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ghost69

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  1. it sucks that people have to go through these types of relationships just to find out that they don't need them.
  2. i really hate seeing good people holding onto crazy people because they feel they have to help them or whatever.
  3. i think the above post is 100% correct. if not really close to 100%.
  4. i'm sure most of your friends didn't mind it.
  5. yeah. find some other women. if she is interested, let her pursue you.
  6. what is the coverage that is unnecessary? insurance isn't that much these days.
  7. a lot of the time the SO doesn't give the other person time to adjust. this ends up in them splitting. a lot of people want different things in life, but just at different times in their lives. he will come around. he really didn't say he didn't want that.
  8. and i don't care how charming that cockroach is. he's dirty and disgusting and already made you feel repulsed.
  9. be upset with them, not yourself. you gave your all. they couldn't respect it. f them. if a cockroach that you flushed a week before came back up the toilet, would you let him in the house or flush him again? i already know your answer. hehe
  10. maybe hang out with some couples that are married and have kids. he could start feeling comfortable. it sounds as if he wants to but it scared of it at the same time. i wouldn't push if he isn't comfortable though. i don't think it has anything to do with it being you though.
  11. don't get me wrong. there has to be some somewhat nice looking facade. i'm all about shapes too. and no i don't need the whole fake tatas and smoking model type girl. just works out, in shape or very close to be in shape usually works for me.
  12. whenever i don't feel something from someone, i usually use the same sayings. oh, i've been busy. oh, i'm going to bed. etc. i usually do it when i don't want to be bothered at that particular moment, or i'm not interested. maybe she is busy though. she said next week. what about the weekend though, you know?
  13. who cares if it is behind your mutual friends' backs. maybe you will totally hit it off and can come out at some party and say "we have been dating for 3 years behind your backs. and we are in love." lol, that would be great.
  14. i have an idea of what a perfect woman is. externally it includes nice eyes, cute nose, in shape, blah blah. a lot of features the normal man would consider hot. anyways, i usually don't go for a girl that has them all. if one or two of those criteria are met or i just dig her style, i will go up and talk to her. but if the personality isn't there, no further for me. personality ends up being number 1. i use number 2 to get to 1 though. i can't look at a woman and think, dam, i bet she can talk about trucks or something for hours. lol. nobody can tell that.
  15. lol @ the article survey. i just noticed that. i guessed. haha. i took the quiz and got the same results though. dam i'm blind.
  16. show some interest back. don't go overboard and seem too eager though.
  17. 3 wheels = tricycle. remember how fun a tricycle was?
  18. i do that a lot. lol it works almost everytime. they can't stand that you aren't talking to them and want to know why. then they want a date or something further. lol too bad you didn't go for the number. you can still get it at church right?
  19. marriage is work. i haven't been married yet, which is good, but i see it with my friends all of the time. they feel smothered and look for a way out. some have ended up seeing another guy/girl on the side. it's horrible. i bash them for that. but my good friends stay by their woman/man and work through everything. those are the ones that will be together forever and i totally admire that.
  20. i don't think that is fear of the person they are with at all. you should feel completely comfortable with going further. marriage and kids is a huge deal and really has nothing to do with who you are with. i mean yeah, you want to be with someone you love and want to be with, but that aspect of life is huge. i can totally see why he is insecure about it. i don't think it has anything to do with you as being the one to do it with.
  21. just remember all of the times you felt put down or smothered by these guys. don't let them sweet talk their ways back into your hearts. this is what scumbags do.
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