its a guy youve knowk for a long time and your good friends its probably just a friendly gesture but if its some g uy you dont know much he culd be droppig hints he likes you
  9. nothings wrong with you. Its prolly natural when you really like a guy. If i were you since you really like him and he really likes you why not be in more of a relationship rather than friendship? and if he likes you he probably wont mind you calling.....and if you feel like you arent interested in him when you talk its fine cuz you probably want to see him in person or its because of how nervous you get. Just ask him out or osmething and see what happens. whats the worst that could happen? even if he rejects you, which by the way you tell the story he probably wont, there are plenty of other people you can see and you guys can also be good friends. Sorry if that doesn help much but thats what i would do. I hope it all works out for you.
  10. Im sorry to hear your going through all this but i would definitely call the police. Dont worry about what anyone else would think or say, your safety should be your first priority.
  11. well hey think of it this way...its better to at least know what he feels and ask him....rather than 5 years from now think about him and regret that yuo never asked him how he felt about you or told him how yuo feel about him.
  12. Whats done is done and the best thing to do is let it go. Commitment is a hard thing to do as ive heard but if your not ready for it then why do it? If you still miss your wife dearly you may ask for her forgiveness and to get back together unless she is already involved with someone else but since you have no physical attraction to her it might be better to find another person who your totaly comfortable with. You must have things in common, a good emotional bond like you did with your previous wife but try to find better thing, such as physical attraction as you said. This may sound corny but it is very true: There are plenty of other fish in the sea
  13. Well, express to her that you will love her more than her boyfriend does and this may seem low....but try to find weaknesses in their relationship and say that you will do better than that. But if she still rejects you then i would say to leave her alone. Once a womans mind is made up its hard to change eh? but dont worry there are plenty of other fish in the sea, although i understand how hard it is to let this one go if she does not accept. Hope it all works out for you
  14. Well if youve been debating that long i would just go and ask him. You gotta be confident and if he rejects you, eh there are plenty of other people out there.....and your still young so youll have plenty of time to find the right one for you. i hope it all works out for you.
  15. Well if i were you instead of having him call you so you can tell him then you should just tell him in person while your hanging out or something. Tell him that being friends is great, but you want it to be something more than that. And in my opinion i think that he likes you but he doesnt think you like him back...so ask him and if he says that he doesnt want to have a serious relationship just remain GOOD friends...theres always a chance in the future if you remain friends
  16. well you should research on the internet and try to find any modeling oppurtunities near your location. Look for maybe an acting/modeling agent, or maybe a modeling contest which she may very well win. I know its not too much info...but its basically what i can give right now.
  17. I would basically get my mind on something else rather than your crush(s). Like othe rpeople said, ignore them, dont talk to them, but the most important thing for you to do is actually find the things that you DONT like in them. If you start thinking about that then they will most likely overcome what you DO like about them. Just dont think about them, talk about them, look at them, or talk to them. I know it may be hard to do but just try your best, and look for all the bad qualitys they have, and after a while of thinking about that i bet youll find lots of bad qualities cuz hey...no ones perfect. I hope this helps you
  18. Theres a numerous amount of reasons as this could have happened. If she suffers depression tahts a logical reason but maybe she has personal things going on and she wants to be alone. She probably says that she wnats a new BF because she wants to make you mad but in reality i think she just needs space. Maybe family things are going on causing her to act like this or maybe lots and lots of stress building up on her. Stress will do alot to a person and all other factors of life can turn a nice caring person into something that theyre not...as you describe it. I just hope it all works out for you in the end.
  19. Its a good poem/song. I bet if you add a soft accoustic rthym to it, it would be even 10 times better. Even though the song is good as it is. Nice Job =D>
  20. Yeah after a while of simple conversation with her you could start complimenting her. But remember dont compliment her on something obvious, compliment her on her hair, shoes, clothes, etc. You have to overcome being shy, although thats easier to say than do (i would know), and be confident with talking to this girl. If you get rejected, eh no big deal, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. 8)
  21. I definatly agree with Gauchori, there are many other men out there that wont treat you like this.
  22. I think its great cuz it REALLY relates to me.....always perfect in the eyes of everyone else, but of course they dont know but its all BS...nicely done =D>
  23. and another thing, if he gets physically abusive when u talk to him abuot breaking up get out of there as soon as possible and call 911. The police can take care of you and get you away from all the abuse.
  24. Well from the way you describe the situation, if it were me id leave him. Why do you need someone treating you like this everyday when you could easily get a much better BF that wouldnt get drunk or stoned and wuold actually care about you. I wouldnt want someone like this a*****e being mean to me all the time and i know that you dont either. I hope my advice helps and the best of luck to you
  25. If it were me, i would just drop simple hints that you are attracted to him. Maybe sometime while you guys are hanging out or something. But then again the only way to know if he likes you back is to ask him. If he says no then just remain really good and close friends, no harm in that. You just have to be confident. Good Luck
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