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  1. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro..who made you her Knight in Shining Armour?? Trust me when I say this...I've been there, done that, and all I got out of it was T-R-O-U-B-L-E! As some have said, you have only heard one side of the story....I'm sure she's not Blameless in the situation, but she makes it sound like her Man is 100% at fault. One Poster told me once that 'The relationship you are seeking is Not real'. Trust me on this one....even if you end up with her or not..You are the one who will end up getting Burned....... Good Luck Brother!
  2. Mike_Wazowski
    Muncea...I get no 'Kick' out of this.....The honest truth is that I love this other woman.....not just for the sex thing but I really love her....I am happy that The rape thing appears to be turning out ok...but won't know 100% until a month or so to see if she needs to get an abortion or not.... I've decided that I love my wife and I will only be with her from now on..My wife that is.........I am a bad man who will try one last time to redeem myself.........
  3. Mike_Wazowski
    Well...it is Monday now..I am at work...I just finished talking to the other woman....And yes Miracle...She was raped!!!! That man came to her house on Sunday and that man and her husband had a long calm talk (That is the Japanese way). He admitted raping her, apologized very much for it, and he will pay her compensation money and he will quietly leave the company........... I will meet her after work tonight and at that time I will tell her to Love her husband with all her heart, FORGET about me, NEVER meet me again and change her life for the better! I hope she will learn from this Horrible experience...... to be continued......
  4. Mike_Wazowski
    Yo brother...from someone who was and maybe still is in love with another woman(not my wife), I can understand how you feel.....You consciously know what you are doing is wrong and yet you are still driven to this other woman like some unseen force is pulling you to her and there is nothing you can do to stop it. You try to stop it, try not see her and you feel sick inside...You can't live without her......I wish other people on this site could understand how some woman have a Power over some men that, no matter what we do, we can't resist it.......It's like the 'Sirens' in the Epic ''Odysseus''. When men hear them, they are absolutely powerless to resist. To me this is no joke....Some woman have this power. I first came to this site to get advice/ support/ sympathy.....and this is a great site but after reading many posts like yours and mine and others, I have come to the inevitable conclusion that as a species....We are doomed............ Good Luck Bro!
  5. Mike_Wazowski
    Muneca.....Well...It was a Company Party....No Spouses just employees...Please remember that this is in Japan and not in America...Over here the culture is entirely different. These sort of things..going to a party with Work Colleagues and excessive drinking is the Norm. My point is that it is a Man's duty to look out after a woman who is helpless or in this case Drunk...But this other guy Raped her...and for that he should be Beaten senseless......jailed..etc....But unfortunately in Japanese society, not much will happen to him...as I said in my other post He will only have to apologize and pay some sort of Compensation and maybe quietly resign from the company after a few months have pasted. In fact, the other woman doesn't want me to get involved. Infact she pleaded with me not to do anything. She wants to keep the problem only between her husband herself and the other man...The reason that she told me was out of the fact that she still Loves me and I love her, but thats the end of our relationship. In Japan...even though she was raped...the blame will be put on her for drinking so much.........Because of this, she doesn't want to let the other workers or even her own family know about it....thats why she begged me not to say or do anything on Monday(December 20th). I am a big guy...6'1" 185lbs..very athletic....Boxer.....I could snap this guys neck like a chicken in seconds.....But I will use all my willpower on Monday to fight this temptation........Although, I told her that at work if this guys yells at her or does anything to scare her that I will Put him down like a Rabid Dog. On Monday..her Husband will call this guy at work and tell him to meet so they can work out the situation....I don't trust this other guy.....So I am thinking to say to this guy in PRIVATE(Only him and I) that I know what he did and that he'd better say 'I'm sorry' and pay Compensation Money or I will call the Police or his family.......I just want him to know that I KNOW so that he won't try anything stupid when the three of them are talking. How can I say this so it doesn't sound bad.......I think some people need an earth shattering event in their lives, to make them see that the way they are living their lives is not good....It is a catalyst for them to change their life for the better...And I believe this woman will do this and Love her Husband and make him happy the best she can and forget about me and live happily forever with him.....That is my Hope. This was a catalyst for me also to look at my own wife and see that she is an Awesome woman and I am so lucky to have her...... And to Amanda...Your question as to who would I save if I could only save either my wife or my exmistress.....The answer is Neither.....I would get a gun and blow my brains out. I'll tell you guys what happened on Monday! Thank you all!
  6. Mike_Wazowski
    Why do men cheat???? Why do people kill each other??? Why do parents beat their children??? Why do men rape women......etc etc...... The answer: Humans are evil.....and I got first hand experience of that!
  7. Mike_Wazowski
    Asmodai........Oh..it was definitely this guy.....At work the next day he first says that they took a taxi together then the next day he changes his BS story and says 'Oh Oh...we took separate taxis.' The guys busted..he did it.....And I know this woman...even though I cheated with her, I love her and I know her..she isn't BSing me. This guy is a little strange, kind of a stalker type...he did it for sure...And he deserves to be beaten.....badly beaten... And to Avman......You know my story well I think..You have given me great advice over the past 6 months or so....I must say that I love this woman..a lot...and even though we are no longer 'Involved'...I still love her and she is my friend and Colleague. Ofcourse it is up to her husband to seek justice and for her 'To change her life'. By that I mean that when she gets drunk...it is always really really drunk..out of control drunk. Not that she is like that always...but sometimes she drinks too much and I have told her that....I I again told her on Saturday that I love her and I will always support her but she needs to Change her life and stop that kind of behaviour. I just hope she will be ok and that the 'Guy' gets whats coming to him! I am thinking about pressuring this guy to quit the compny quietly after several months....just quit and never come back......
  8. Mike_Wazowski
    Those of you have have responded to my posts previously I thank you all...No doubt about it, I am wrong wrong wrong......But please read on..... The other woman that I was seeing got RAPED last week.....Here is the story...And this is not a joke...Even though its wrong that I cheated with this woman, I love her and I want to help her...... I live in Japan(Canadian guy).... At the end of the year, most Japanese Companies have End of Year Parties..We had ours last week...needless to say, many people got very very drunk....I left early (about) 9:00pm cause being the only foreigner, I feel out of place. Anyways, the party ended around Midnight..From what I heard the next day, the other woman got very very drunk, to the point of passing out. Another colleague from work (some Japanese piece of crap guy)took responsiblity for her and took her home....(Supposedly he was drunk too) but before he took her home, he forced her into a hotel and had sex with her. She was mostly passed out at the time but woke up and quickly escaped from the hotel and went home. She was totally drunk so the next day she didn't remember what happened but in the morning she told me that her Vagina was very painful. Correct me if I am wrong, but that pain mostly comes from a girl who is dry down there, meaning that she wasn't an active participant in this event. A few days later she gradually started remembering bits and pieces.....She told her Husband about what happened. On that night, her husband was out searching for her in a panic cause it was 2am and she hadn't come home yet......... She just told me this story today(Saturday). I really want to kill this guy...really i do......In Japan, this sort of 'Thing' happens a lot and the cops really can't/ don't do anything about it really.......The guy....who is such a nerdy goofy guy says 'Oh, I don't remember, I don'T remember.' and yet he tells everyone at work that he Vomited just before he entered his house.....Now how come he remembers that and not the Rape????? In Japan...with this kind of situation, what normally happens is that the Guy deeply apologizes to the woman and pays her 'Compensation Money' to take care of any expenses such as an abortion or counseling etc...... But frankly.....I wanna smash this guys head on the pavement 50 times......Any good advice out there????
  9. Mike_Wazowski
    Well......I must say that I have been selfish...and to answer someone's question, If I wasn't dumped I would probably have continued in the relationship......I hate to say it but I am so drawn to this other woman like a bee to honey...Even though I know what I was doing was and is very very wrong, I just couldn't stop going to her and being with her. Well..the problem solved itself cause she broke it off....Not because she doesn't want me as one poster commented, just because she wants to get things right with her husband....either way I think that this time(There have been other times when we broke up and got back together) it is over.....One person suggested I quit my job to get away from her....It's somehting I thought about and will seriously consider doing if I can find something better in the next few months....anyways...thanks
  10. Mike_Wazowski
    Thanks for your sympathy!....I know i made a huge mistake, but I just got caught up in the situation.....man when I was 17 I thought like you did...I punched my dad in the face for looking at another woman(just looking, and thinking). Who would have thought I would be doing what he only thought about..........
  11. Mike_Wazowski
    Mike Wazowski here........Well..it's been a longtime since I was here last...My affair with the married woman has continued to this day..but as many of you gave me good advice, I failed to take and now I am going through HELL!....Needless to say th relationship is over and I ofcourse am hurting like I havev never hurt before........I'm married too and so is the other girl...we met at work...we still work together and every day seeing her is killing me..it really is....I was wrong to start the relationship but I am hurting so so so much that we are finished.......she broke it off with me.....I love my wife and kids but I now have a huge hole in my hurt that I don't think will ever heal.......Please don't rip on me for cheating, I need support to get through this bad experience in my life...Help me!
  12. Mike_Wazowski
    well..if no one else will say it..then I will...'Man, you are evil!' And one day you will get what's coming to you! Remember 'Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned' His wife will come after you! And whatever comes of it, the fault is 100% yours.......I hope you take Karate Lessons!
  13. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro...After reading your post and after going through what I have gone through, I have come to the conclusion that as a species....'Mankind is doomed' Good luck! a quote from one of my favorite bands from my youth 'Prepare yourself for the fall, cause you're going to fall...it's almost predictable!'
  14. Mike_Wazowski
    One time a few years back i was sitting in a bar in Japan. My good friend worked there but he hated working till 5am so on Fridays I'd just chill at the bar with him until dawn....anyways, around 2:30 am, this hot looking woman walks into the bar...sits down close to me. So we start to talk and I ask her 'How come she's at a bar alone at 2:30am alone?' She responds 'I'm meeting my boyfriend.' So I say 'At 2:30am????' and she replies 'He has to wait for his wife to fall asleep so he can sneak out of the house!' So i ask her, 'Don't you have any guilt about seeing a married man?' And her reply was this.....'In Japan at night, everybody is single!' Go figure...................
  15. Mike_Wazowski
    You reap what you sow......God do I know that now!
  16. Mike_Wazowski
    From Someone who has cheated on his wife, it's not as exciting as you think it is..trust me, if you do it, all the while you are Knocking Da Boots.....Only ONE thing will be going through your mind...Not How good it feels, but Your family! Your Husband! Your kids! Run Woman, Run I say!!!! Run like da Wind as far away as you can from this other guy! He doesn't care if he ruins your family, all he wants is a piece of some forbidden fruit!
  17. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro..if he's your best friend, he shouldn't even go near her. Talk to your best friend and tell him that it is hurting you seeing him together with your EX......If he doesn't back off then it's time to find yourself a new best friend. Good Luck!
  18. Mike_Wazowski
    Your space has been invaded bro.....not once but 2 times......Well....hold on for a second....I'm trying to count the number of guys some of my ex girlfriends had been with before they hooked up with me...definitely more than 2. Listen, your girl got herself involved with the wrong girl, but she realized that the kind of fun her friend likes is not for her. She's totally sorry and she's come back to you. She sounds like she wants to be with YOU. Now....can you accept the fact that she has had sex with other guys or is it going to haunt you for the rest of your relationship with her? If you can't deal with it then I would let her down gently and move on. My opinion is she wanted a taste of the wild side...She took a taste and discovered that its not as sweet as she thought and in fact it left a bad taste in her mouth (No Pun intended...haha) About the SEX thing.....You're obsessing on whether you can pleasure her more than those other two dudes..Let me tell ya this....ANY guy can be a Sexual Dynamo...all it takes is practice and to put Her pleasure above your own and to realize that there is MORE to a womans pleasure than two breasts and well..you know the other place..... Seriously though, at the end of the day, it is the man that makes her feel safe and happy that she will run to every time! Good Luck!
  19. Mike_Wazowski
    Wow....Port-a-John......What a romantic Guy! I betcha the next time he cheats he'll take her to where????...The Garbage Dump? Your man sounds like a BIG L--O--S--E--R! I am wondering if he is sorry for his actions because he realizes he made a mistake or because he got caught????? I am just concerned what would have happened if you didn't see him? I wonder how far they would have gone, maybe not that night, but other nights....You just don't Kiss a girl and thats the end of it.....It Always Escalates! keep us informed....
  20. Mike_Wazowski
    Brother, brother, brother.......I feel for ya bro! Whether they are just friends or not, it's not right for her to be spending so much time talking to good ole 'Joe'. Like many guys, if good ole 'Joe' sees any sort of opening or situation he can take advantage of, I betcha he'll be all over your woman like white on rice. Good ole Joe needs to find his Own Woman and YOU my friend need to show your woman who Wears the Pants in the family......Lay down the groud rules: No Male Friends. If she can't accept that, then tell her not to hit her head as you're kicking her out Da Door.
  21. Mike_Wazowski
    Now that's exactly why I don't have any friends who are girls. I mean at work I have some female friends, but Nobody that I would ever meet up with after work just the 'Two of Us'. It's the ole When Harry Met Sally dilemma....Can I guy and girl just be friends without one of them wanting S--E--X? In most cases it's the guy who wants to Get Some as in your situation..... Make the whole situation go away by: 1) Apologizing to him for being a little rough (stroke his ego) 2) Introduce him to a nice girl! Good luck!
  22. Mike_Wazowski
    What can you do to get over it? You can do one of two things. 1) Beat the Sh*t out of the guy....he knew she had a boyfriend but went for her anyways...... or 2) Find a new girl who is way better looking than your Ex girl and flaunt her infront of your EX's face every chance you can get..That willl drive her crazy to see you with a much more beautiful woman than she is! I'd advise Number 2! Good Luck!
  23. Mike_Wazowski
    Oh...And my advice to you is either get him close to you or break up. Good luck!
  24. Mike_Wazowski
    I am of the opinion that Long Distance relationships are DOOMED from the start. They rarely have a happy Ending. Lets face the truth here. A large part of any relationship is based on Physical closeness....Hugging, touching, holding hands, kissing, etc etc.... Deprieving either party of that is just setting yourself up for cheating. Your boyfriend just proved the fact that he needs Physical closeness.....He may regret it now, but it will surely happen again, and again, and again and he will feel less and less guilty each time. And you know what? It's NOT his FAULT. I'm wondering who's idea it was to make this an LDR???? I'm not a Religious man, but I know the Bible and Paul the Apostle even states to 'NOT be separated from your mate for extended periods of time and not to Deprieve them of physical closeness because it will just lead to Trouble.' There ya have it!
  25. Mike_Wazowski
    Before everyone classifies us cheaters as the Scum of the earth, I think it's important to realize how the world works and how not everything is black and white. When I was 15 years old, I thought I would get married, have kids and live happily ever after.....Unfortunately I found out life is not like that! Now I know that i'm going to get some flack from this post, but EVERYONE has it in them to be a cheater. Put that person in the right circumstances with the right person and it CAN Happen! Never say Never!
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