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    Hey It is definitely ok to fall a few steps back in our healing process. Don't be afraid, You fall a few steps back and you will move forward more. It is natural and you are making progress actually! Sigel can be nice and rewarding,and sometimes it is very necessary when we are not totally healed. Cheers
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    Rainbow Single can be very enjoyable and rewarding! Thaink about it sometimes.
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    Hello Soldier! I am very happy for you. Remember in our life, we deserve good things and nice people to love us and respect us. Cheers
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    Starlippy7501 I can not believe you are allowing your so-called "fiancee "to sleep with other woman? ..this is not unconditional love you said, this is your foolish plus blindness, unless you are fooliing arounf with other men as well? So you allow him to do that? No offend! Your BF is stepping on 2 boats. His heart is part somewhere else, He cetailnly tell the girl in his office the same thing that he loves her, he wants to enjoy both. Well, if yu want to share a man with anoter woman, that is your choice .I can be the judge. Take care. This man is apparently a jerk!
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    People who broke up want to move on and healed as soon as they can. Keep seeing her wil make you move "backward" and cetainly will prolong the healing of your broken heart. Have other peopele's experience not convincing enough for you? There is nothing to be ashamed of "not showing up" with friends when she is around .Be yourself, do the things which is good for your own at this moment.
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    Porn is certainly Ok, that is very human beings, as long as this is not cheating But for the Sex on line with bill US$ 2,000, it is too much, seems to me he has sex addiction problem that need help. Never ever accept violent/abuse in a relationship. It can be a very very bad cycle and seriously damage your self-esteem, he hit you , then he said how sorry he is and want you back, and he will hit you again, this is the formula that never changes since long time ago. Think about your kids, if they are going to grow up in this kind of abusive family , they are going to have problems/issues when they are adults. Take care
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    Yes, i feel so sorry for his new girl friend.....a new "victim" God Bless!
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    Your ex boy friend needs a nanny, that's what he is looking for.
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    I think sending a letter in this current situation is more appropriate. Wish you well
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    Hey, it is only 2 months after you broke up, of course you will still feel hurt when she is dating someone, we are only human beings, i will doubt who can really heal a broken heart in 2 month ? ( At least, I am trying myself) You love each other, like most couples do, but even you love each other so much, it does not mean you are meant to be together, both of you have kept trying so many times and so hard , but it still does not worked out, and you will know when it is about time to let go.( Samart ones will know and do it) But you never know whether she will be back to you one day. At this moment focus on your own, someday someone will come into your life, probably can be another nice girl, probably can be your ex. You have to believe it someone is there on the way to meet you, to give you love, not tomorrow, but someday in your life.
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    I sensed thsi guy has some mental issue ( maniac depressive or depression?) Don't fall before things are clear
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    Cid In your case I would suggest you go to talk to your family doctor, he/she might give you some good suggestions or refer you to someone professional who can help. You need to talk to them what how you felt about ypur life and it will help you a lot. I wish I were 21 like you again if I have a chance. Got my point? Have you ever thought you can be single and contented? Why do you need anyone to make you feel happy? The most important relaiton in our life is you and yourself. Take care Old Meanlady
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    Hi Girl, You don't have to change yorself for him or pelase him, that won't work . Gee, you 2 are still very younge, He is 22, probable he finds there are a lot of good life ahead of him and he does not want to be tied up by current relationship. It make you sad I know, but knowing the truth before it is too late( Thanks Go you have no kids yet) Have you ever thought you can "cool down "? If he is meant to be yours, he will be back, if he doe not care all all, then that is too bad for him, you have to move on Remember ! You do not have to pelase him in order to make him love you, it won't work by this way. If he really care for you, he knows what he will do
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    You can not love when yuo have fear or doubt I don't think there is "Trust " there between you and him. Can you make decisions for what you want and what you need Instead of been like a " "cheap toy" been played by him. Your BF take you for granted, anyway, he thinks you will always go back to him no matter how he is fooling aroung with other gilrs, you are something he is holding on for his own security, when he has no one to love, he knows he wil have you anyway ...sorry but it is true. Wake up, my friend
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    Honey! It is extremely hard not only for you! but you have to believe in yourself, the first step is totally cut off, without any contact with him. Ask yourself, are you able to do that? I read a lot of books, it helps myslef, (" Language of letting go" by Melody Beattie) Healing and recovery can be a painful journey but so many peope have been there and they are successful and become a stonger person. And you can do it too. It is very rewarding after you heart is healed. We have to value ourselves, we know we always deserve the best , we deserve the love that we need. We have strong self-esteem and we do not allow other peopel to manipulate us, abuse us mentally or in any way. We have beautiful hearts, that is good enough
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    Hi hollyhoney! You silly gilr,this situaiton will drain you eventually. CAN'T you see that your BF is a jerk? Tell him that you don't do recycle job! Please have self value of yourself! It is true that Love can make people blind! Sigh ~ OPEN YOUR EYES! Very meanlady
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    OH .Razor, By the way, i will tell you to stop "begging" her back and don't say she is the most perfet one for you ( she is not, she is mean to you) There are so many better girls out there waiting for you. Stop begging her back like little a little boy! you are a man with self esteem and diginity! remember! Love a litte meanlady
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    Hi Razor, I am so sorry for you, i know this sudden breakup has a great impact on you since you have been so close. But isn't this life all about ? Isn't this the way how we suddenly grow up even stronger? Everything happens for a reason, accept it, take what may come. Probably you don't wanna know the reason why breakup, sometimes we just leave the things as they were, we don't have to try so hard to find the answer, because truth will speask itself one day. It is ok to feel extremely sad and grief, it is nature and it is very necessay. It is a life journey you have to go through. After that you will be fine, you will be strong. You have to believe that. Razor, remember you are not alone, there are so many people in this world suffering for a bad relationship or evern worse ( I was there).so, be a tought guy! you will win! Love Meanlady
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    I think i agree with what Gilgamesh said, keep no contact is a good thing. Everythingn happens for a reason. if she is meant to be the one, she will come back, if not, what s the worst scenario! That is her lose, not yours! she lose someoen who can love her, one day she will know, you don't have to be so dseparate to find out the answer. move on with your life. you are such a loving person , any girl who can have you as a boy friend will be veryextremely lucky. I am sorry that she misses it! Love
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    I agree with what they said! Move on! You are not that cheap! Why do you have to let him enjoy your body and soul and then dump you ? Does this worth it? Certainly not. It is time to move on! His love feeling for you has gone forever! Face it! Any smart girls will certaily tell him to F**k off! Girl, you have to remember that you are beautiful and you deserve someone who can love you, who can pamper you lilke a little girl, we are so worthy of it and we derserve love. There are so many nice men out there waittng for you Cheers Extremely Meanlady
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    Gee, I really can not undersatnd why you wanna wait for this man or waste your energy, it is not worthy at all ! From what you said, your ex seems a very shallow perosn ( forgive my language) Is he still under 18 years old? or probalbe he is not smart enough lilk you said to understand love Are you sure he is the one for you? ( If he can chage his mind that quick to go with other girl?) Think about it. Have some dignity of yourself and self-esteem. Love Very Meanlady
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    Hi, You defiinitely have to move on, think about your past expericne,it was too mcuh pain( isn't it?) and I guarantee you that once you go back , he will be "abusive again, this is the endless cylcle and this is what he is. He is trying to find victims to satisfy his own need .He is kind of sick in mind. Move on!!! You deserve someoen much better! Don't call that man! Don't call that man! and Again, Don't call that man! Live with your Dignity and Self-esteem. Love Meanlady
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