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  1. pablovblack
    I love your avatar man....
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    its 01,00 in the morning here, i hope everyones is good .... Aden.
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    Oh yeah I understand for sure, I was just interested if people could drink and not be tempted to do mad things or if it made them feel worse than they do now (if thats possible ... It just doesnt make things worse for me but everyone else on here seems to say stay away from it.....
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    Yeah good for you man!, Keep on your toes, you know you dont want to be back where you was yesterday.... ouch!! Just dont let her walk all over you ....
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    I read loads in this fantastic forum and it has certainly become my "safe place", I read a lot that people recommend no boozing/drinking while we are carrying out the very excellent No Contact method. Some say that it makes you depressed or anxious and that it makes you feel ten times worse in the morning..... I personally can drink as much as I want and it has no effect on my emotions while drinking or the day after. What about you guys, do you find drink makes it worse or does it not bother you much.... I am interested what your personal views are......
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    Hugs for you honey, I feel for you..... I think I'm going to stay the hell away for a while because after seeing her face in a dingy nightclub on Saturday in the midst of the dancing, I thought I had seen a ghost, I actually had to prop myself up against a wall because I was going to drop to the floor... Like being visited from the grave..... How are you doing that my friend, is she coming to see you or something?
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    That is without doubt the funniest thing I have read on this website in 2 months.
  8. pablovblack
    Yes men can change, but like previously mentioned they need to do it for themselves... I changed...
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    THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.... NOTHING..... IF YOU FEEL IT SAY IT, IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT DO IT............ IM WITH YOU MAN.......
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    Good point my friend.... I would love to look inside your head after all the knowledge and self learning you have done in the past few months.. take care.
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    When doing NC would you guys say it is better to disappear of the face of the earth or not be afraid to bump into the ex. If you disappear they are going to wonder a damn sight more about you than if they see you around... Or if your around and your confident you may come of as more attractive to them.. What do you think.... Your Views if you please.....
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    I like your work Scruff, nice visuals ha ha.
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    Andrew please calm down, this girl is not worth a dime, not a single dime. How anyone on earth can do that is beyond me, she does not care for you and is a spiteful evil person, she is not worth it my friend not at all.. Im so sorry for you, You need to get rid of myspace right now its not healthy. These words are going to be hard but your going to have to chalk this one up as a learning curve buddy.. From over here in England my heart goes out, I'm so sorry man. Get on NC and get on its fast it is the ONLY solution you need right now... Do everything you can to show her how much of a man you are by disregarding her, its all about you now man, YOU YOU YOU........ Read your own post man....
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    I always smile when a post like this arises, ones where people want to hear about success storys. They nearly always have little amounts of replys yet the ones about how to get them back have loads.. It could mean one or two things. 1: The help with NC worked and the people never come back to tell of there success. or 2: Using NC rarely works to get our ex's back.... I'm thinking the latter, but I always hope for the first... Hugs for everyone.
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    You sound like my ex girlfriend.... and you know what she did.... she left me..... I say leave him, find the strength inside yourself to do it... Give him a LOT of time (not a week) to think about what he is losing If he comes back and understands exactly what you are saying about him without you telling him his flaws then he has changed, If not let him go... I just wish I had that extra chance, because people do change.. My ex on the other hand had, had enough. I wish you luck.
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    i think you hit the nail on the head..
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    I thought it was funny, also theres truth in it...
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    I know what yoru saying but I just dont think that I want to be looking through them again, In my situation due to the fact that It was mainly my attitude that caused the break up everytime I look at them I will be sad not reminiscent.... Ok, but can anyone help me on this.... I made her dad a website for his business a couple of years back and I administer the website and look after it, this is not something I want to do anymore and need to pass ownership over to him, do you think it wise for me to send him a letter including a little note about how due to the circumstances I cannot continue doing it (in a nice way) and also write down the steps in order for him to look after it himself..... Please your ideas anyone.
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    Thank you very much for this, its the best thing I've head in ages I will be listening to more of his sermons.
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    I think that I really need to get rid of her stuff, I honestly cannot throw/disgard it, But It can't be helping me at all having it lying under my bed like this. Do you folks think it is a good idea to get rid of it sooner than later, also may it even help me take some of the power back from the dumper, by showing that I'm getting over her??? Sorry I'm just hoping for help.
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    Thanks guys I think all of your ideas are good, the contents are photo's, cards, hair straighteners, bath robe, curlers and bras etc... She came and took some personel stuff from my house and left loads of other things that was scattered around. I'm not wanting to get hurt and I think honestly I need to move on now, these things where like a little bit of hope that was left but I guess thats crushed now. so I may do it when she is not actually there, just drop it off... But Im too scared to even walk up to her door..... Thanks Again.
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    Ok, I bumped into my ex GF of 5 and a half years over the weekend and she totally blanked me, I mean she didn'even t want to acknowledge me or anything, I had hoped that after 1 month of NC that she might be willing to chat or at least say hi, but I guess with it been in a club and alcohol been involved then she would then deffinatley try and not speak to me. Anyway Im getting the picture now and I guess yeah I am coming to terms with the fact that I may never get another chance to kiss her lips etc etc.... So I have a box with all her stuff in and I dont want it around me any more I'm going to give it back to her, she lives about 4 minutes walk away from my house and I just need to give her it all back now. But if she doesnt even want to acknowledge me what do you guys think the best way to give her stuff back would be. Drop it off one night? Call around and leave it on her doorstep (which would be safe)? Give it to a friend to pass on? I would appreciate it if some one could help me try and close this loose end..What would/did you do... Thanks guys and I wish you all the best.
  23. pablovblack
    Honey, there really is only one way and that is though NC (No Contact), it is a way to allow yourself to heal and also for them to think about what they are doing and what they truly want. This method is championed on this forum as it is really the only way, trust me It does work.
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    Some men, go out with unattractive women for a few reasons, maybe they are insecure and are scared that a "hot" partner might run off or cheat, also they may like the feeling that in the eyes of society if they are more attractive than there partner it will make them feel better and more in control. I on the other hand would take 1 girl of mediocre looks and an amazing personality/brain over 100 dizzy blonde chicks. and you can take that to the bank.. ha ha. Just something to throw into the mix.
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    Joyce its really up to you to decide what method to use, but If you will please tell us your situation and we may be able to point you in the right direction. But dont forget that If you want your ex back and people are telling you to go NC, then its probably for a good reason and the hardest thing is accepting that it may be the only way. Im coming to terms right now that I may never kiss my ex GFs lips or wake up in the morning with her. A bitter pill, but an honest pill no less. And yeah a good post buddy, you have your head screwed on for sure.
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