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  1. misery12
    You've gotten past the hard part, just have confidence. He's just another human and shouldn't be treated as a king unless he treats you as a queen. He's going to the game with you isn't he, I'm pretty sure if he was annoyed by you, he wouldn't rejected your invitation, but keep us updated. Good Luck!
  2. misery12
    A little bit. But she might just be used to your company, and want someone she can trust, and is comfortable around. This doesn't mean she wants to get back together, so don't get your hopes up. But, here's the real question - If you do move in with her, will you be alright if she brings another guy home, and they watch a movie together, or something. Or will that open old wounds?
  3. misery12
    Metallica, The main character's name is Andy. Funny movie! Saw it twice
  4. misery12
    Man, oh man, you have some things to learn. Don't call this girl ignorant because you "assume" she cares. What if she doesn't care and finds that since you're her boyfriend, you'll like her either way and that it doesn't matter. Maybe she doesn't believe in twisted relationships that are all about mind games. Why not just return her calls. I think she made it quite clear that it doesn't bother her, so stop trying to trick her into thinking it does.
  5. misery12
    Okay, well.. just from what you've written it seems that she may just be scared of committment with you because she's been turned down by you before. Meaning she's 0-1.. she might have given up. The other thing, you said yourself you ask questions... DON'T.. it's not a conversation if you just ask questions and she just answers. Talk about your day, and some funny things that happened. Turn it into a real conversation and not a Q&A period, man. Also, maybe give her some space, see if she starts initiating some of the conversations, if she doesn't, that should be your motivation to move on. If she does initiate once in a while, try and change your conversations around, so she's asking you questions. Why not log off your computer for a few days and go out and do something with your friends, and then come back and catch up with her. Good Luck.
  6. misery12
    In short, Yes. She likes you, or it's something that nobody will ever know except for her. From her response to you moving away, it's pretty clear that she does like you, and you should've acted on this. But i'm not one for could of, would of, should of's.. so live for today man. The thing is, if you're moving away, is there still a chance you two can hook up, if yes.. Go for it. If not, let her know exactly how you feel and that she's an amazing girl.
  7. misery12
    Yeah man, I dont know, it could be lots of things.
  8. misery12
    Don't pierce your ears just because she thinks it's cool. You shouldn't have to do something to make her think you're cool. You're her boyfriend, that should be enough.
  9. misery12
    Exactly. It's not the thought of you two getting closer, it's the thought of.. what's next? That's what is keeping you from not performing at your best. Move to the next step, and other things will fall into place, naturally.
  10. misery12
    I agree totally with Beec. But maybe, write her a FINAL letter, not too long, and not too mushy.. Or else you'll appear needy, which you probably are at this point of the break. Tell her that you realize that you went wrong, because she seems to have done nothing wrong in her situation. Say you understand her decision and that you will support her if she needs help with something. Then, go NC, if she's not interested, she won't write back.. What do you have to lose? Or you can just start NC right now, it's your choice.
  11. misery12
    Well here's the thing. Expect the best from the situation. Expect that your boyfriend WON'T go back, and trust him. He's with YOU. IF he does have a change of heart and goes back, then you know you shouldn't have trusted him, and he's not worth the time of day. BUt, on the other hand... if you don't trust him and keep worrying, and he ends up being trustworthy, that makes YOU look like the bad guy, and only bad things can come of that. It's your decision.
  12. misery12
    Well, what was the reason you and your ex broke up?
  13. misery12
    Why not Canada? There's many GREAT provinces.
  14. misery12
    I must say, for a 14 year old, you have exceptional grammar, unlike many kids in their early teens. Anywho.. I feel that this girl probably just wasn't expecting it, but that's not always bad. She could be smiling right now in her sleep, dreaming of you. It's too early to tell. Give her a few days man, no worries. Here's the thing, if she says she's not interested... you're fine. Don't let it phase you, keep your head up, and smile.. this will show her confidence and can only help your chances in the long run.
  15. misery12

    hehe

    misery12 replied to blackss's topic in Dating Advice

    Haha, excited are we?
  16. misery12
    I'm strong enough to know that I can move on without deleting her or shutting her out completely. Meaning, if a girl came into my life right now, I would NOT hesitate for a second to start something with her. I am not caught up on my ex, but I still find her behavior weird. It's really difficult for me to post now, just about my curiousities because everyone knows my story too well, and will base their advice souly on what they know. There's much more behind the scenes that I don't fill you in on. If I were to say that this was my friend that was doing this, you would have just replied normally, I see where you're coming from though. That's understandable. I am just wondering why she does this? We don't talk nearly as much as we used to.. (which is only good).. but how come when she initaited the conversation with me, she was so vague.. with one word answers. It gets annoying sometimes.
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    I just put this into here because I didn't know where else to put it. My ex started talking to me tonight, and then I start chatting her up.. and then she just starts answering, yep, cool, wicked... etc. She was the one that talked to me though, what's up with this?
  18. misery12
    No man.. don't see if the weekend does. Don't you see what you're subconsciously doing? You're still keeping tabs on what she's doing, and trying to figure out if she's thinking of you. DON'T. It won't get you anywheres. You have to live your own life man, and if she comes, then she comes, but do not wait for the day.. i'm only speaking from experience.
  19. misery12
    Exactly, each minute you waste fussing over her, the less time you have with the woman that is actually right for you. She has moved on, think of it as your benefit, if she was going to come back, don't you think she would have at least sent you an email by now? I think the only sign you're going to get.. is no sign at all, and let that be enough, and be your motivation to move on, chin up.. and find the woman that is right for you, and will be with you forever.
  20. misery12
    In a nutshell, I think that if you are having problems, and prematurly are having feelings that you don't want to be with her, than it's usually your head/heart talking, in which case.. you should listen to them because they're usually right on the money, for future benefits.
  21. misery12
    Hmm.. where ya going? haha
  22. misery12
    Yeah, or just sit right beside her and show no interest that she exists. I'm sure that'll hit her hard
  23. misery12
    Oh well.. at least you tried man. Keep your head up.
  24. misery12
    No problem man, I've been through it all and it took me at least 2 months to figure this stuff out. Feel free to PM with any questions whenever you feel down, I know how consuming those painful thoughts can be.
  25. misery12
    That's clearly why it's so hard to move on. She is your FIRST everything, and your most recent as well. You have no other memories or thoughts to occupy your mind, except for her. That's exactly what will prevent you from moving on from her. YOu have to get out there.. and occupy yourself, keep busy.. and sooner or later you'll realize you don't need her to be happy. You don't need to ignore her, but take as much time as you need to be emotionally over her, before you try to talk with her again. It's very hard to see someone you still have feelings for, lingering over another guy, trust me. It's not worth it.. i'm sure you'll be curious as to what she's up to, but trust me... she IS wondering what you're doing too. You haven't left her memories either. You're still there, don't worry.. but it's your decision what you plan to do with those memories. You have to respect yourself before anyone else will, or else they'll see that you don't love yourself, and start walking all over you. Once you gain more confidence and walk with your chin up and a smile on your face, only good things can come afterwards. That's why people who are sad all the time wonder why nothing good comes to them.. who wants to be around a moping kid all day long? Good luck.
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