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what kind/type of guy or girl are you most attracted to at first when you first see them? and what keeps you interested in him or her? is there a type of personality or trait that makes you want them?

from what i have learned form women around me, although i am younger than you, is that it isnt about what you look like. for example theres this one goth kid and he is really ugly and wears torn shirts. but, he is alwayd talkin to many girls around him. why? because he has a good self esteem and scoializes with everyone. sure, you can get all that done but it would only help you for about a couple minutes. when you know a girl, she usually wants to know the real you and your personality. so what i would suggest is be very confident even if your dont fell you are, but others will see you as one. have high self esteem and have fun with everyone around you. i hope this has helped!

you mean the term fore play? if it is then i it when two people get together and do sexual activities that arouse eachother leading up to the sex.

has anyone been in a situation where u r deeply in love with a girl but youve never gone out? Maybe things didnt work out or you just suddenly stopped taking to each other. in my situation that was what happened. i always think about her all the time but i know there is not a possibility we can be friends again. i know alot of people here have been through thought stuf, but what would you do to get over the love you never had?

theres this girl at my school which i used to have a great relationship with. i liked her alot and i knew she liked me. we would always talk in class wiht always a smile on her face. one day she transfers out of the class into a diff one. now when i see her she just doesnt talk to me and just walks passes me talking to her friends like shes really enjoying herself and acting like nothins going on. we had such a great bond and all of a sudden it stops. i see her at least once a day in the halls or before or after classes. i can see her looking at me but when i lok at her she just looks away and talks to her friends. she just acts like im not even there. i still have feelings for her and just cant get this out of my mind. i want to know whats goin on with her and i really want us to be together. can anyone explain her behavior? thanks.

ya i agree with freak of nature but, i think you should make sure shes actually into you and not just being friendly cuz ive been through that. just look for the signs that shes gives out and see how differently she acts around you. if i were you , i wouldnt just say "will you go out with me." make sure you two are alone like at yours or her house. set up the mood and look her in the eye. express how you feel about her and what she is to you. wait for her reply and if it is positive, ask her if she would want to date you. i hope it works out! good luck.

well, i enjoy running, until i joined my highschool track team. we work very vigorusly and for 2 hours everyday after school. but, running still keeps me fit. it got my body fat to 9.3% and i even lost a little weight (not what i was goin for but cross country at my school run in the mornings every day and i mean everyday through out the year. but i dont have that kind of endurance. what helped me was to make sure you are stretched and felxible. ya, you need good sleep and to eat healthy foods. i ate/drank high energy and mineral/vitamin foods or drink like something hi in carbs and fiber or energy drinks usually about 1 hour before i go to bed. it builds up and restores you muscle strength. make sure you dont stress yourself out that u'll be takin naps during class!

wow you tow were surely in love. i remember my first love too. she was the greatest, but ofcourse a relationship just wouldnt be on if there wernt ups and downs. they teach us things like becoming a new person to adapt to your surroundings. when we broke up it was one of the worst feelings you could have. its not like when you loose a friend but alot worse. i know how u feel. what i did to get over her was to continue with my life and do my usual duties. you should defenely express your feelings to others that are close to you. but no matter what others say ot tell you, you will always remember him. things will bring back great and horrible memories. what i did was simply think about your relationship and pick out what was wrong with it and dont blame yourself. you can learn from what went wrong to becoming a better self. i really dont know how to express feelings when your first love is gone, but i hope things will go well

well if i were u what i would do is get to know her friends and who she's around with most often. this will build up your faoundation towards her. i believe this is important. when her friends see how such a nice guy u are yu'll have better luck. and what u can do is after uve talked to her a little ask if she wants to hang out sometime. you can meet eachother at the movies or the mall. there are food courts there you can enjoy together. what works best for me is not have her in you mind when ur talkin to her thereforeee you will relax and not focus too much. good luck! 8)

heres the deal, see it fells to me like my life has no point or meaning at all right now. anyone else feel this way? im still attending school but things arnt going well anywhere. its not that in ignorant and stubborn. first of all, thigs arnt going well with my parents. i love my mom alot and are close but she has cancer-its not lookin too good. and my dad, i hate him, he a chef but he has never lift a finger in the house. the most he ever did was pull weeds. it just tears me apart how he treats my mother. she doesnt work but does alot for the house. my dad has diabetes and he doesnt care. i really care he dies. the rest of his siblings are successful lawyers, doctors, and work in the high government power. i hate him but cant do anything because it would really hurt my mother. i just want to stick him into a retirement home. ok, second, everyday i wake up im not energized or ready for the day. always the same routine everyday. i used to be a 4.0 gpa student but now im starting to get c's. i know i have potential but im thinkin im just sluggish and seem to be starting to brush things up. i never used to be like this. also, my relationships with others are doin fine. i have friends i hang out with, but i just always feel alone and insecure. yes, i do have $ but to tell u all the truth, it wont but u happiness or forget your past. i think its even easier to be depressed with lots of money. i dont know. anyways, anyone know whats goin on with me or do i have a psycalogical problem? or maybe i just have horrible luck. thanks for takin the time to read.

ok heres the deal, i met this girl in my math class and we talk occasionaly cuz she sat near me. Now we dont have class together but we talked a long time ago cuz i havent seen her around much lately. Few weeks ago, she came up to me making jestuses and said som stuff but it was confusing what she said. She held my had for a little bit then said bye real quick then went back to her friends. Later in the week i asked her what that was all about but she said she only did it as a joke because so her friends wouldnt be mad at her. i didnt ask why though. and that was the last we spoke. a few times we walked passed eachother but both of us had friends around so we didnt say hi or anything. but this week i was going down the stairs when she was going up along the side of the stair where i was. we both made eye contact before we passed eachother. The weird thing is that after we made eye contact, she quickly looked down and passed me without saying a thing. It was really strange of her since i didnt know why she didnt say hi or anything. I doubt i made her mad cuz she was really welcoming in class. i was really confused and dont know whats up with her. I would of said hi to her anyways but she seemed that she didnt want to talk to me.I like her and want things to go well between us. If you can let me know whats up with this i'd appreciate this. thanks in advance