i need help. my wife has been unhappy in our marriage but i thought we were doing good. she said she just needed a friend to keep her busy when i wasn't with her. she started a friendship with her second cousin who is 42 and still living at home. he was lonely too and it seemed to make her happy and that is what i wanted for her. he hung around us alot and became like part of the family. some things bothered me but her assurance that they were just friends made that disappear. finally she broke down and told me that she had slept with him and i just about lost it if it weren't for my two beautiful kids i don't know what i would have done to myself. i decided to try to forgive her because she said she wants to make our marriage work, but she said she still wants to be friends with him. i cannot trust him or forgive him for breaking my trust and taking my kindness and stabbing me in the back. she does not understand how i can give her a chance and not him. what can i do? going out of my mind!
