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It seems to me that she is sending you that signals that she is interested. All the things that you have talked about her doing seem to lead to the conclusion that she has feelings for you. I think that you need to think about the type of relationship you would have with her. Good? Great? Do you think it would be good enough that it is worth risking your friendship for? If the answer is yes then I would say that you should go for it and ask her out. Good Luck.

haha, it censored Moby * * * *. well I would say Forest Gump, he isn't really a loner, but he gets picked on alot. 40 Year Old Virgin is good. I'll let you know if I think of any others.

Maybe from that Disney (was it Disney?) movie? wasn't there one that had something about a girl named Zenon or something? I dunno, pure speculation.

No, definitely not. It is a natural thing to want to be close to the person you love. To miss kissing her is perfectly natural. If you go out with other couples again, try pulling her off to the side, or find some way to get her alone for a fe seconds, then kiss her. Do it passionately but quickly. This will let her know that you miss it, and will probably get her thinking about it too.

I think she was wating for you to make your move when she met this guy. I have encountered them before. I like to call them "testicles with legs" (from the movie anger management). They come between many would be relationships. Basically I would say wait it out, otherwise you could end up with an odd love triangle. After she is over him, which she will be, then make your move. Be strong and obvious when you do tell her what you want and how you feel. It seems like she is really into you, just this other guy is in the way for the time being, but I think yu can overcome it. Good Luck.

ok, well, nobody mentioned child molesting. But yeah, a different story couldn't have hurt

Just because nobody liked him, does not mean his life doesn't deserve respect. When I die, even if nobody likes me, I hope they at least give me a little respect because I did my best in life. Wouldn't you want that? I don't think that getting it on in a closet is quite the way to do that.

Ok, I have seen this post around, and I kind of thought it was someone joking until I actually read it. Why have you been keeping this up at all? It isn't true love if it isn't really you. If you want to be with this guy then try taking off the costume and being real with each other. Otherwise it is just a fake reality, and is that really how you want to be with him? That was what I truly think about this, but I must say, a snake? for two years? zenon? holy crap. This is literally this strangest realationship of any kind that I have EVER heard of, when I first read it I kind of got the giggles. wow. ok. I'm done.

Hello everyone, it's story time, lol. I am here to tell you that nice, caring guys do not always finish last (contrary to the common but heartbreaking saying). The reason for this is twofold: 1. I have a succes story that I just love to tell. and 2. I have read about alot of guys (and girls for that matter) who fell in love with their best friends. Generally speaking they thought that they were in the friend catagory, or the girl said she only wanted to be friends. They usually get advice sounding something like this 'Put distance between yourselves and try to move on.' Well, when I joined eNotalone about two and a half years ago, I needed advice on this exact subject. I fell in love with a girl named Lauren. By love I don't mean I thought she was hot, or i kind of liked to be around her. I mean that ever since I first saw her in seventh grade I knew that I wanted to be with her more than anything. I did every thing I could to impress her, to try to make her like me. Eventually we became best friends. She confided everything in me. This almost made it worse, because everyday I heard about how much of a jerk her boyfriend was (she has been with four serious boyfriends since I have met her), and how she was sick of guys sometimes. The whole time the only thing I could think of was "why doesn't she like me?" I asked her out a couple of times, she always told me she loved me, but just wanted to be friends. I got angry, depressed, all kinds of emotions, my friends began to think I was going crazy. In a sense I was, and I couldn't stop myself from loving her. No matter how hard I tried, I was always drawn to her. I couldn't stop myself from being kind, caring, and understanding towards her. I was always there for her. Some of my other friends told me I needed to get over it, I half believed them, but I couldn't if I tried. I dated a couple of girls, trying to take my mind off of her (I know it is horrible, and I feel bad about it now, but it seemd like a good idea at the time), but none of them worked. Then, over three years after meeting her (about a month and a half ago) something great happened. We were talking about how long we have known each other. Then, like a river, it came spilling out of me. I couldn't stop myself, I told her about the feelings I had for her, and how I had known that I loved her since seventh grade. She just sat there, looking at me with a surprised look on her face. But by the tame I was done she had a smile on, and had a few tears rolling down her eyes. I couldn't stop myself and had a single tear roll down my cheek. We kissed, a long, deep kiss, the best kiss I have ever had, and probably will ever have. It made my legs shake (and she has since told me that it was one of the best moments of her life). She told me that she was in love with me too. THis started our current relatioship. We are very much in love. Although we technically have only been dating for a few weeks, it seems like years, We already know everything about eachother, so there are no awkward surprises. We do things together that people don't usually do until further into their relationships, but they feel natural, and good. I mean, the other day we had a discussion (well manly she talked and I made a few comments, lol) about how if we got married and she changed her last name to mine how pretty it would be. She also discussed a few other things that would happen if we got married. We know we probably won't get married, but the idea of it in no way seems weird to either of us. I firmly believe that the reason that our relationship is so great and seems so natural is that we were such good friends first. And while this might not be the perfect path for everyone, looking back, I don't know that I would take away our friendship, even if it would save me any of the emotional pain. So, my point is, if you are that friend, or just nice guy, who hears about the jerks and comforts the girl, but knows that they would be better for her, don't change. Don't give up on her if you truly love her. It can still happen. Plus the world needs you. Without you everything would be off balance and explode (hey it could happen, you don't know). I hope that I could help, even if it is just one person, that made the last half hour of typing worth it, lol. (Oh, and if you guys want to see the absolute most ironic thing EVER, sheck this out. It is a post I made a long time ago, seriously, you dont have to read it, just look at it. it shows how perspectve can totally change due to one event in your life. I didn't even think about it until after I wrote the rest of this.)

That is a very sweet story. I know that when g/f isn't feeling great I do whatever I can to make it better. I don't know, just something in me wants to take it all away for her. I cook for her, get her medicine, keep her warm, I just like doing it. And she does it for me. For example, a couple of weeks ago I was home from school for three days in a row, after school every day she brought me soup. I think it just shows how much we love eachother. Your boyfriend must really love you.

I don't think it has anything to do with being in america. I was born on good old American turf, and all of my foreskin is intact. As for moving to England, well I have heard that they also circumsize there, so I don't think it will be too much of a problem.

A curfew is something you can work around. If you are serious about the possibility of a relationship with this girl, then I would say that the curfew is going to be part of it. Every relationship has a few bumps in it, but that is part of the path.

I would have to say I agree with the above posters, if you don't know what her feelings are for you, then how do you know it couldn't work. You never know if you don't try. If I had known a way to stop loving someone, my gf and I would not be together. I had liked her for a long time an we had become best friends before we were in a relationship. I never thought she would have feelings for me, but we now are ina great relaionship. Basically, I am saying that I think it is worth a try to tell this girl how you feel, otherwise you might spend the rest of your life (ok, maybe just a very long time) thinking about what could have happened.

Are you looking just for sad songs to cry to? Well I don't know about cry, but I have some sad ones. Though some (ok most) of them don't really have sad lyrics, so much as the music itself sounds sad, or just makes me sad sometimes, I guess it is an individual thing. But anyway, here are a few: How's It Gonna Be - Third Eye Blind I Don't Want You Back - Eamon (good for break-ups, lol) Look What You've Done - Jet The Freshman - The Verve Pipe (I really like this song, but when I am in a certain mood it can make me very sad.)

I have tons, but I will try to keep it short. Addicted to You - Simple Plan Amazed - Lonestar Hanging by a Moment - Lifehouse Save Tonight - Eagle Eye Cherry You're Beautiful - James Blunt You and Me - Lifehouse Those are some of the good ones I have.

First of, let me say that I do agree with you Shy on one point, my girl does not need to dress up in any way to make me any more attracted to her. However, it does make me feel good to know that she is putting thought into it and thinking about me. As for the looking better in the bedroom, my gf did this for me once (we didn't have sex but did have some other...playful activities) I would say maybe some lingerie with a tight blouse and a skirt. Maybe some high-heels, whatever you think he would find attractive. I know that the one thing that drives me absolutely crazy, and I mean I can barely control myself, is to see my girlfriend in one of my shirts. I am 6'3" and she is around 5'7" or 5'8", so it is like a dress on her. To see her with that on and not much (or nothing) else, oooh, it sends tingles down my spine just thinking about it. I hope this was helpful.

I don't really have a ton of experience with this, but it happened to one of my friends once. She was on the pill and missed her period. She said it had something to do with the dosage. But until she went to the doctor and found that out she thought she might be pregnant. Anyway, I would suggest taking a pregnancy test and/or going to a doctor (who will probably do some kind of pregnancy test as well).

Well, first off, i wouldn't be worried about the relationship thing if she had a boyfriend before. If she had one before I doubt she would have a problem with having one now, especially if you are way better. It sounds like she really likes you, I would just tell her that you like her. Try doing it when you are alone... at night if possible. Make it really sweet. Basically, to summarize, tell you how you feel in a really sweet way, and if you are interested, it sounds like you could have a good relationship with her.

Sometimes when I hear a song on the radio it reminds me of a time I had fun with my friends, or it could remingd me of a person. Each one of my friends has at least one song that reminds me of them. I don't know what it is about music that makes us remember or think about certain things, but I like it. (ok, I do know that hearing is closely tied with memory, which causes certain noises to set off certain memory reactions in our brain, but it sounded good right? lol. And either way, I still like it)

I agree with ilse, start with a light approach. Maybe something like, "so how do you think this is going?" Or something like that, if she wants to talk about the relationship, then this should be fine for starting that conversation.

I would say, if you don't have anything else planned, go to the play. I t will show that you might be a little bit interested in her, without comeing on too strong. Then, if you decide that you might kind of like her, maybe take her to lunch or something some other time, but I would say that this play thing is a good place to start. As for the likeing or asking out first, I think either can work in different situations. Also, it depends on what type of 'asking out' you are talking about. If you mean go to out to dinner, then I would say you wouldn't really have to like them before hand, that can develop during the date. If you mean ask her out like to be your girlsfriend, then generally you like them first. Hope I could help, Good Luck

I dunno, it has always come easily to me. Also, my best friend (now my girlfriend) is a girl, so I pick up on a few things. I guess I'm just lucky.

Yeah, like kiss said, getting some inside info on if she likes you from a friend could be good. Also, decide for yourself before asking them out if the risk of the relationship changing is worth he possibility of going out with them. If so, go for it, if not, then you might reconsider. Good Luck.

lol, well, one thing is that adaptation is key, I'll tell you that much. Find what the person you are with likes, and give it to them. Each person has different things that makes them tingle. This will let them know that you care about them. Also they will return the favor. Just a page out of my book.

Well, I am sorry that you have had to go through this. I think everybody goes through something like this at some point, some more drastic than others. know that six months ago I felt alot of the things that you are describing, but it does get better. I know you think I am pulling this out of my * * *, but I am not. Forget about girls for a while. Concentrate on your own life. Do things for you. Do like sports? art? playing music? whatever your passion is, go for it. Take your mind off of girls. They are going to be there all your life, getting one tomorrow should not be your biggest concern. When you do find someone that you are into and who is into you (everybody does at some point I promise) then you can give her your time and energy. But until then spend your time on you. I hope I could help.