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  1. Mike_Wazowski
    I'm curious as to why you two hardly saw each other?? Tell me that reason then maybe I can give you some advice....Peace!
  2. Mike_Wazowski
    You really didn't give enough information as to why you feel this way. Are you together with his father or are you split up? Maybe if you are split up then maybe he reminds you of his father and thus you don't have any feelings for him.....Pls give some more info if you can.... .....Either way however, you decided to bring him into the world, thus it is your most important responsiblity in your life to raise him and Love him more than Life itself.
  3. Mike_Wazowski
    There's no worse feeling a guy can feel deep in his heart than the burning sensation of Jealousy. Imagining the woman you love in the arms of another man, doing things that only you two used to do. All I can say to you brother, is if you can't get those feelings out of your head, then you'd better learn to deal with them. Do you think that for the rest of your life you will never have sex with another woman except the one you are with now?? She has shown you that she will / has had sex with another. Even though she regrets it, she did it. The GOOD THING of it was that she didn't cheat on you. It happened when you were not bf and gf. Maybe 50 years ago it was the norm to only have sex with your future wife / husband...but in the 21st century it's quite different. I'm sure my wife had sex with her previous bf's before she met me, just as I had sex with my fair share of women before I met her. And I would assume that if we ever broke up I would find another woman and make a relationship and have sex, just as she probably would. That's life bro... Now, the fact that he is older than you and maybe better at sex than you are, and maybe he gave her more pleasure than you did....Well...my answer to that is a big...'DON'T WORRY ABOUT' As the Proverb goes...'Practice makes perfect' He's only better than you cause I'm sure he's had more practice than you. Any man can be an Awesome lover Bro! All it takes is to learn how to please a woman the way she wants, Listen to her, caress her, give her the attention she needs and of course, read up on what pleases a woman and most of all PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE! You seem to have found yourself a good woman. Don't screw it up by obsessing over the fact that while you were not BF and GF she had sex with another guy. Concentrate on that fact that even though this other guy may have pleasured her more in bed, she CAME BACK TO YOU! That tells me that she thinks that there are more important things than sex...like maybe LOVE! Good luck Dude!
  4. Mike_Wazowski
    Well Bro..the true test to tell if a woman has really orgasmed or not is this......While you are stimulating her clitoris,,and she reaches orgasm, she will push your hand, mouth, or whatever away from her clitoris quickly because the sensation after orgasm on the clitoris is like a tickling feeling which most women don't like.....There ya have it!
  5. Mike_Wazowski
    It's funny..A guy wants a threesome with two other women..but wait...Watch his interest in a 3P turn to disgust when his wife tells him that she wants two guys.....Wow...another penis invading His territory....and maybe a much bigger one than He's got! if your Husband wants a 3P...just for the fun of it say "Sure Honey, so long as the third person is a guy with a much bigger One than you got."
  6. Mike_Wazowski
    Are you trying to say that to change for someone is not good???? So if i am a wife beating drunk, I should just accept who I am and tell my wife to Deal With it.....??? Or should I try to change for her sake and mine? People who use the line "I am what I am, and I'm not changing for anyone" are the selfish losers that are destroying our society..... Maybe when you get past the age of 16 where most teenagers think that they know it All...then maybe you will understand what I am talking about! peace! And No disrepect intended!
  7. Mike_Wazowski
    No insult intended, but it's that kind of thinking that is destroying the American way of life. People unwilling to change, stubborn, unmoving......NoT good..not good at all!
  8. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro...She doesn't work right? So I assume that you are paying ALL the rent right? So what she wants is to live with you rent free and Knock Da Boots with another guy on top of that? Dude all I can say is Make sure she doesn't crack her head on the door while you are kicking her dumb azz out!
  9. Mike_Wazowski
    Well Goddess....I don't think Beaver Cleaver ever packed a knife.... hahaha! seriously though...maybe i miss read your message. My entire point with this thread has been that even though many things in the 21st century are improvements on past things, such as technology, medicine, etc.... The basic human relationship between people has not improved, infact it has worsened a lot. Divorce rates are higher, infidelity is higher, crime is rampant .......shall I go on? Lest I repeat myself...."The World is Going to Hell in a handbasket"
  10. Mike_Wazowski
    This is just another example of how the institute of marriage is being further eroded...Whatever happened to the promise.... "Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; FORSAKING ALL OTHERS, be true to her as long as you both shall live? " Trust me on this Bro...It wasn't her first time being with another woman....First time experiences like that are usually clumsy with a lot of shyness involved...But from what you said, it sounded as if she knew exactly what she was doing and knew exactly what she wanted. I'm not judging your action..infact if I was in the same situation I would have jumped right in......But as you know.....before a guy cums, he's not thinking straight. But after a guy cums, everything returns to normal and you definitely will regret doing it....Doing it with a girlfriend is one thing, but with your wife, that's a whole different ballgame. The problem with 3P's, 4P's, swinging, watching porno, etc... is it's very addictive, and it can get out of control. Also, once you have entered into that lifestyle, it is hard to return to just the two of you. All I can say is this...."The world is going to Hell in a handbasket" and unfortunately for me and a lot of others, we are going along for the ride.....
  11. Mike_Wazowski
    Thanks for the replies..keep them coming...I value everyone's opinion but maybe since I am 39 years old, I was directing this post to those in a similar age group..... One good example of how things have changed is TV.... Let it to Beaver..... My Three Sons...Father Knows Best....The Brady Bunch...etc... In these types of shows, the biggest problems facing the characters were things like Beaver Cleaver pulling a girls hair at school or accidently breaking dad's car window, or calling a kid at school a rat. Peter brady breaking moms favorite vase and gluing it back togther..hahaha.... Nowadays topics are like my daughter's pregnant, so and so getting shot at school...etc... you also see a distinct difference in the parent child relationships....Children disrespecting their parents and teachers, metal detectors in our schools....gangs....Music full of obscenities telling us to disrespect authority, hate the police etc...... These are all extreme examples but I think those in my generation can understand where I am coming from..... Someone I think it was a 16yr old girl mentioned something to the fact that living together before marriage is a good thing. Did you know that couples who live together before marriage have a higher divorce rate then those who don't....Go figure...... My initial opinion still stands...The world is going to Hell in a handbasket!
  12. Mike_Wazowski
    hey there happycat...Firstly let me say if your husband tells you that he is not romantically or sexually attracted to you at all...well, then he surely has No Respect for you and is definitely not a gentleman. And about your husband and his girlfriend being able to take a step backward and just be friends is pretty impossible in my opinion. I base this on my own experiences with this type of situation. I had an affair, we called it quits, and for about a year it worked, we just stayed friends, but one day we happened to meet up after work(We worked together) and well....she said she missed me...then the next thing I knew, we were Knocking Da Boots. Having sex forever changes two people....Impossible to return to a platonic relationship. You've lost 70 pounds! That's awesome....keep it up, keep building your self confidence then find a new man to show it off too.....And I bet you when your Husband finds out that you may or maynot have a new Flame in your life, just watch him come crawling back begging to take him back...Then....YOU will have the Power to decide your own fate..Take him back or tell him to Kiss Off! Good Luck to you!
  13. Mike_Wazowski
    Why is it that our generation cheat / divorce / complain, are more selfish, etc .... more than our parents or grandparents generation? What is it inside a lot of us that make us do this? You know my grandmother and mother were both virgins when they got married, I'm sure my grandfather and father were too, and I'm sure that a lot of others were too who got married in those times. They based their Love for each other on wanting to live and love each other for a lifetime, raise a family, not on how good they were in bed. My grandparents were married for 55 years, through the good times and the bad times. My parents also have been married for close on 45 years. Again through the good and bad times. I'm definitely sure that neither ever, ever, ever had an affair.... Well..here's my opinion on why....Basically I believe it is an issue of Values. In our time, our values are slipping big time. We are becoming more accepting of things that once were thought to be taboo. For example, a man and a woman living together before marriage, or the recently acceptance of Gay marriage, etc... etc.... Firstly, I'm not judging anyone. I'm the last person to be judging. But I can see how we as the Human race are accepting of many things that we know are wrong.... My grandmother use to have an expression that she used to her dying day....'The World is going to heck in a handbasket.' 'Heck' should be 'Hell' but good ole Gram would never utter such a word. Enjoy heaven Gram...You deserve to be there! too bad i don't!
  14. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro..This is Definitely a 'When Harry Met Sally' senario! The ultimate question in the history of the Universe: Can a man and a woman be friends without someone thinking about sex? The answer is a definite NO. One party, usually the guy is always thinking about getting some and if the chance presents itself, He'll be 'In Like Flint'. Trust me, it happened to me, and it is happening everyday, everywhere and in every country until the end of time. tell your wife to lose the 20yr old friend or start shopping for a New Husband!
  15. Mike_Wazowski
    Dude...I know your pain..trust me I do. The worst thing you can do is to bother her or smother her with attention or "What Happened to us..?" questions especially when she says she doesn't want you too. She says she still loves you but she needs a break to 'Find herself/ improve herself' Give her the space she needs. Trust me, she'll love you more if you leave her alone for a while as compared to always hounding her. You should take this time to 'find yourself' as well...Think about your future, talk out your feelings with a friend, specifically a female friend. I have found that only a female can help me forget about another female. And the point that you are getting close to another woman may leak back to your ex and.....well....jealousy can work for you in these situations... Remember though, whatever happens...Walk like a man, not like a wimpering wounded punk. Go to the gym, pump some iron, improve yourself and your self confidence...... So many people believe in the Mr. Right or Mrs. Right person. They believe that there is only one person out there for them...Dude, that line is the biggest crock of Shiit I have ever heard. There are thousands of women out there who can make you happy for a life time Bro! If the one you're with now doesn't appreciate you, then find another..... Good Luck Brother!
  16. Mike_Wazowski
    From a Guy's perspective....if I was your big brother or your father, I'd go and kick your husbands butt up and down the street. I'd beat some sense into his little selfish pea brain! That being said: For your health, and the health of your son, get the hell out of that relationship. Milk your husband for every last Dime you can get out of him and start a new life. I know it hurts ....I know that pain in your heart won't go away..... You'd rather be verbally abused and be with him then without him.....God...This guy is killing you..... As I said, take your son, and take all of your husbands money and leave. Good Luck!
  17. Mike_Wazowski
    I think one thing that you need to undertand is the difference in marriage in Japan and the States: In the States: the main bond is between the Husband and the wife. In Japan: the main bond is between the wife and the children. The husband is just the guy who pays the bills etc... That is just a very general Comparison, not true in all cases of course. Since I am white and my wife is Japanese, we as a couple had to go through A LOT of stress and arguments from her side of the family because they didn't want her to marry a foreign man. Anyways, all those problems are behind us now. The point being that for me to get a divorce would cause her to Lose face in the eyes of her parents. This is the case in many japanese marriages and many people stay married for their kids, for their chances to get job promotions(in Japan married men climb the corporate ladder much much faster the single men) and just so they don't 'Lose Face' from their friends and family. To answer some of your questions. I f I walked in on my wife and she was with another man.....That in itself would give me a Good Reason to divorce her and take my kids and move on. In that case, she has brought the 'Loss of Face' on herself. You said she is not getting what she needs from me: Check this out. In japan, japanese men are lazy slobs when it comes to household chores/ manners etc...For example..the man will say, "Get me a God damned beer and hurry up about it too".....and the woman will jump out of her chair and do it. Thats an extreme example but you get the picture. I do the dishes , vacuum on the weekends, bring her flowers once and a while, give her a massage after her shower most nights etc..... As I said, we have a great relationship....just hardly any sex....typically japanese marriage. i've got some good advice from these forums and the woman who I am having an affair with ...well...it is just a fling...Of course I have feelings for her, but I know that is a dangerous thing, so I am just playing it cool! Hope that helps you to understand me a bit.....
  18. Mike_Wazowski
    Not saying that Big breasts are not sexy..they certainly are...but just talking physical here...the woman who is physically fit, whether breasts are big or small will make me head turn evry time! WEE HAA!
  19. Mike_Wazowski
    Well..I'm a canadian guy in japan and 90% of japanese women are slender with small breasts...and they are TOTALLY SEXY! There ya go! A woman who keeps herself in good physical condition no matter what her breast size is TOTALLY HOT!
  20. Mike_Wazowski
    This one's for the Women: What would upset you more.... A) Your man has an affair just for sexual satisfaction...no emotion involved B) Your man has an affair and their is emotion involved...Both parties have strong feelings for each other...... ****************** Also.....This one's for the Men: Guys..what would upset you more: 1) Your woman has intercourse with another man(only intercourse) 2) Your woman performs oral sex(only) on another man nad he finishes in her mouth. ****************** Finally for Both Men and Women: Which do you think is the More Intimate Act: A) Oral sex B) Intercourse Thanks so much...these answers will provide me with some much needed knowledge on how we as People think!
  21. Mike_Wazowski
    Well..I live in japan and the most popular gift here is Money....You give Money at weddings, funerals, birthdays, anniversaires, retirement gifts etc etc.... Whether it is the Best gift...well thats debatable...but at least here it is the most popular one!
  22. Mike_Wazowski
    Hey Goddess....Are you really 16? being 39 I have a much different view on gift giving and giving flowers to a woman. You said you don't like that kinda stuff....I agree with you that doing it like everyday is not a good idea, but for a husband to bring home some flowers once a week, or give his wife a card once and a while telling her that he loves her is what I Think helps to keep the Love Alive in the marriage. Being a Nice and sweet person, is also good as you said but as the old cliche goes "Actions speak louder than Words". Also I totally agree with you about smothering a person is definitely not a good idea. But I'll tell you this, after you have been married for ten years you will be quite happy to get those flowers, or a card, or a little note telling you that your husband still cares and loves you! My post is kinda off topic from this Thread but I just wanted to let people know my thoughts on gift giving....Peace!
  23. Mike_Wazowski
    All I can say is this....If a partner wants something, going down, more intimacy, or whatever it is, and their Now partner will NOT give it....then that leads to Dis-satisfaction, and dis-satisfaction leads to unfulfillment and cheating.....simple as that..... Do you think you can live the rest of your life with this guy knowing that he will never go down on you? To me at least.....I think oral sex is a much more intimate act than intercourse... My friend once asked me the question: What would bother you more....Your wife screwing(Just screwing) another guy, or your wife going down on that guy until he orgasm in her mouth? The going down part would give me more pain easily.....
  24. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro....I know that feeling...My advice to you would be to just CHILL! I have the same problem with this woman I am seeing...I show too much attention, too much emotion. It seems that she doesn't really care too much about me....It hurts. I found myself hurting more than being happy.....So I have decided just to Calm down and let what happens happen. We work together everyday and sometimes if she talks to other guys at work, i used to get so damn jealous....but now, really, who gives a crap. I have taken some good advice from this forum and put it to good use. I still talk to the girl but I am not totally obsessed with her. I don't try to talk her into doing things with me anymore or try to convince her to like me or to be romantic...... My thinking now is this: if she wants me, she knows where to find me...if not, then she can just Kiss off! I advise you to follow that advice Brother! Also...I hit the gym like about 4 times a week. Everyday i go to the gym, i am making myself better, stronger...gives me a lot of Self Confidence...At work I walk like a MAN, not like some wimpering punk azz who has been wounded. Good Luck Dude!
  25. Mike_Wazowski
    Didn't someone somewhere write a song called 'Truth Hurts"??? If I had No Intentions to ever cheat again, and if I made a promise to myself to love my spouse with all my heart forever.....then why tell him/her and take the chance of hurting him/her beyond repair??? If I were a religious man, I would fall on my hands and knees and beg God for forgiveness and promise to love and respect my spouse for eternity.....I think that is sufficient. For those of you who tell your spouse that you cheated..What good is there in that? It will just breed distrust. Anyone ever read the book "The Firm"? Not the movie..the book. In it the main charecter screws another woman but decides in the end not to tell his wife....good move on his part. I think in the movie Tom Cruise tells his wife and she totally Flips.......
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