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    Our "official" 5 year is coming up within the coming weeks. He is one of those guys who DOESN'T LIKE ANYTHING. But yes, he is still interesting to me. I have done searches on the net and haven't come up with anything good. I have asked people and they just ask me "well what does he like?" and he really doesn't particularly care too much for any one thing. Doesn't like jewelry.. etc. So, are there any suggestions you could give me? Maybe tell me what you have given your boyfriend for your 5 year? Or other anniversaries? I've already read similar posts to this but they are responces to what the person likes.. and this special person of mine doesn't really care for particular things, as I've said.
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    Yeah, that was definitely a no. She sounds like she really likes your company, though. Maybe cointinuing to be just friends is what will work out for you two.
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    Sometimes I really feel like I need someone to talk to other than my boyfriend. I do not have friends. Do not. Not one. I'm also a bit overly emotional whenever I cannot see my boyfriend because he is all I have, and I've come to that conclusion. Do any of you think that seeing a therapist or someone such as that may be going a bit too far? Maybe there's a book I could try reading instead? Basically, I need someone to talk to and help me out with making friends, perhaps tell me what I'm doing wrong because it's soo utterly rediculous, and also help me be independent when my boyfriend isn't around. As well as not being so paranoid about other things. What do you think?
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    I don't have any since High School. I only had 2 and we lost touch. I'm in college now but I don't click with anyone at all. It's absolutely true that I need to hang out with friends, but I don't have any. I told him I feel upset when I don't get in touch with him right away, and he told me not to haunt him, not to call him too much, etc. So I'm happy I only said I was upset and not going crazy. I don't know what it is with me lately, I think I've lost my mind.
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    I don't know what's wrong with me. I've been dating him for 5 years, he is trustworthy, all of that.. but I cannot stop myself from having these panic attacks when I cannot talk to him. I call him.. no answer at his house. Cell phone is either off or no answer. He is faithful-- so I don't worry about that. I am just always generally worried and panicky out of my mind if I can't hear from him. I dont even really know what it is that I worry about. I just do. Does anyone else here have this problem or any advice for me? And no, I don't have any friends to hang out with to pass the time or get it off my mind. I know that would help probably.
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    Maybe it was a dream that she was writing about? Did you read from the beginning of the entry? Maybe you should bring up the topic of a sex change some way and see how she responds. Or maybe she wanted you to see the diary? Just to see if you'd actually look?
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    I'm curious-- how did your husband find out about it? It could be who told him, such as what was said exactly, etc.
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    That happened to me., except I used lube. I got a yeast infection from it. No good. Maybe that's what's wrong, but then again you say you're okay when you wake up. Just give it another week and if it's not better, go see a doctor. Or if you don't want to, try some kind of cream like rash cream.
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    You should *definitely* ask. Even if she does like you, she could be weirded out by a sudden hug. Go about asking her if you can hug her when you two are about to part. That's a perfect time to. Just don't act all creepy and not too jokingly when you ask.
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    Go for it before someone else does ;p If you talk to her friend, it could help you with whatever decision you make as to wether or not you make your move and when. See how it goes... good luck and all
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    My boyfriend is the saaaame way. Things aren't like that anymore, though. It is so hard-- but just drop it. Trust me. Put it behind you and cross that bridge when you get to it. As for the insecurities-- it does affect the relationship as you've realized, and you've just got to either get over it, or pretend that you aren't insecure about things. At least try it for 2 months.. maybe it wont even take 1 month until things will get better, because you know they aren't by you bringing it up, you know? btw, maybe you should make a separate post so everyone in the forum can see it and give their input to you.
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    Tight and tough times like this happen. Just ease up, and focus as best you can. Now, the sexuality part is going to be something else if you parents are really that bad with it. You'll always be their kid, you and them both know that. It could just be something they'll have to get over. Take it all one step at a time and relax.
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    I think it would be more special if you didn't plan out where you were to have it. I know you want to know of a really nice place to do it at, but I think either of your bedrooms while you're both all alone in the house is perfect for a first time. Privacy, comfort, do it all up with the lighting and all of that-- and whichever one of your rooms you do it in, you can be all "ooh yeah.. we did it riiight here in my bed" or something like that,
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    urgent !

    xmrth replied to CoryD's topic in Pregnancy

    From what I understand, pre-cum only has sperm if you've ejaculated already within the day beforehand. It also would depend on her cycle at the date you had sex.. The only way to know for sure is to have her see a doctor about getting some sort of pill. Such as a morning after pill, etc. I'm sure someone can comment to you with more info on that.
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    I think the best way to find out if you're the one is to see how far your relationship takes you, not tell him to date all these other girls...
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    I have the SAME problem. I can't get to orgasm and it hurts eventually and I need my boyfriend to stop whatever he's doing. I don't know what it is, but from what I've gathered, it's due to a low sex drive and/or lack of concentration.
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    In a way, I am happy to know I'm not alone. Thank you all for the responses. I am in the process of trying not to show that I'm hurt or upset, and am going to try acting just like him with the communication and other things.
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    When me and my boyfriend of nearly 5 years argue, I care so much and am hurt, even over small little things. He doesn't seem to care one bit, and is able to go about his day, not even caring. A similar situation we have is if I were to not call him, he'd be fine with it. If I don't hear from him, I am hurt, I'm sad, depressed, etc. Sometimes I wonder if it means he doesn't like me? And now I'm wondering if that's just "how he is" and if he is not the only guy like that, and I'm not the only girl like this? I can't imagine someone being able to be like that and still "care" because I look at myself and know I care about everything that happens. Please give me some insight on this, it's hurting me. And yes, we've talk about it. It doesn't change anything because "that's how he is" and "this is how I am." I am confused by this.. I think it's because I care so much and he doesn't seem to.. I don't know, I'm looking for advice
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    Confidence. I think that's really attractive in a guy. It's hard to explain, but when you can tell a guy is confident, it's just... really attractive. -edit- and everything Scout just said. Very true about the smiling, too. Initiative.... etc.
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    That's very true- - a few years ago I would make my personality a bit different to win over some friends. It seemed to work a bit.. but then there's the problem of keeping at it. (being witty, etc.) I'm completely myself with my personality now and no one seems interested in wanting to get to know me more. What you have said about just talking to them without the intent of winning them as friends is something I have not tried. I am going to give that a shot. Your comment was very helpful to me, thank you
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    Thanks! I'll check that out.
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    They do. And then there's guys that automatically assume they'll have girls flocking to them just because they're in a band.
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    I completely agree with wishmistress: Just stop. Because eventually, you wont feel like you need that flirtatious attention only shared between you and her. It will take a little bit, but you'll get over it, and you'll feel alot better.
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    I don't know how to make friends (who are girls). Plain and simple. Or is that really the problem? In the past 5 years, I have only hung out with people about 4 times (other than my boyfriend who I've been with for just as long- -but not the reason as to why I don't have friends) I don't know what it is... People just don't seem to like me. I'm friendly, I'm not mean or anything like that. I'll get into conversations, things go well.. but no one ever wants to talk to me outside of college and work. I have no trouble getting male friends... why does it have to be so hard with the girls?
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