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if she really loved you she should have respected your wishes from the start.its simple you....or her friendship with her ex boyfriend?you figure out the rest.....
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unfortunately some of lifes hardest lessons you half to expierience first hand to understand and learn from them.(trial and error).anyways,,,what the lady that replyed to you said about you being a safety net is right on the money.if this girl really wanted you she would be there no matter what her dad and mom did.that has nothing to do with you or her degree of her love and interest level in you..6 months from now you will be with somebody new...that is unless you continue to let her manipulate you.... good luck
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you are tough......it will pass... we are all going to die.......you have still got a long ways to go
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still wants to be"just friends"pleaseeeeee....yeah,,she had a day to think about it..what she thought about was how she doesnt want to spend time with you in counceling,,,and will probably continue on with her cuz,,thinking she will get away with it because she knows how to manipulate you....think about it...would you do this to her if it was reversed?dump her!!!!!! just my opinion....good luck...you deserve better..
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Girlfriend just broke up with me 3 hours ago :(
jacobs replied to Nate's topic in Breaking Up Advice
well....from my experience,my opinion is that when a woman (especially a young woman)says that she needs space,means that they want to see other guys,or a new guy...my guess is that there was somebody 4 months ago that she broke up with you over,and he most likely rejected her,prompting her to call you back and tell you what a mistake that she made.and now she has another shot at him etc.remember thats my opinion.im a former combat decorated marine from desert storm.and believe me,i would take a heartbreak from a woman over my wartime heartbreakes and wounds emotional as well as physical without giving it a second thought.as hard as this is for you right now,you need to face this right now.im not saying that the military is a bad choice...but not for the reasons that you have.the problem is with her not you....stand your ground and give her nothing!!!especially letting her see you down and emotional......stand tough bro..... -
thats what i was trying to say.....what orchids said..lol. eve,you shouldnt play with peoples emotions,because at the end of the day it will just be you.....please dont take offense,im nobody to judge.ive learned that you get what you give....
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hes not playing games with you...hes afraid you will dump him again when you become bored with the relationship,just like you did the last time.i really dont think that you are ready for a commitment.all you seem to be concerned about are your needs and feelings.
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ask her to marry you.......
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in your reply to my first question as to the reasons for your break up.you say about you and bob.....(we had a crush on each other for years)...i liked joe too).......there is no question in my mind that joe loves you.but he will always feel less then bob....remember your words about you and bob?....we had a crush on each other for years....i liked joe too.and im not trying to grill you.im just trying to show you how joe feels about this.the male ego is very fragile.and im still curious as to whom you were more physically attracted to before the fling with bob.(physically)...you had a crush on bob remember?and you (liked joe too).when you can be honest about that with yourself,then you will be able to salvage whatever it is you feel you and joe have.i dont recomend telling joe who you were more physically attracted to though....let me know... s.
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the key thing here,coming from a guy....is where you say that (you knew joe liked you).and he knew that you knew he liked you.but you slept with bob.do you see what im getting at here?im sure joe has known all along what happened between you and bob.its a male ego thing.in which his has been damaged.im sure joe and bob have always been very competitive.and part of the problem is that in joes mind he feels that you are more physically attracted to bob sinse you chose him first.and sinse you were all best friends it cant be ruled out as a meaningless one nite thing with a stranger.im curious as to which one of the two(joe and bob)before the intamcy with bob,were you more physically attracted to?after all like you said...you knew that joe liked you,yet you chose bob.put yourself in joes shoes.does this make sense?joe will always feel that he is second best to bob...and im also curious as to why you and bob arent friends anylonger?anyways i hope this helps.
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this is the first topic i have ever read in this forum that totally pertains to my situation.the only difference is that until recently,i hung on for 8 months asking the same questions to myself of her motives.yes,,,it is a heartless and childish way to end things.she kept me on the backburner,saying friends only,and im seeing someone else etc etc.yet during this past 8 months when i would decide ive had enough of pursuing her.she would pop back into the picture and throw me a line and reel me back in.only to be played with emotionally once again.we have had sexual relations this past 8 months on a few occasions.and its all part of her keeping me there for her ego.she gets a power trip,and or feels good about herself having a fool around like me,that she knows (loved)her and would always be there for her.but thats finally over now,and its me now rejecting her.she doesnt want a relationship,or me.but she continues to call me or e mail me,or stop by to try and run her game on me and i dont play it anymore.my point is dont waste 8 months like me only to realise that all of her reasons and you needing to know why ,doesnt matter....i wish i would have quit when she quit on us.good luck.......
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IM SO SICK OF EVERYTHING..... YOU CANT TRUST ANYBODY... GOD HATES ME...... I KNOW THAT ITS TRUE. BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN HE FEELS THE SAME ABOUT YOU. YOUR WOMAN WILL BETRAY YOU AND NEVER LIVE IT DOWN. YOUR FAMILY WILL FORSAKE YOU WHEN YOUR PRISON BOUND. AND YOU WONT FIND ME ON MY KNEES. WORSHIPING THIS GOD OF PAIN AND DISEASE. IT JUST MAKES ME MORE HARD LIKE A STONE. I DONT NEED ALL THE DRAMA... IM BETTER OFF ALONE.
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what was the reason...or reasons....that broke up the relationship?
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I WOULD LIKE TO ADD BY SAYING NOT TO BLAIME YOURSELF FOR HER GOING OFF WITH ANOTHER GUY,BECAUSE YOU DIDNT DO THIS OR THAT.MAYBE YOU DIDNT>?...BUT NOBODYS PERFECT...MOST WOMEN ARE FICKLE,HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS THAT ITS ALWAYS GREAT IN THE BEGINNING?THAT IS UNTIL SHE BECOMES BORED.AND THEIR ISNT A MAN IN THIS WORLD THAT CAN KEEP ONE WOMAN FROM GETTING BORED AND LOOKING FOR UNBORDOM ELSWHERE...UNLESS HES GOT A MAJOR BANK ROLE.ONCE SHE KNOWS THAT YOU LOVE HER THE THRILL IS GONE.EVER NOTICE THAT THE GUYS THAT TREAT WOMEN LIKE THEY DONT EVEN EXIST HALF TO BEAT THEM OFF WITH A STICK?BUT WHY WOULD YOU WANT SOMEONE THAT YOU COULDNT BE YOURSELF AROUND.I DO BELIEVE THAT FOR EVERYMAN THERE IS A WOMAN THAT WILL LOVE HIM ONLY.SOME FIND HER,,SOME DONT..AND WHILE YOUR WAITING....GET SOME.....
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IF SOMEBODY LOVES SOMEONE.THEY WILL DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO BE WITH THE ONE THEY LOVE....YOU DONT NEED FRIENDS LIKE HER......
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DUMP HER !!!!!!! FROM WHAT I HAVE JUST READ FROM YOU........ (1). SHES WITH OTHER GUYS. (2). SHES USING YOU.....(PLACE 2 STAY ETC) (3). SHES EMOTIONALLY ABUSING YOU.(CONTROL). MEANING,SHE IS WORRIED BECAUSE YOU ARE GETTING BETTER ABOUT THE BREAK UP.WHICH MEANS SHE WOULD LOSE POWER, NOT TO MENTION FREE ROOM AND BOARD,WHILE SHES OUT WITH THESE OTHER GUYS.... LISTEN BROTHER....SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU...AND THE ONLY MISTAKE SHE HAS MADE IS HER POSSIBLY LOSING HER MEALTICKET. KEEP HER AROUND FOR SEX IF YOU WANT TO...TREAT HER LIKE THE TRAMP SHE IS....THEN SHE WILL REALLY LOVE YOU....DONT EVR LET HER SEE YOU CRY AGAIN....TREAT HER LIKE S HIT....... I DONT MEAN TO BE SO HARD....BUT AS A MAN TO ANOTHER MAN YOU NEED TO KNOW THE TRUTH.. GO BROTHER...
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you miss the challenge...its part of being a woman i guess?i do know that the nicer i am to a woman the more she pulls away.but as you ladies get older,and you find that men arent looking at you the way they used to...you will wish you kept that nice guy.....
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my exe has been doing this to me for the past 8 months now....we broke up in jan..when i give up trying to work things out she gets real sweet,and when i respond its back to ice cold...im sick of it
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my exe has been doing this to me for the past m8 months now....we broke up in jan..when i give up trying to work things out she gets real sweet,and when i respond its back to ice cold...im sick of it
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why and how is it that someone comes into your life and promises you that they are not like the rest......they swear that there is nothing that you can do to ever push them away etc etc..and when you believe them,they turn into everything they swore that they were not?
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WHEN A WOMAN JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS,,,DO YOU REALLY THINK THE MAN INVOLVED IS GOING TO TAKE THAT LIGHTLY?THERE ISNT A MAN OUT THERE THAT JUST WANTS TO BE (FRIENDS)WITH A WOMAN,THIS EVERYBODY KNOWS AS YOU DO TOO.UNLESS HES GAY,AND NEEDS A GAL PAL TO GO TO THE MALL WITH,HIS MALE EGO WONT ALLOW HIM TO BE JUST FRIENDS WITH YOU.UNLESS YOU STRING HIM ALONG GIVING HIM HOPE THAT HE ONE DAY WILL GET INTO YOUR PANTS...IN WHICH CASE MAKES HIM A BLIND IDIOT.CYNICAL OR NOT,MEN AND WOMEN CANT BE JUST FRIENDS.THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE ONE OF THE PARTY GETTING THEIR FEELINGS HURT,BECAUSE THEY DONT FEEL DESIRED BY THEIR FRIEND....MY DOG IS MY FRIEND,,,AND I DONT HALF TO BY HIM DINNER.
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are we ever really seen or touched?im talking about sex,.
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everything is about sex....what would you be doing on a dating site otherwise?
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BASICALLY YOU ARE.......HORNY...
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THIS IS A TOUGH ONE.....BUT I THINK DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW........SHES DRINKING AND USING AGAIN...YOU MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO NOTICE IT AT FIRST,BUT AS SHE PROGRESSES BACK INTO HER ADDICTION YOU WILL SEE.THERE ARE 2 THINGS YOU CAN DO.GIVE HER AN ULTIMATUM AND STAND FIRM BY IT.BECAUSE IF YOU DONT.SHE WILL JUST USE YOU,BECAUSE SHE KNOWS YOU LOVE HER,AND THAT WILL HELP HER GET HER DOPE OR WHATEVER SHE MIGHT NEED AT THE TIME.DRUG ADDICTS CANT AND WONT BE LOVED(BY CHOICE).....WHY DO YOU THINK SHES PUSHING EVERYBODY AWAY?AND THESE OTHER GUYS???ITS ALL ABOUT THE DOPE SACK...THE OTHER THING YOU CAN DO IS JUST ACCEPT HER AS SHE IS AND DONT PRESSURE HER...WHATEVER YOU DONT LET HER PLAY YOU...... GOOD LUCK..... AN ADDICT