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PunkPyro912

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  1. well see the thing is my parent wouldnt take me serious...and i dont really blame them...b ut im still like reall pissed off that i dont have a life at all.....ive tried to explain to my parents in a sort of way but they dont pick up on it. It just seems to be getting worse and worse and its almost to the point where i cant take seeing my friends always doing what normal 13 year olds shold be doing... And for whoever asked my father owns a restaurant....so i actually cook and make food etc...
  2. ok so heres my situation... Im 13 years old and my parents own th eir family business. They need help because they just bought a new restaurant so for 6 days a week i work. Everyday after school i come to the place and when i say work its actually tring and stressful work...and on weekends i work from 10:30-9:30. Basically i have no life...i can never go to school dances or over friends houes or just do stuff i would normally do to get away. on top of that ive never had a GF and seeing all my friends around me with one...welli dont wanna say im jealous...but it gets into my head sometimes. I feel lonely all the time and i never know what to do. it keeps building up on me and unfortuanatly the thought of cutting has been into my mind alot more. Ive never thought of suicide...but in the back of my mind its always there. i dont know what to do and i think that i really really need help. I just wanna have the childhood that every normal kid has...but to me thats just a unreachable dream as of right now..... Nething neone has to say might help.........
  3. dude it may be tough but just try to keep her off your min d....talk to other girls and avoid all contact with her. whenever ur tempted to call her just think about doin something else like going out...wahtever it takes to get her out of your head
  4. by the way you describe her i wuodlnt want to be with her. shes to changative and if yu get back together with her chances are shes gona change her mind again and break up with you. as you desribe the situation, you need a much better girl than that and if you want to be happy forget about her and look for someone else.
  5. just start off with light talking. "Hey how you doin" and all that. talk about stuff thats happened and happening and just normal stuff youd talk to you frinds about. then later just ask her out for maybe a casual lunch or something. if that goes well u guys can exchange numbers or something and let it go from there. U got nothing to lose
  6. wow you really planned things out. by him getitng nervous aruond you and such my best guess is that he likes you as well. when starting a conversation you shold just start with simple stuff. like yuo said, hey how are ya and all that and just talk about things that have been happening. like class or outside school or stuff like that. keep it light and after a whlie if you guys become friends you could talk a little more and maybe ask him for a casual lunch out or something. and as for people thinking it weird that people just come up and tlak to them...i dont think its that bad. in my perspective, it just means they wanna talk...so i talk back.
  7. if any guy is going to leave u just for a scar then that person is very VERY shallow. u dont need to be wiht people like that, u need to be with guys that dont care and just want to be with you cuz they care about you.
  8. you sholdnt have to worry about the outcome...just tell him and walk away...that is definatly not what a true friend wuold do...
  9. i suggest hanging out wtih him and waiting as time comes...if he acts more flirtatious etc... then its a definite possibililty he likes you...i still think that he was too shy to ask for your number though even though he doesnt seem shy. Maybe he was afraid of how youd react or somethign. The next time you see him you could dot he opposite and ask HIM for HIS number
  10. i heard that dreams are sorta supposed to mean like the complete opposite of what you see them as. me being an italian, my family is big on dream interpretation...like if you dream of any kind of numbers...play them in the lottery i mean ive had dreams that involved stuff i would never think of...sometimes for the bad sometimes for the good....dreams are just weird like that lol.
  11. lol yeah im not a chick either but i agree with dpressedone.....plus if you both like each other why not just make the first move? youd have nothing to lose if yuo prolly knew you had like a 75% or more that she would accept. At first jsut ask to hang out or something and then maybe for her number or osmething soy ou can stay in contact...hope this helps
  12. yeah ive heard of that but ive never known of it working or not...i got some friends who i know cut.....so i might mention it to them
  13. yeah i liked it...im starting in poetry to try it and all and i think that yours wasnt bad at all.
  14. well.... coming from a 13 year old this may sound stupid...but i think its cool that your 67 years old and your willing to go out and meet people. If this guy is willing to come to New Jersey to meet you then hey, why not go for it? You basically have nothing to lose and it be better if yuo guys are more interested in each other in person...and no you wuoldnt be a silly old lady thers no problem with wanting to meet other people and enjoy the life that you have.
  15. i agree....let a few more days pass and if its really bothering you, you could just go over and talk toher....no harm in that...and just ask her whats wrong and why she isnt talkin anymore.
  16. i decided to take a stab at poetry for the first time...so here is the outcome...please tell me what you think even if someone is wrong with it...Thanks "If Only..." If only you could know How much i think ofyou The things in my mind All about you The way ive felt this entire time completely about you I wish it was the same the same for you i wish that you could know everything and the truth but now its too late too late for me too late for you the summers run short and i wont see you again if only you knew if only you knew...
  17. 1. you go up to a girl and lets say her name is jessica...you say "Hey jessica, i heard you were an animal lover...have you ever kissed a bunny between the ears? and you pull your pant pockets out lol 2. Go up to a girl and say, if we were both squirrels, wuold you let me bust a nut in your hole? lol a little mature but i likethem
  18. i know its easier to say...but i always think of her...this may sound cheesy buti cant get her off my mind, she has eye contact and all with me but i can never tell if its cuz she likes me or for something else. see my sister for example she met this guys (shes 18 by the way) and as she says it "they were in love" so he decided to come to america for her. when i get older i want somethign like that to happen lol i just want to at least hang out with her soooooo bad cuz shes sooo cool...what could i do to get her out of my head?
  19. i know that even though im young, itsh appened to me before and tis been hard...especially when the other person doesnt have the same feelings that you have...but you eventually have to get over it so you might as well find a way how. i feel that if the other person doesnt have the same feelings its better to let it go cuz it could ruin the friendship
  20. Well...every summer i go to italy with my family for vacation and all. We usually go for like 1 month or 3 weeks. This recent summer i met this girl. Well weve known each other for a long time, cuz my parents are friends with her parents etc...u know how it is. Well, this year is when we actually started hanging out and all and being friends, and i really like her. Shes got an awesome personality and all and everything im looking for. The problem is that she lives in italy and i live here in america, but thats not really my questoin, althoguh i would take suggestions/any help with that, but my question is, how can you tell if a girl likes u like as more than a friend. When i go back next year i really hope to get closer to her so i gotta find out if she likes me or not. I mean we hung out together and we both had a good time. i make her laugh she makes me laugh etc, and ive never liked a girl as much as i like her. Any input would be welcome, Thanks.
  21. yeah i agree...as mu ch as you like her and are afraid to get rejected u gotta make a move cuz it would bother me alot if i didnt. she seems like shed be attracted to you if you guys hang out and have fun together so what have u got to lose? just go for it
  22. im only 13 and its not like i plan on kissing neone for a while (shows how much of a loser i am lol) but when the time comes, if it does, i just wanted to be prepared. It looks easy in the movies and all but...i just dont get how to do it like waht would i do waht is it like etc. also if neone has ne help with like socializing or w/e please pm me or something lol any input would be welcome. Thanks
  23. yeah first kiss to me wouldnt mean much...if she likes you and you like her what have u got to lose...just go for it lol
  24. the best part to talking to a girl or something like that is to be yourself. Basically dont care about what other people think of you cuz if your being yourself then eh...who cares. But whatever u do dont act differently aruond girls just to get with them, if a chick likes u for who you are then ur set...i know that coming from a 13 year old you might waht to ignore this lol but hey im just trying to do what i can.
  25. meh i wouldnt know if it feels better or not lol but for me id still use the condom though cuz i wouldnt wanna take the chance. but hey its up to you if you wanna at least try it then go for it.
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