ok. so there is this guys that has a girlfriend, and he was mt friend since like summer. anyway, we got into a fight resently and then I realized that I loved him, but see, I can't imagine us together, I see him as a friend, and not more, I dont want to have feelings for him, but I do. And he has a girlfriend, and he loves her. Well, should I tell him that I love him even though I dont want to love him? will it destroy the friendship?