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isisastaria

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  1. I have no idea what country you are from but in America we'd get what's called a RESTRAINING order on him and his family. This is ordered by a judge and keeps him and his family a certain distance from her at all times. Sounds like they all have issues with boundaries. Take legal action. If she isn't taking part in the communication with him and his family, she should have no problem doing that.
  2. That Australian gentlemen left the sweetest message, didn't he? I would average it at 2 times per week and go up or down if you guys want.
  3. Oh yeah...I'm sure that would happen... I know a lot of the people who are involved with that do it through friends...or find out about it through friends. Others tend to just do it when they're drunk. Some do it because they have always been curious. I guess it could be any scenario, really. A whole class? Wow...that sounds a little bit like a movie. But you never know.
  4. I feel the same way about a guy I dated around 3 years ago! It didn't work out...but I have seen him around town. It's hard to let go!!! (Esp. when they are eye candy!)
  5. Ouch...another girl... Well, I would say that you could start out with a little communication and see how he responds. Then build up from there. Couldn't hurt just to ask him how he's been. I think that would be pretty self explanatory..
  6. BTW...you're in a small town..they tend to have less of an "open minded" opinion about these things. Or is that your experience?
  7. Um, I think that is very sweet of you to be concerned. He already gave you his answer, though. He would have said something by now...there are a lot of guys out there you don't have to worry about, you know?
  8. At your age I saw my boyfriend everyday. I don't know if that was healthy, tho. I would say whatever feels good to you two. I would just discuss it with her. She could only be flattered to know you want to see her more. You can figure it out! I see my fiancee around 4 to 5 times per week. But we are older and in a different life situation.
  9. But there are groups of people...there are ways to find them online or in society...places that are known for that. (As far as I know there are common places in my area for that stuff). I wouldn't go near it.
  10. I can tell you what I know. It seems with this sort of thing someone always feels left out or gets hurt and it can really screw up a relationship.
  11. Sweatheart, you can wait a while until you find someone that won't involve yucky feelings!
  12. Haha!! You're in that really really ackward moment (as some of my gay male friends find themselves) when you are not sure if someone is gay. Well, I have to be honest with you. Be very very careful. I know you have a huge crush on him and I understand that. But although people are more accepting these days, there are still some that are not understanding at all. Some men are just feminine and are completely straight. You DO not want to get involved with something that could look like harassment! He would have proof now (the letter with your phone number on it). He could just be looking at you because he feels ackward, too. My advice...tread carefully...and go where you know the guys are gay to meet new people!!!
  13. Sorry...was in a hurry....hypothyroidism is an underactive thyroid gland. Go to the Dr. because if something goes left undetected with this, then infertility can result.
  14. Hi! I'm a labor doula (aid in delivering babies). Maybe I can help. A few questions would be: Have you had a miscarriage? That can cause galactorrhoea (what you described). It can also be prolactin (a hormone we women produce. levels can unexpectedly rise). It can also be hypothyroidism so I would go see your Dr. if I were you just to check your prolactin and to make sure you aren't pregnant. PS...the "six holes" are just your natural mammory (or milk) holes. That's just how they are when milk comes from the breast.
  15. If we all lived a little closer, we could all hang out!!!!
  16. Also, This is a small mirror of bigger things. People have little indicators of their core. This is one of those. You can talk to him about it and somehow let him know your family gives gifts on holidays! Hope the guy gets it then
  17. Answers to your questions: NO...not overreacting Your concerns are very reasonable. I married a guy like that and never saw the end of it. It only gets worse. Does he have a history of this? You've been with him a while, right? I think he should know better. You're a hotty and obviously smart. You deserve better.
  18. AND...don't let a guy like this EVER move in with you again! Put your foot down and protect yourself, sister!
  19. Oh, come on! She's JUST as upset as you are! Girls usually take it worse and it lasts longer than guys. I garuantee she is upset and cares A LOT
  20. Why not arrest him? He STOLE your money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  21. I need as much feedback as possible!! Please ? I have lots of views and hardly any replies! Even if you just agree with the last post I would appreciate just knowing that. Thank you!
  22. DOWNSIZE!!! You sound just like me and my ex-husband. I have found SO much peace with a way of life (Feng Shui). It has to do with living a minimalistic lifestyle (according to YOUR specific preferences). It's not a big strange huge lifestyle change or a religion. It's just a way to put your way of living into perspective. My favorite point the author makes is that we pay a huge mortgage to fund the storage of lots of "STUFF" that we don't even necessarily need. Then it piles up and adds drama and congestion to our lives. PLEASE READ THIS BOOK!! IT IS GARUANTEED TO HELP!! Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston
  23. Just a sweetness and authenticity. Gentleness and respect. non-judgemental.
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