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  1. Mike_Wazowski
    From a man's point of view .... .... I think you are being utterly selfish. Your husband seems like an upstanding decent man, loves you, loves your daughter, faithful....what else can you ask for?? That kind of man is a dying breed....You should pray everyday that you found such a decent guy! Other women would die for what you have, and you are ready to throw it away in your search for Mr. Right. Mr Right by the way is just a myth .... That's why divorce is at an all time high cause we are living in the ME, ME, ME Generation where people only look out for Number One! You daughter will pay the price for your happiness.....Good Luck!
  2. Mike_Wazowski
    A kiss on the cheek as the french and some other cultures do as a greeting and farewell, no problem.... But it is not Our culture (us meaning, American or Canadian) to go around kissing friends for any reason I can see. A handshake is fine....
  3. Mike_Wazowski
    Rabican said: In hindsight I should have just taken a break until I cooled off. **** Well, and then what, go back to her......???? I really think some mistakes you can forgive, others you can't. So..every time a relationship is having troubles, it's ok to go out and flirt with others, then confess to your partner, forgive and forget??? No one should be a doormat for another....I would advice anyone to Cut the Cheating partner lose.... As another poster said, some people have "Intergrity" meaning they would never cheat no matter what the circumstances, and others have "No intergrity" meaning they would cheat. Why waste your time on someone who cheats or "Kinda cheats".......
  4. Mike_Wazowski
    Hey Strength.....My wife never knew I had an affair......so us working at the same company was never an issue. But i'm sure that if my wife knew about it, she would demand that i quit the company...and rightly so. That would be an act of trust on my part showing her that I can leave that woman behind. Luckily for me, the other women is quitting the company at the end of next month.....I'm very glad for that basically because, men, in general I think can easily fall back into an affair with the same woman if they see them day in and day out. I'm sure I could easily start it up again with this woman because it is convenient to meet, have lunch, meet after work cause we are both at the same company etc.... I think it is dangerous for your husband to work side by side with this woman and I'm sure everyday must be like Hell for you knowing they are working side by side...... With regards to your point of people whether have 'Integrity' or 'No Integrity', I must agree with you. And I believe I fall into the the Latter of the two. I cheated on my wife for one reason only, she wasn't giving me sex and I wanted sex so I went out and looked for it..unfortunately, as time went on it became more than just sex.... But now it is over and I try to not think of other women besides my wife.... Good Luck!
  5. Mike_Wazowski
    Wow..Hope..you sound like I used to about 6 months back. I would make an issue of every litte thing my wife did....And I learned that focusing on crap like that and worrying about stuff like that will drive you utterlying Crazy, forget about it....... And what fixed me up: These words from Yoda: " Attachment leads to Jealousy. Train Yourself to let go of Everything you fear to lose." Couldn't have said it better myself.....
  6. Mike_Wazowski
    I think just putting yourself in a situation where you were flirting with another guy and almost cheated on your BF should be justification enough for him to Cut You Lose......Even though you told him afterwards, he will always be wondering, "Where is she, and what is she doing when she isn't with me?" No one needs that kinda crap in their lives. Making a relationship work these days is hard enough....Hate to be cruel but you'd be out the door if you were my GF....... One last thought....will you run to this older guy or some other guy if your BF begins to act distant again??? I bet you will! Good Luck!
  7. Mike_Wazowski
    Predforte! You DA MAN!
  8. Mike_Wazowski
    Well.....cheating with a married woman can lead to a baseball bat upside your head from her Husband! Even though he may be cheating also, I'm sure he would go ballistic if he found out some other guy was parking his car in his wife's garage....Be careful my brother!
  9. Mike_Wazowski
    It's hilarious how people blame everything but themselves for their bad behaviour..Oh..I had too much to drink. bla bla bla........ I love the quote from Indiana Jones and the last Crusade when he was about to embark on the search for his father. 'Trust no one Dr. Jones.' Life is so much simplier when you accept the fact the people are basically evil........
  10. Mike_Wazowski
    Snuggling and kissing?? Excuse my French but aren't you doing the Wildthing on a regular basis with her??? Nothing gives me more satisfaction then knowing that some Hot Chick wants me, but I reject her! Listen bro...Men are always tempted by the fruit of another...that's why you have your gf to keep you satisfied, and when she isn't around, your right hand! Or left hand if you're a switch hitter! Good Luck!
  11. Mike_Wazowski
    I know what you're feeling...it's exciting right? To know that another man wants you! You both know it's wrong but you still do it right! Why? Only one reason...Plain old Selfishness.... You want pleasure and you don't care who gets hurt......And please don't say, I've tried not to see this other guy....pure Hogwash....I've been where you have been and I ended it.... Do you think this guy has an ounce of respect for you??? Hardly...Oh, he may say, i love you, i love you, but that is just to keep you happy so that you will give him what he wants..... I'm sure deep down inside, he has no respect for you. Really now.....who wants to be committed longterm to some woman, or man for that matter who cheats on his spouse??? Answer: NOBODY! Are you going to divorce your husband and throw away your kids to be with this guy??? Is he going to dump his wife?? Are you going to run away together and live Happily ever after???? Wake up!! You need to end it, before your husband finds out and he ends it by kicking you out of the house and getting custody of your kids. End it before you lose everything you say you supposedly care about. Good Luck!
  12. Mike_Wazowski
    Don't you have call screening at your office? No contact is a piece of cake! I work with the woman who I carried on an affair with for 3 years. I'm at work now and her desk is not more than 2 meters from my own. Infact, I can see through the corner of my eyes that she is looking at me.......That is Pressure! One thing though, and I hope you feel it too is POWER! You have proven to yourself that you don't need this guy, that you can easily never talk to him again! Congratulations!
  13. Mike_Wazowski
    People hate to be ignored.....But you are starting to sound like you're obsessed with this guy....There are Millions of Singles guys out there...I suggest you turn your efforts to one of them. I suggest you quit your job and never contact the Brother again. Many people believe, "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" But I personally like the one that says, 'Out of sight, out of mind' Good Luck
  14. Mike_Wazowski
    Let me just say that the Internet is possibly the Worst and Evilest invention in the history of mankind.....MySpace, MSN dating, Chat, Personal Websites, Blogs, etc etc etc......... It makes it all that much easier for people to Cheat, deceive, screw around, etc etc etc...... How many of us have more than three email addresses?? How many of those do our spouses know Nothing about.......How many of us have flirted online with complete strangers???? And we say..oh, it's not real..it's only Cyber Space!! Hogwash I say! Hogwash! As my Gram used to say..'The worlds going to Hell in a Handbasket! There's a good quote from the movie Runaway train. Person A: You're an ANIMAL!! Person B: NO, WORSE, HUMAN!!
  15. Mike_Wazowski
    Since I cheated on my wife(long story, but I broke it off) I sometimes think she may be cheating on me......if I were to find out that she was, well..I'd be dissappointed. The marriage would also be over I guess....But really, who really knows what they would do until they are confronted with it......
  16. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro....You're 28yrs old.....still young..still plenty of time to find a caring woman......if you love her, it is going to be quite painful to let her go, but I would advice dumping her, maybe re locate to a place far from her, and begin to live the rest of your life! Good Luck!
  17. Mike_Wazowski
    Finally a post that I definitely know something about...I had an affair for almost 3 yrs with a woman from work.....I ended it...and I do still have feelings for her but I bury them. I don't talk to her (even though we work at the same company). I don't return her mail.....nothing....Part of me wants to meet her, talk to her..etc etc...but I'm married..and I finally got things going good again with my wife........I have some good memories of us being together but for me, my life is going in a different direction.....towards my wife and kids......No more Extracurricular activites for me anymore.... I don't think I am emotionally stronger than her...I just think I (maybe men in general) just know how to 'Suck up the pain' better.....When the affair first started..for me it was just sex...but she is married too so for her it was emotional......Once you make it a matter of the heart...it becomes much much harder to let go......Even the day we broke up..I said to her that in several weeks or a month, you won't even think about me anymore..you have your husband....her reply was basically that it is not that easy for a woman to 'Forget'. What I have found is that as more and more time goes by, I wonder how we ever had an affair in the first place...I mean there were times when we were meeting every evening for example...I wonder how I pulled that off????? Anyways..it's over...We're not lovers, we're not friends, nothing...never meet, never talk....ever! Had to Let her go! One more thing I realized...Purpose...what was the purpose of us being together?? I asked her one day....what is our future??? are you willing to divorce your husband, break his heart?? Am I willing to divorce my wife, throw away my kids for you??? We both answered, NO. So really....why continue with something like that..a relationship without a purpose....
  18. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro...'You said leaving the marriage is not an option for you' You wanna go down on your woman where three other guys have been???? You're lost!
  19. Mike_Wazowski
    Mind your business bro....
  20. Mike_Wazowski
    I'm wondering why you married him in the first place if he wasn't all that you wanted him to be????? I'm wondering why you would go on a vacation without him, especially if other single guys were going with? I'm wondering why he allowed you to go under those circumstances......? Either way....once he finds out, the marriage is over....even if you don't divorce, it's over, emotionally, etc.... He'll never trust you again and you'll always be wondering if he is now out looking for some 'Action' to get back at you....... Yeah..sex with a young guy maybe be exciting the first few dozen times or so..haha....but 'there' is the same as 'here' once the thrill wears off....... Good luck...
  21. Mike_Wazowski
    It would be a living Hell........seeing the people you love all die off..your children grow old and die........everybody you would ever love or will love gone....Hell on earth..... Winnie the Pooh said it best when he said that if Christopher Robin were to live to be 100, that Pooh would wish to live to 100 minus a day so that they would not be separated in life or death for not even one day.....
  22. Mike_Wazowski
    Everybody needs stability in their lives.....something or someone that they can fall back on.....Someone they know that will always be there for them when the Chips are down.... I'm sure in her case it is you.....She knows you will always be there for her to cheer her up or give her support whenever she needs it...... She didn't contact you for 2 weeks...i'm sure during most of that time, she didn't 'Need' anything from you...by Need, I mean support or just someone to talk to. Maybe she misses you or maybe as you said she is having problems with the longterm thing and needs a good opinion as what to do...so she called you..... If this situation where she may go weeks with contacting you doesn't bother you..then I wouldn't worry about it...But if it does....talk to her about it...... You yourself said that you aren't interested in having a relationship with her and you yourself have a girlfriend.......In that case, i'd just Chill and accept her as a friend who isn't to good at keeping in touch, but a friend none the less....Good Luck Brother!
  23. Mike_Wazowski
    CowgirlFromHell said " it's really unreasonable to believe that our needs as human beings can be met solely by one person. " AWESOME!! I've always believed that we should never allow one single person to have so much control over our Happiness....... Good on ya CowgirlFromHell!
  24. Mike_Wazowski
    We all know the saying "What goes around comes around." People will always get what's coming to them...it may take time but it happens......Laws of Physics "Every action has an equal and opposite reaction" Sir Issac Newton!
  25. Mike_Wazowski
    Yo Brother..You seem the kind of guy who can get hurt very easily..emotionally hurt I mean.... I was in an affair with another woman who I thought loved me. She was distant from her husband and I was distant from my wife. Of course it all started off as friends and suddenly become physical....Anyways, one day she just decided that she wanted to try to get back with her husband...And she dumped me bigtime...I mean bigtime too. On Tuesday she had told me how much she loved me and needed me in her life, and the very next day, she just came out and said "I can never meet you again". I hurt Bigtime and still am even though this was a while ago....I have to see her in the office everyday too. Anyways..if your wife is really so insensitive then you should talk to her about it....If she still can't give you what you want, then Leave her and find someone who will.....About the other woman....Why don't you talk to her? You don't know anything about her, if she's married, divorced or whatever. Maybe she's got a lot of emotional baggage??? Or maybe she has been waiting all her life to meet you?? You'll never know until you talk to her...But first I would try to save your own marriage before you go looking for happiness elsewhere.....Peace!
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