coldheart
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Day 60, and technically broke it on Friday (See here: ) All of a sudden, what seemed so easy at first had become so hard. Feels like 2 steps forward, 10 steps back
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Post here instead of contacting your ex!
coldheart replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
If you are a good person as you seemed, you certainly did not prove it in the end. -
I fell ya brother. Day 0, Hour 9 of NC. Yeah I blew it today cause of an accidental contact last night. Back to square 1... sigh
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Day 3, seems like day 30. I was C-Listed off her Facebook (blocked), blackberry messenger, and told I couldn't contact her. I'm stuck even if I wanted to contact her!
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Day 14 of going into "friend mode", day 2 of complete NC. This wasn't totally by choice I must confess. She blocked me on FB, texted me on Thursday to not text her phone because her "husband had taken it and she did not want him to get psycho on her". I Poked her on FB Friday morning, and by evening I was blocked. So this is the first time I have no real option except NC cause I cannot reach out either. Weird situation and very painful.
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Post here instead of contacting your ex!
coldheart replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I miss you and hope you are missing me too. If you did what I think you did, I hope it was all for the right reasons and not just "for the kid's sake" or for "saving a useless marriage's sake". I can only hope that in the future we will cross paths but for now I must move on. Take care, friend! -
Exactly my next problem! ](*,) Day 3... Can't believe Ive made it this far. Paranoia that she may start to think I am not interested and giving up on any hope is kicking in...
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Yeah that is exactly what I am going to do. Thank you!
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Ugghhhh I hate Facebook for this same purpose!!! lol I am about to remove her from my live feed. I am pretty well self-controlled when it comes to visiting her page but I can't help it when its on my feed. So tonight I am making some adjustments! ](*,)
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Day 2, 06/09/10 So far I still feel bad when getting home and nothing is on my phone after a long day of work. What used to be an text inbox constantly filled with hearts, smiles and love, is now a desolate cobweb-collecting can of emptiness. She was supposed to take a test today that I had been encouraging her about since a month back. She had asked me on Sunday to celebrate with her if she passed, and I told her "Sounds Good" (Nor yes nor no), and haven't heard from her Since Monday evening. This is the first time we go this long without contact. I wonder if she misses me.
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Well we had a great talk in person and both agreed that our love was too strong to let dry up. We agreed on giving our relationship another go this time with baby steps and more care when saying things that would hurt. I think we are in a new chapter of approach. I guess my 9th day break of NC was a positive one in my particular case since it allowed my ex enough time to realize that her love was too strong to let me go forever.
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I think I am going to do this. Hopefully I'll be posting in the "getting back together" forum very soon.
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Well, we need to talk and work that out. I replied with a simple "I'm trying" and just got this reply: "(My name), it’s me….. (Her name)….. first and foremost your friend. I am trying too but I am scared you are going to reject me and what I have to say. GOD I miss you more then I can explain. =( I need but most importantly want to see you" I am thinking this is the type of response I am looking for?
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We've experienced mini-breakups in the past, but nothing ever like this. This is the longest we've ever gone and it seems as if she is determined to move on this time. However her approach is strange since she seems to not want to let go of me.