garyl
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ex came by, and i started thinking
garyl replied to drydupfob's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I agree with you hoss. Man just enjoy life. You will find many partner during your search. Have fun! -
Well I did a strong thing yesterday. I told her that it is over and explained to my childern that mom and dad are just friends. When I did this she cried and started to tell me she felt that even if she stayed with me she could not promise that this would not happen again. Well now I need to pull my self togther and be strong. Boy does this really hurt and cause you to rethink your decisions.
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Thnx for the advice, damn I hate when you love someone so much and they cant or wont return the love. Let me add she told me this weekend that I love her more then she loves me. I believe she was telling me that I was putting too much pressure on her when it came to the relationship! One more thing! about six weeks ago my wife had a sexual experinece with a female friend of her's. I found out about this and she said she was sorry and did not know why she did this. Just to make this clean the other women gave oral to my wife and then my wife told me she used a dildo on her. I know everyone will probably think that I am crazy but I foregave her and tried to move on! what would you do leave and try to find happiness or stay and waite for her?
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Hi Im_ok Well Im 30 years old and have had many relationship. I feel that if you have this much of a issue at this early stage of a relationship you will find that 9 times out of 10 things will not change. Ask yourself this questions, what makes me happy, why do I need this person to complete my happiness and does this relationship fit in my life with the need I have and want. I hope you find something that will give you a insight to your need. Being you is not wrong and you cannot change over night. Only time will provide you the life experiences that will mold you. if he does not like what you are now how do you know if he will like what you will become? good luck!
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Helpfully someone can give me some insight on this. About a month ago me and my wife had a blowout about stress and life issues with work, children and each other. Well doing the conversation my wife explained to me that she was nolonger inlove with me but she did love me. Now fast forward a few weeks and my wife called me at work and asked me to moveout of our home so she could findout what she wanted. We I asked here way she said it was not me but other stuff. I asked her if she still felt the same about me and she explained to me that she was on a sesaw where she wanted to stay with me but then she did not want to stay with me. Ok fast forward a week later I have me out over the weekend and staying at a friends home. I my wife last night to talk to me daugthers and foudn my wife to be very "Disconnected" from me. I asked her if she had put some energy into what was going on with us and she stated she did not have time for thinking about us right now. I starting to feel like she is to busy with her life then workout our relationship issues. One addtional thing, for the last weeks she has been going out to have drinks with her peers after work and on the weekends stayout until 1:00am to 2:00 with a friend. What do this all mean and I am starting to want to just say the hell with this. please provide ANY insight to help! I really feel alone right now and not sure if I should talk to my wife or just get a divorce! thank you for the help!
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Men - do you think about your Ex alot when with a new girl?
garyl replied to kutekat100's topic in Jealousy
Well from my point of view, guys do spend something thinking about thier ex-girl friends, wives ect. ?Give him a chance. When you are in a relationship it could take sometime for a person to let go or stop comparing to past love interest. -
Thanx for the advice but now she tells me she wants to separate for awhile to find her self! and she told me that she loves me but has fallin out of love with me. What does this mean? I talked to her for about 4 hours last night and she also explained that she was curious about sleeping with another women after we both watched a porno which had girl on girl action. I feel like she is telling me to waite for her but she could not tell me what I mean to her any longer!
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Thnx guyz. Damn this sucks not sure what to do now!
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menuca, Thank you for the advice. I have be with her for 9 years and would like to rekindle the flame if possible.
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OceanEye! They both just started comparing their bodies and next thing I know my wifes friend started kissing her. I was not sure what to say. Next my wife grabs her and place her friends hand down panties. I know I should have said something but All I could think about was my wife and my wife friends boyfriend. He and I are friends also. By the time I did say something my wife was going full on her friend. At about that time she asked me to get her dildo! Then I will really shocked. No I can tell you this turned me on but my brain was saying not like this! I know this sounds crazy! But hell I never experienced this before and thought that maybe this is what she needed or wanted. Only after did if feel differnet. Let me know if this make any sense.
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I work for a Police Department. She works for a college. I help out as much as she will let me. When I ask to help with something she will tell me to leave it alone. I have tried to do thing that would excite her. I feel as if I given the relationship all that I have. I am very active and stay in shape thru weight training and also I am a long distance runner. I am not sure how I am doing. I was hoping to get some kind of guidence. I have never used a service like this before. But yes I have rub her feet, ran a warm bath, taken the kids for a weekend so she can have time alone. Taken her on vacations. I feel like I have done the book of love to her. Not sure what to say?
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What about the not inlove part?
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Ok now the second part my wife told me over the weekend that she nolonger was inlove with me. But she added that she loved me. My sex life with her was may once a week. I would ask and she would say just wake me up later tonight adn just do me. Well I talked EXTENSIVILY to her abvout this and she explained to me that she just did not like sex as much as in the past. Ok i am 30 years old and she is 29 years old. We have to children 2 and 5 yearold girls. She told me that she just did not know what was wrong and she wanted to see some one about the problem. I supported her on this but she never followed thru. I am totaly confused and not sure what to do! thanx everyone for your inputs
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I need some advice really bad My wife had sex with her friend in front of me . After about a half hour in to the sex my wifes friend asked if she wanted to share me? My wife responed yes that I could have sex with both of them! Ok I know must men dream about this stuff but I was kinda shocked and stuned. I did not slept with either of them and after the event, I asked my wife why she did it. My wife explained that she slept with her friend because I told her in the past I had a fantacy about having two girls at the same time. What do this mean and is this consider cheating or what. Thank you for the replys