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dont worry hun u have just enough or maybe too much lol my man aint all that big but he makes me sing a tune. dont worry u fine boo and if she doesnt like it there are many fish in the sea. keep ur head up ( both of em)

yes ur normal. are you having sex? or are you just feeling like you need to release stress? i know how it is my boy isnt having sex and he does it like 3 times a day. so do u feel weird doin it? it is normal for women and men to do it

why didnt she ask u to go? ask her. i know how u feel. she shouldnt tell u that he makes her feel special that hurts. why would she do that. i think u should let her know how u feel and that it bothers you. have a talk and ask to meet him and that way there is nothing to hide. if she says NO then ???? her. try it but be nice to him if u meet. let me know what happens

its normal as many times as u need. as long as u arent thinkin really nasty thoughts that are illegal then u ok. but i dont feel there is an amount of times. i know a guy that does it like 3 times a day. he feels like its funny too but it is normal why do u ask do u feel u do it too much?

me and my ex had broken up in march due to his family not aproving of me. we were to be mariried on may 22. but he left me. we were living together and he just up lift and took his stuff and walked out on me. i was so hurt. i cried for days. a month later he came back and now says he made a mistake and that he loves me. but he is not ready to marry me. i asked him why he wanted too before and he said we talked about his status in canada and he was afraid he would be sent back to his country. but he is a canadian citizen and he didnt know it at the time. he told me this and now i feel like i was going to be used. he said he didnt want to lose me and he was afraidhe would be sent back to trinidad. and that our relationship would end if he had to go back so that is why he wanted to marry me plus he said he loved me also. i dont knwo what to believe now. he said he wants to get back what we had and in time he will marry me. he want me to have his baby too but that is another story. we will have to spend $$$$ to have one because i cant have any right now. i know he does love me but what should i doi ? how cn i tell if he loves me for sure? i so need advise on this. please anyone help me. i dont want to get hurt again!!!!! sincerly p.s how can i test him to find out if he loves me

i agree let him call u gurl. he seems like he as no respect for you. make him work for ur love and let he regain ur respect. that wasnt nice to hurt you like that. keep ur head up

does he want you too go down on him? if so ask him how he likes it and maybe you guys can help eachother understand. for me personally doing that is for someone u love. and also how does he feel doing it to you. i think it should go both ways. its nice to do eachother. 69 tee hee. i think if u both experiment it will be easier for you . if u need to talk message me. let us know how it goes

i think you could tell him u feel deeply for him. i dont think it would hurt. you only live once and telling people we love them should be done everyday. i know u really love him and he makes u feel special. i am so happy you have found someone to love you. you deserve it!! but be real with him and honest ok. its the best policy for a relationship. i hope all goes well with you hun luv your friend 4 ever jerz

i like a guy who can make me laugh and make me feel good about myself. someone who has a big heart and want to share it with me. someone who excepts me for who i am and not for what i have. i love a big smile and a warm heart. being a cutie can help a lil but looks are only skin deep. always remember that.

i like your poetry it seems meaning full. do u really feel this way? if so i think you might want to get help and talk to someone. i know life can be hard attimes but huin we all have times when life is hard. there is alwasy help for you remember that. let me know how u r feeling?

i know its hard when u love someone but everyone is right give him a reason to miss you. dont call, dont visit and wait for him to contact you. find something to make u busy go to the gym or maybe go for walks with friends. have gurl nights being crazy puttin on make up and doin the gurly thing. dont let him get you down. its his lost remember that. your a beutiful young gurl with lost of time so put on ur happy face and keep ur head up. he will realize one day and he will be regreting it. i used to be the same way with an ex of mine and he just pushed further away. when i stopped calling him he was emailing me testing me and callin everyday. it was funny but in the end he wasnt worth me hurting. and bear it it doesnt last long summer is here and all the cute guys are coming out of there shells so grin and bear it. i hope you do know that your worth more then that. if u can find someone like a councelor to talk to. or a good friend. keep ur head up ok let ius know how things go

i know things are hard for you right now and yes it will hurt. but gurl things happen for a reason. i have lost a baby before and i know it seems like u lost a part of you but god works in wonders. see you are now alone and you would of had to raise him/her on your own. i know that isnt too bad of a thing but now u can move on and find a man who loves you . you have been at the right place at the right time to see his car so now u know the truth . i know it is hard but move on hun and keep strong for yourself. no man is worth hurting over. there are so many fish in the sea and may i say even some sharks whom would love u 100% all u need to do it be strong and love yourself. you will oneday have a baby and will find mr right.!!! p.s maybe get some coucelling about your lost and maybe talk about your feeling with a coucelor. i hope all goes well let us know

your SON is the most important thing in ur life right now and if he doesnt love him as he loves you then i think it would be best to walk. i know its hard and you dont want to be alone but its better to be alone and happy with your son then to be alone and misserable. your son is who you should be worring about not him. boyfriends come and go but your son is yours for life. you have a man right there. i know we all have needs but gurl beign loved by ur son is unconditional and he will love you more then any man ever will. keep your head up and be strong. he needs to love both of you. talk with him about it and tell him how u feel . if he is negative then walk. your a strong women your taking care of ur son arent you?? so u know u r strong. i hope all goes well let us know p.s i am a single mom as well so i know how u feel, one day prince charming will come along

i know how u feel still to this day i dont know how to use them. i dont like them. they feel uncomfortable. i think some people arent able to use them. i know my mom didnt and now me. maybe for those couple days u may want to stay outta the pool. i know u dont want to but maybe tampons might now be for you. but try i guess to get a friend to help. i know its embaracing but hey u have to do what u have to do so i hope all works out. let us know i hope this helped a lil

your both right i know. i do have a lil self esteem issue with him but its not me any more its him. i know im beautiful and he knows i feel good now. i am a really good women and i do take alot of crap from people but thats because i have patients and understanding. i know i need to really get to the bottom of this. i am seeing him today so i think i will sit him down and tell him how i feel. its now or never. i do love him but i love myself more then to put myself throught this. thanks for your help both of you. i will let you know how it goes later

it seems she got upset with you. but talk with her and if she doesnt want to talk, then write her a letter and explain that u didnt mean to offend her of hurt her. i know women can be weird at times but we r full of emotions. just do your best to talk to her and if she doesnt want to and u have done ur best then wait until she calls u. keep utr head up

thanks so much for your advise i can tell even tho i dont know you that u are a caring person. i know i need to really think about this. it hurts. im not young but im not old. i just wish he and his family would just love me for me. i am a beautiful person and i love everyone. i just want to be loved and cared for honestly and sincerly. no i am not full black but i have a unique look and he is now scared of losing me. i lost some weight too so now he doesnt want another man to have me. i know life is messed sometimes. i dont really know how to talk to him about all this and i do want answers now instead of later. should i be up front with him???

i was 17 also when i got pregnant. he was 15 so it was hard for us both. we had our baby at 16 and 18 but we now have a son and yes we r not together but he takes very good care of his son as u i know would. as long as u r there for him/her then all would be good. if u dont believe in abortion then dont do it. be strong and hold ur head up and believe in urself and then the answers will all come to you. if u love her support her decisions let us know what happens.

i was only burned in one spot on eachside as i read on the report. i feel so lost and i know it means so much to him. he has no children. his family feels he shouldnt be with me because i can have his child right now. i dont know what to do. they dont even want him to marry me!!! i am like going nuts about it. he asks me everyday to have his baby and he looks so hurt. we were supposed to be married on may 22 but it idnt happen because of his family. but we got back together and plan on doin it anyways. hes younger then me 24. his family is from trinidad and feel they because i am not full black that i am not good enough. im so lost right now. i know i love him and i want to have his baby so bad. do u think invetro would be a better way?

go for it what have you got to lose. if u love him tell him. all he can do is say its best you all stay friends. but take the chance and do it. if he loves u also he may be afraid to tell u what he is feelin. talk to him with an open mind . life is too short to not tell whom we love that we love them. hope all works out let us know

i am the same way hun. i cant either. my fiance feel the same way but its ok. not many women can . there are many other ways to please her. so just look into the many ways. dont worry im pretty sure if she wasnt feeling you she would let u know . so smile and think of other ways .

well we want one of our own. i know its costly. but it means so much to him. we are goin to do it after we get married. i had the simple tubil ligation done. im not cut and tied and burned. they only burned about 1 cm on ech side of my tubes. i cant remember the medical name. (coturized something like that) so i think this one is one of the easiest to reverse. one of my friends said she knew someone who got pregnant with this procedure. they just for some burned tissues or something i think but hers healed back and she got pregnant. i was so happy to hear that . i wish we could do this also but i know its not easy or likely. i think the rate is 50% chance after reversal. i am very fertile also. but what do u think?

I HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN IN THREE PREGNANCYS . AS LONG AS IT ISNT BRIGHT RED THEN SHE SHOULD BE OK. BUT YES DONT HAVE SEX FOR A LIL AND SEE IF IT STOPS . SHE SHOULD BE FINE. ULTRASOUNDS CAN DO THAT SOMETIMES. GOOD LUCK I HOPE ALL GOES WELL. LET US KNOW

YEAH SHES RIGHT IF IT DID BREAK U WOULD OF KNOWN. PLUS SHE IS HAVING SICKNESS WAY TOO EARLY. YOU CANNOT FIND OUT YOUR PREGNANT AT LEAST TWO WEEKS AFTER YOU HAD UNPROTACTED SEX. SHE WOULD HAVE TO BE AT LEAST 2 WEEKS PREGNANT TO FIND OUT. U GET PREGNANT IN UR MID CYCLE MOSTLY SO IT WOULD OF HAD TO BEEN TWO WEEKS AFTER U HAD SEX. SHE MOST LIKELY AINT PREGNANT FOR U AND IF SHE IS PREGNANT IS MOST LIKELY NOT URS. WHEN SHE FINDS OUT SHE WOULD ONLY B ABOUT 3 TO 4 WEEKS PREGNANT IF SO. GOOD LUCK HUN I HOPE ALL WORKS OUT. LET US KNOW

I was wondering if anyone could help me find a doctor that does tubil ligation reversals. Me and my fiancé want a child so bad but I can't seem to find a doctor that can do this procedure. I have the latest tubil done so it should not be hard to reverse but the costs are crazy. I found one doctor that does it but he charges 7000. $ and that is nuts. I would go out of town to do this. I am so that i did this and now i have found someone i love. If you ever feel you want to have a tubilligation don't do it unless u are 1000 percent sure. I an hurting now and I don't know what to do could someone help me?????