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  1. kimg
    It has been my experience that when you stop calling and go on they call. So do that. Dont call anymore and hell even if she calls dont answer maybe the first few times she calls. Be hard to get in contact with yourself. Also if it is over it is over. Face it and try to move on. You have alot of healing to do and you havent even started yet. Time does heal somewhat but no contact is the best.
  2. kimg
    It is very hard to deal with a breakup. NEVER let it come between you and school. School comes first. I did that while in college and it ended up taking me 5 years to finish. Dont let it get that bad. It will heal in time. Go to class and that might take you mind off of thing.
  3. kimg
    No we didnt live together. He wanted me to move in with him to help pay the bills or to split the bills. So I didnt and so he decided to move in with another woman who was willing. He told me that I wasnt compromising and that this girl is willing to do so and also give him more sex. I really think this guy was using me. When I told him that I will help him figure out his finances he didnt want that. Now I feel jealous because this girl has the man and maybe I should have moved in with him. I think that would have been the biggest MISTAKE of my life though. I really do.
  4. kimg
    Many might have read my last post on my ex. My ex and I broke up and he immediately moved in with another woman. His reason for us breaking up were because I stopped helping him out financially. He lived by himself and on numerous numerous occasion needed money. This got old and I saw that he wasnt trying to make it better so I stopped. He also demanded alot of sex that I felt he was undeserving. We never went out alot and we kind of chilled in his house quite a bit. So I am not the type to lie around and just have sex without the real dating. Anyway, it has been 3 months now and I am extremelty jealous of his new relationship. I dont talk to him. He called alot when he moved in with her wanting to see me and so on and this didnt allow me to heal so I cut him off completely. Thing is, I cant stop thinking of him. I realize how much I love him even though the relationship wasnt really great. I am sooooo envious of the new girl. He used to block his number out when calling and this last itme he called he didnt. I want to tell him that I love him. Should I email or just continue to let this go. He has moved on, but I do want to know his feelings. How can I not be jealous of his happiness. I dont even know if he is, but he told me that this girl does what he needs her to do (cook, sex, and everything else he ask). Now I wish I would have done it. I cry all of the time and just cant seem to move on. Guys does this man calling me mean anything?
  5. kimg
    You know everyone has a type of person that they want. You were just not her type and that is ok. She seemed to have used you because no one else was around. Dont contact this girl, you will only get hurt. Move on and find someone who thinks you are their type. This girl is bad for you.
  6. kimg
    I agree with the first response. I am a female and this girl is just playing you. She may love you BUT she has someone else. Let her go be with him and cut the ties. She is confused and childish and you dont need that. Say goodbye.
  7. kimg

    Do I stay or go??

    kimg replied to nickim's topic in Infidelity

    This guy sounds like a jerk. You are falling for what he is saying to you. Some men have the tendency to make the woman feel like everything ws her fault. He knows who fault it is. This guy needs to be out of your life and you are too hurt to see it. Move on! Dont call him. Dont except his phone calls if he calls you. Let it go. He is bad for you. He is going to do the new girl the same way. If he doesnt who cares because he treated you badly. Be happy that this man is out of your life. Take time to heal and get yourself together so you wont fall for another mans crap.
  8. kimg
    This man sounds like a little boy who is jealous of your success. Let him go and decide what he wants from life. He will only bring you down. You want someone on your level and he is not. I went through the same things. I graduated from college and he was so unexcited. I have drive and ambition and he doesnt. This sounds like your situation. Hey be his friend, but he doesnt sound like his life is together yet. So you shouldnt want to be serious with him. You want someone who is together financially, emotionally and spirtually. This guy isnt. Move on.
  9. kimg
    Breaking up is hard. Your girl needs to move out and maybe this will give you time to think. Maybe you guys cant still see each other without living together. She sounds confused too. Honestly, after awhile you will see the benefits of having peace in your life. You are used to the arguing and so on and you are having a hard time adjusting to it. Let her move out then see what happens.
  10. kimg
    You said it in the last sentence. He wants his cake and eat it too. He does not love this new girl either and I am sorry to say but he doesnt seem to love you. These are not mixed messages. This guy is clearly letting you know that it is over, he has moved on and he doesnt ever want you back. What more do you need to know? Stop holding on to hope because it will only hurt you. My ex did me the same way. I had to cut him off completely. Now it doesnt hurt as bad and hell I dont want his butt back now. Believe me when this guy grows up he will say how he made a mistake. By then you will be gone. Dont contact this guy and dont answer his calls either. Move on and heal. This guy is playing mind games with you and he knows that you are falling for it. I dont want to sound harsh, but us women need to stop letting these guys have the best of us. When a guy tells us that they dont want us, we need to simply say ok and goodbye. This is a life lesson. Please stop allowing thus guy to hurt you emotionally.
  11. kimg
    I agree with Gilgamesh. This guy is using you as back up in case his other doesnt work out. You need to cut off all contact with him and move on and heal. This man is not interested and you do not need to keep getting your feeling hurt. I know it is hard, but in time you will actually feel better. Eventually you wont have the desire to talk to him. Please let him go. He wants to go so let him .Just let him go without trying to be his friend. Heal and find out what you want. People jump into relatiobshiops after a breakup and that isnt wise. This guy will probably be back and by then you wont want him.
  12. kimg
    This happened to me. An ex and I broke up and he did start sleeping with someone else. He slept with me too. He wasnt going to stop until I cut him off. This guy may not be sleeping with someone else. You will never know. Dont sleep with him again until you are back in a relationship with him. He is getting it easy. He doesnt even have to be with you to get some. How good is that! Be friends if you want but not lovers. If you have to go through this stress, you need to tell him that you want him back. If he says not right now or no then just move on. We all say that we were best friends with our ex's or that we had all of these good times. Well that is the past and one cannot live in the past.
  13. kimg
    I believe this is the same thing that happened to me a guy. I fell out of love with him for various reasons and he didnt want to let hte relationship go. I tried to stay with him anyway, but found it hard to be with him being that I really didnt love him anymore. He then began to hurt me emotionally and started being mean. He would say and do hurtful things. Well, now he has moved on, but I REALLY want nothing to do with him. I tried to love him again but just couldnt The reason I fell out of love was because of things he did. He then called me and and tried to talk to me just as friends. In your case, you need to just move on. Give her time. She may be done with you forever or she may come back. Just let her be.
  14. kimg
    HI! The things that this guy is doing it letting you know that he really isnt as happy as it seems. When you are happy you wont flunt it. It will just show. This man has issues. Be happy he is out of your life. I know it is hard, but really try. Trust me there is more to him than what is shown.
  15. kimg
    I am sorry, but this girl is playing with you. She may like you and want to be friends, but if ot is hurting you, you need to move on. My ex did me the same way. He left me and then a few weeks later called me and told me that he wanted to be friends. I found that I was not healing like this. I became jealous of him and this new girl. I had to cut him off. You need to move on. It may hurt, but you really need to heal. This girl is moving on with your life and you are allowing her to stop you from moving on. If she loves you she will let you go. She knows what she is doing. Please! Tell this girl goodbye.
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