Howtobefreaky

Okay, so, I'd like to trim my pubic hair. TRIM. Not shave. Trim it down to a eighth of an inch. This is my first time doing any thing of this sort down there. I can find plenty of guides on the net on how to shave, but I don't want to shave. What's a good way to do it? Just get scissors and try to match all the lengths? I'm afraid it'd come out uneven.

I don't think you're so right. You may be right that I'm reading too much into her situation, but there's definitely chemistry here. And I'm not her therapist. Yes, she told me about how her ex and her split up, but you know why she told me all the stuff about how her boyfriend isn't interested anymore, and how he feels it's wrong when he's around her? She told me that because I asked her what the circumstances behind her breakup were (investigating, I guess). Other then that, we've never talked about anything real deep. Honestly. She hardly ever lets me in to her life more then the occasional funny thing at home. Usually we just talk about music, movies, or what's going on in our science class. And that's really it. And why did I call her boyfriend a jerk? Because that's what she said. I was just using her word. Do I think I've been her friend for too long without making a move? Yeah, maybe a little, but I've been consciously not going too deep into the relationship to battle it. We've only really started becoming friends that can have a fluent conversation in the past month or so. Before then we just kind of knew each other. Plus, it's not like we get alot of time inside school to even talk. We get an hour and a half for science. Our science class is 3 times a week, and the last class is only 45 minutes. That's not a lot of time, especially when you consider all the time we've had to be quiet for tests, and other things. As for 2a, I don't know alot of girls my age that will make any sort of move towards a boy, even if they know they like them. That's just something a lot of girls don't feel comfortable doing. Honestly, I don't agree with much you say. And no, it's not because what you're saying isn't stuff I want to hear, it's that you've completely misjudged our current relationship to sky high levels, and just assumed things. We're NOT that close. Yes, we're friends, but we're not great friends. We haven't been friends for long either, again, only a month or so, and I've seen tons of people who've been friends longer then that start dating. The only thing I really agree with (or I at least see is plausible) is 2d. I don't agree with the fact that she wouldn't talk to him if she was interested in me. That's like saying she can't like 2 people at the same time (though obviously one more then the other). The "There is one man in her life that keeps her attention and it's him at this point." is what I'm just worried about, but I don't totally subscribe to the theory yet.

Well, there's been this girl, obviously, that I've liked for some time, and I think she likes me. Unfortunately, she's had a boyfriend...until recently. She just told me today that her and her boyfriend broke up a couple weeks ago. The reason she told me this was to tell me that she was mad because he had invited her to this party, even though he knew that she wouldn't be able to make it. I don't know if she's mad because she can't go, or (what I think is truly the case) she's mad because he's being a jerk. He broke up with her. She said he was getting tired of her or something, but she also said that he was a huge christian, and whenever they were together, he felt like he was doing wrong, which she said wasn't fair to her, and he knew it. So now they've broken up, and a couple weeks have even passed, which is generally a good mourning time for those who didn't want to break up, but I'm not so sure in this case. See, she said that she still talks to him, fairly often. This is what worries me. I mean, she seemed perfectly fine and over it when I talk with her this morning, but when I look back at what she said, there's alot of connections still there, mostly on her part. I know she still has some feelings for him. As I said before, I'm pretty sure she likes me. One because she knows I find her attractive (thanks to her friend who I told much earlier) and ever since she's found out she's hung around me more and stuff. Also, it seemed to kind of come out of nowhere today that they had broken up. Maybe she was hinting at something? Or maybe I'm looking too closely. So, should I even try to get involved? I was thinking of just asking her on a simple date, no commitment, no boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, just a regular date. Does that sound okay, or should I just leave it? One reason I'm kind of rushing my decision is because I really only have till Wednesday, as that's the last time we'll have a class together, and it'd be the easiest to do it there (the next two days after that are finals, and I doubt I'd see her). I doubt we'd hang out over the summer, and I can really only talk to her on AIM (I don't know her phone number), so asking her over the summer isn't really an option, as I detest asking over AIM. It's so impersonal. Keep in mind, I really like this girl. I had kind of given up ever dating her because she and her boyfriend seemed pretty stable, but here it is. My chance.

Okay, so I'm 17, and need a job. My last job (at the local movie theater) actually went okay while I was working. I finished out my two weeks notice and my main boss even said I'd be missed. Then a little while afterwards, me and a friend who also worked there (but was more or less fired) came to visit old friends. We were already pretty hyber. On our way out, my friend went over to a Scary Movie 4 standee and ripped Carmen Electra's head off. Well, suffice to say, my ex-boss was pissed. Another manager there (who is a good friend of mine) told me we were both banned for life. He said that the reason I was banned, even though I did nothing, was because I didn't try to stop my friend. Then to make matters worse, me and my friend did something that I really shouldn't have. We went to the movies the next Saturday. Yeah, it was sort of a joke. Anyways, we got about 3 feet in when another manager told us to leave. I was told by my manager friend that my exboss said he'd call the cops again if we ever came again. So, what do I say on future work applications? I mean, being banned probably isn't going to get me a good reference, wether I deserve one or not. Specifically, I want a job at IHOP, and on the app it says to list past 2 places of work. This job has been my only one, by the way. Anyways, the app also asks if it can contact the employer and whatnot. So, what do I do? How can I handle this as best as I can? My friend told me to just not put it on my application, and pretend like I've never had a job before, or at least for the interview. I guess I can legally not list a place of work since I'm under 18. I could do that, I'm just worried they might do some sort of a background check and find it out, losing me the job. Then again, it's not a huge job, and they are in need of people, so it's unlikely they'll do this. ARG! What do I do?

Okay...so it didn't go well. I asked her how she felt about me, and she said she didn't know. Then I said something I just SHOULDN'T have. I basically compared her to this other girl I used to be interested in who gave me the same answer (she knows about it). She really hates this girl, so she got mad. And that's basically how that ended. Got home, got on AIM and she was there. I tried to clear stuff up, but it just didn't...go well, again. I feel that asking her wasn't the problem, it's just what came after it. Told her our friendship was more important then dating, told her that I shouldn't have compared her to that girl, told her that the i don't know answer was fine, but it's not like I'd be waiting around for her to make up her mind. We got into a minor argument before she went to bed. So now...now I just want to tell her that I'm sorry for everthing, that I handled everything wrongly and I shouldn't have brought anything up, and that I think our friendship is honestly more important then anything. But...now I feel it's too soon to do it now. I also feel that I shouldn't bring it up again, but right now there's bad feelings in the midst, and I'd like to get them cleared before school resumes, if that's at all possible. What should I do?

I don't really think it would ruin the friendship if we broke up, unless we were going out for a long time, in which case it is worth the risk. But if we lasted only a month or so, we'd probably still be pretty good friends. And now that I think about it, if she turns me down tonight, then I really don't think the relationship will be ruined. I mean, she didn't seem to mind when I told her the other stuff, and this actually clears up feelings on both sides. As for her dating all the other guys, that's about 5 guys in the course of 3 years, so its not that bad. So yea, I've decided to ask her out tonight. I'll let you know how it goes.

So I'm in a rather interesting predicament. It obviously has to do with a girl. This girl and I have been friends for about a year, but never anything more then talking on the internet or hanging out with the same group at lunch, so it's never gone too deeply. And I've always had a crush on her, but when we became friends, she was dating this guy, for quite some time. One of her ex-best friends told me that she had a crush on me when we first became friends though, so that's a good sign. Well since she was dating when we became friends, I kind of decided that it wouldn't work out (especially since all my friends seem to hate her), and when she and her boyfriend broke up, I was already dating a girl. Then when that ended, summer break was occurring, so I never even got to see her. Also, after summer, our conversations were usually started by me. So flash forward to a few weeks ago. I was talking with her on AIM about this one girl I saw at the movie theater where I used to work, and that she was really pretty and stuff. She told me that she didn't like to talk about girls with me. When I asked her why, she said that it made her feel jealous (another good sign, I thought). Then I did something incredibly stupid, or so I thought at the time. I admitted my feelings. Not full on, but enough that she got the message. In my mind, it seemed much more...subtle. Anyways, I basically told her that she shouldn't be jealous, I had always thought she was beautiful, and that if I didn't think we were such good friends I'd ask her out. That last part was just not called for. Then after that I said that I felt like a huge dumb*** for saying that. She then replied that I shouldn't always second guess myself. I don't exaclty know what she was talking about. Either it was about how I thought she only thought of me as a friend, or how I felt I shouldn't have sent that. The latter one, probably. So I basically thought this was the end of our friendship, but then something weird happened. After that, she started initiating all our AIM conversations. At first I thought it was probably because she didn't want it to feel awkward, since I probably wouldn't have IMed her, but she;s been doing it mostly every day since then. That was 3 weeks ago. Most people would quit that by now. And then a week after I told her that, I actually hung out with her and one of her friends outside of school, a first ever. Yes, she invited me to that. Then last week we talked alot about movies, and she came up with an idea to have a movie night, between just us. I had previously thought of this, but decided not to mention it. I expanded on it, and usually with girls, if they come up with something and I expand on it (i.e. make concrete plans), then they'll forget about it afterwards. Not so with her. She has actually reminded me about it, like yesterday, when she wanted to know the exact details. Another good sign. Also, she's dated most of the guys in our little group, and while that may not be the most respectable quality, it does mean I have a shot, as she doesn't seem to be picky. Now I'm at a point where...where I don't know. I'm going to drive her back to her house tomorrow night, if I ask her out, I can do it there. The question is, are the points above enough for the chance she might not have banished me to the friendzone yet, or at least brought me out when I spoke my feelings? Should I say something? I really do value our friendship, and if asking her out damages it, I wouldn't want it. Then again, I've already admitted my feelings, which she took fine, and this is only a slight step above that. I don't know. Advice?

I've known this one girl since late last May at my job, where we both work. She's very attractive and fun to be with. She was a little on the immature side though, so I never asked her out, though we stayed good friends. Once school started (she goes to a different school) and she quit her job, we lost contact. That is, until last Friday when I called her to see how she was doing. She seemed very excited to talk with me. Since then, everything's changed about how I view her. She seems more mature somehow. She also calls every day now, if I fail to remember. We talk for hours and there's quite a bit of flirting on both sides. We've made plans to do something this Saturday. It could turn out to just be the two of us, maybe not. But today on the phone she kept saying how excited she was for Saturday, since we haven't seen each other in a month and a half. This, to me, seems like greenlight signs. But there are two hiccups: 1 - She said she liked some friend of her brother's a bit. She has given me no clues that she is obsessed about him though, so that's a good sign. Even today he called while we were talking and she switched over to his line to tell him she'd call back later, and then she said to me that I should feel special because she wanted to talk to me more then him. 2 - She could just be excited because we haven't seen each other in a while. She could think that she's just meeting a good friend she's been out of contact with for quite sometime. Even so, I have plenty of female friends, and I never talk to them every day on the phone, and they never get excited when they're about to hang out with me with a long period of inactivity prior. Really, I don't think you'll be able to tell me anything solid. I figure on Saturday I'll somewhat ask her out. That's really the only way I can find out. Anyways, what with the clues, what would you say?

Well, I asked my friend (who is a girl, and hardly ever says something to be cheerful) and she says that girls often like more then one guy. Guess this is just one of those things you can't generalize women on. In other news, the girl this topic is about has almost started dating this guy, so...bad luck there.

Okay, so there's this girl I've started noticing a couple weeks ago, but as I was in a relationship at the time, decided not to go for. Now I'm single, and I think she likes me, but it's complicated (isn't it always?). Today in class we talked about going to see a movie, and she even wrote her number down on my hand. To me, that seemed like a great sign, but earlier in the day she told me thatshe had heard this one guy who she liked, yet thought didn't like her in that way, now likes her. She didn't get a confirmation, she just heard it from someone. So after school today I was walking with her to her locker, and down comes the guy from the stairs. She says Hey look, there's Brice (his name) and they meet up and start talking (with me as well, since me and him are friends). I trail back to observe, and he goes to her locker with her, and when she leaves, so does he. Now I'm confused on what to do. I know she likes him, but could she also like me? I mean, it's possible. I've liked two different people at the same time before. What do you think I should do? Call her up and see if she wants to go do something, and then ask her out, or just forget it all?

Okay, so here's the situation. Me and this girl have just started going out. She's kind of quiet, and I'm pretty horrible at coming up with conversation starters anytime, but I'm doing surpisingly well lately. Anyways, we're going through that period I guess alot of new relationships have where it's kind of awkward. Since we JUST started going out, we haven't really held hands yet. Obviously I'll have to iniate contact, and that's hard in school with binders in our hands, and it's just not very romantic. Oh, and we're going to a concert together with some other people on Thursday, and I plan to progress our relationship more there, as in, physical contact. Nothing too extreme though. After we start holding hands, it's usually pretty smooth from there, from my experience with past relationships and other people's. So I kind of have a plan going right now to get through this awkward part, but I'd like any other tips on it as well.

To me, "cute" has no real meaning, unless you hear it in their voices. I'm called cute on a constant basis, but it's really nothing. When people bring me up in a conversation, I always hear how a girl goes "Oh, he's so cute" but it really doesn't mean that they want a relationship. I have been mislead once, because a girl called me cute, and I took that as she liked me. She didn't.

Well, I'm not currently to this point in my relationship with my girlfriend (we just started dating), but whenever my older sister would have her boyfriend come over (she was 18 when she did this by the way) they would just sit on the couch and watch a movie. They'd sort of watch it, but they also talked and cuddled during the movie. Just a suggestion.

Well, I'm pretty sure I already KNOW, but I am planning on asking her out on a real date tomorrow. Hopefully I can get a day off where she's free too. It's not really her schedule that's complicated, it's mine, because I actually have work. But my work schedule is only assigned per week, and on a Wednesday, so I can't make cement plans early in the week. Unlike her, where she just has practices for dance and stuff, always at the same time.

We've been out a couple times, but honestly, we've never been out on a real date. I only asked her out last Friday, and we've both been real busy since then. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend, and we are techincally "together", it's just that it's that awkward, early part of the relationship that happens in High School.