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  1. Mike_Wazowski
    Well....this may just be my worst hour..Update Update! For anyone interested, my problem seemed to have solved itself......In a nutshell....The other woman has told me quite frankly that what we 'had' is O-V-E-R......OVER! I say my worst hour not because I wanted to continue in the relationship, but because I was developing feelings for her....maybe not Love.....but getting close to that...Either way....I'm Hurting, but glad that she did what i didn't have the Balls to do! And I'm glad its over now and not a year from now.....now that would have been True Pain! Now for any of those out there contemplating an Affair...trust me when i say two things: ONE: It's not going to last. and TWO: You will be in for some SERIOUS PAIN during and at the end of the relationship! For anyone who has read this thread and maybe not posted a response, and to those people, even American Dream(Love ya buddy) who have posted........... I take full responsiblity for this affair....It didn't happen by 'Chance' or some other BS reason that many guys use. It happened cause I liked her from the moment I saw her, and at that time I knew what was at Stake (Mine and her family) but I said 'Who cares' and I went after her, plain and simple as that. And I am an azzhole for that. The only good that came out of this is that I learned a valuable lesson....That is You most definitely 'Reap what you sow' Peace! The Conclusion: Was it worth it?..............Can't answer that right now...too many emotions are clogging my mind.....All I can say is that I wish I can get it right with my wife........That's my next challenge!
  2. Mike_Wazowski
    Call me crazy but some guys get off on being abused and walked all over.....or maybe he is just crazy in Love.........Either way, a very unhealthy relationship..... And that coming from the Master of unhealthy relationships......
  3. Mike_Wazowski
    Mona: Jealousy is probably the Most Evilest of Emotions. That being said, you can't let it fester (grow) inside you. I had a friend when I was younger. The guy was always jealous of his girlfriend to the point where he used to secretly follow her, go through her purse when she wasn't around, etc etc...... From my experience (trust me I know), Your husband is entering some pretty dangerous waters. He is befriending a woman who is scared and lonely and who herself would love to have a man, maybe even your man. Although your husband says that the relationship is just friendship, it is at the point where it can become much much more than that. I'd tell him to Cool it! If he says NO, then I think you need to re evaluate your relationship with him! You are his wife, You should come First, Last, and Everywhere in between! Good Luck!
  4. Mike_Wazowski
    As ole Gramma always used to say 'The world is going to hell in a handbasket' Many people have fantasies.....whatever they are, but most people..I would hazard a guess to say over 98% of us NEVER live those fantasies out. Now I'm talking the deep dark fantasies here........ Now your girlfriend lived hers out....I'm sure her and that girl did everything together but wash the kitchen sink even though she said not much actually happened. Now it comes down to this....Can you live with her knowing that she is one of the 2% of those who have and WILL make their fantasies come true???? One more thing, once you crossed the line into that lifestyle....Bi, 3P, swinging etc....it is very hard to cross back over....... On a different note: Is it just me, or is the site of two chicks getting nasty quite...well....invigorating??? ....two guys however.......VOMIT!!!!!
  5. Mike_Wazowski
    I'm a married guy cheating on my wife.....well...I'm trying to break it off with the other woman but it's easier said then done...... I'm basically cheating for 2 reasons: Reason 1: My wife and I hardly ever have sex. I recently asked her why not, and she basically said she has no interest in sex (Typical Japanese housewife, before marriage they are sexual dynamos! After marriage and kids, they totally lose interest). Her advice to me was to 'Deal with it'.....thank you very much Reason 2: It feels good to be wanted by another especially when your wife has no interest in you..... there ya go!
  6. Mike_Wazowski
    The Good Ole "I love you as a friend" line or "Let's just be friends" line......Damn..women have be using those since the beginning of time.. Your hurting bro.....You just got a stake drove through your heart..right? My advice to you is this....She just wants to be friends...Ok..agree to that and then totally IGNORE her! I mean TOTALLY....don't talk to her, don't email her, don't look at her.....nothing! Trust me.....if you do that for a few weeks...two thing will happen. 1) She will come crawling back to you (Then you have the Power to set the ground rules for the relationship) * Now..if you use the Ignore route...don't be sulking and whining...you gotta show that you could really careless if you see her or talk to her or not. SHOW her that you can have FUN without her.....! 2) She won't come back. If this one happens, then you know she REALLY just wants to be friends..in that case, MOVE ON!! You're only 19, you'll have MANY Loves / girlfriends before you decide to settle down! When I was 19, I loved my girlfriend SO MUCH! All I could think about was marrying her at that young age......Now 39, looking back..I'm darn glad we broke up. I would have missed out on so many things in life, meeting new people, going away to college, spending 4 years in Hawaii surfing, and finally settling down in Japan.... It's best at your age to try to have FUN and not get too serious about one girl....I know it's easy to say, but now you are available......Do what I told ya or date around, enjoy being 19 bro! Cause once those years are gone, you'll never never get them back.....
  7. Mike_Wazowski
    Well....You think she's cheating eh? The mind of a cheater is always working overtime. Trust me I know. You think that everyone else must be doing the same thing you did. Thats the price we pay for cheating..an over active imagination that never quits...... Your girl asks for some time to think, to get her head start and the first thing you think is that she must be knocking the boots with another guy......maybe, maybe not..... Probably not.....but your mind will drive you crazy thinking about it.....I'd just give her the time she needs and let whatever is going to happen, happen! good luck!
  8. Mike_Wazowski
    Oh...my wife is Japanese, can't speak english, but I love it when she says 'Oh, me so horny, me love you long time!' Actually she doesn't say nothin cause we have sex like once every six months if I'm lucky! You should just indulge your man, trust me or he'll start lookin for another who will. Good luck! Instead of complaining about it, the next time he says it, slap him hard accross his face......
  9. Mike_Wazowski
    About knifing the dude: Good idea if you wanna spend the rest of your life taking it up the poop chute from some guy named Bubba at San Quentin. My advice to you would be to dump her, and take the pain for a couple of months..then move on..... good luck !
  10. Mike_Wazowski
    American Dream: Thanks for that comment there Mr. Perfect.....If you can come down from your Throne and read my Update post, you would know that I am doing my best to break it off with this woman.....Also....I don't ever remember asking people 'How I can cheat better.' as you state. I got myself in a tangled mess, and I was seeking advice on what I should do! Now, I'm bored talking to you!
  11. Mike_Wazowski
    Digly Said......Those things come from within you, they are the very manifestations of being a man...they are leadership, they are sex, they are inner strength, they are the ability not to let her walk all over you, and the ability to make her feel intense feelings of passion like only a real man can. Do you see a girl as someone you gain, someone you win over, a prize (only in a figurative sense), or do you see yourself as the prize, and do you know how to project that to her? Digly, you just described my first relationship when I was 18 years old Brother. I loved her so much, I put her on a pedestal. I worhipped her. I let her walk all over me. She could do whatever she wanted to me. She ripped my heart out of my chest, and every time I would come crawling, begging her to take me back........ And then I realized the reality of Love...it's about POWER...whoever has the Power in the relationship is the one least likely to end up with a Broken Heart if the relationship goes sour. I always thought that I was so lucky to have her! When I should have been thinking...SHE is so lucky to have ME! That was exactly your point wasn't it....To have inner strength..To put Yourself on the pedestal..... ******** What I have learned in my 39 years is this.....Walk Like A Man, and Most Definitely Don't Take Any Sh*t From Anybody!! And if you can't do that, then do a good job faking it! **************** And to the Young Brother who started this thread.......Dude, The most Faithful and Trusting Girl in the world has it inside herself to cheat if she is not happy/ dis-satisfied with her situation..... But as others have posted, there are ways to find girls who are less likely to cheat than others.....Good Luck ......
  12. Mike_Wazowski
    Is it only with your ex girlfriend that you have been cheating with? Or has it been with alot of other girls as well? I think it has a lot to do with power, a man's prowess.....wanting to show women who you are and what a great lover you are! Wanting women to remember you! Like a movie star, you want people to 'Know you', 'Love you', 'Worship you'! Hey....wait a minute!!! I just described myself!!
  13. Mike_Wazowski
    Ok Scout.....I'll tone my posts down..I just have so much anger inside of me cause I was so stupid to get involved with another woman..and I'm taking it out on others...If I have offended anybody......I'm sorry!
  14. Mike_Wazowski
    MY GOD IN HEAVEN! ShyAnne...you are actually promoting Cheating???? As you said...woman have a reason why they cheat.....So I guess your reason is 'Hubby's not giving you enough' So hey...why not cheat on him....become a prostitute! Good thinking!! NOT!
  15. Mike_Wazowski
    I'm sure you are pretty..but the only reason other guys are saying that is they wanna get in your pants! Nothing more, nothing less! And since you are married, some guys get an extra thrill out of doing it with a married woman. Tell your husband your feelings abot how you need More attention and more romance....if he still doesn't then it's time to get divorced! You said divorce isn't in your moral belief! I would love to know what faith rejects divorce but promotes cheating????? I wanna join! NOT!
  16. Mike_Wazowski
    Would I lie to her face?? As I said..I made a big big mistake cheating...Something I will never do again. So, it may be a selfish act, but to save a possible divorce, my wife's feelings, my kids feelings, Yes I would lie.... You may not agree but that's what I would do! Anyways..as I said I live in Japan and it's like 1:30am..time for bed...see ya for now!
  17. Mike_Wazowski
    With regards to getting caught....I'll take my chances on that.....It's been over now for two weeks and so far so good. And anyways..the affair...if you wanna call it that, was with a Co worker who has as much to lose as me and it lasted like about 2 weeks...we only slept together twice......I live in Japan ....It's a totally different world here....not like America... My wife notices a change, and she accepts it for what it is.....something positive...It's not the Japanese way to question a good thing!
  18. Mike_Wazowski
    I always wonder why some people all of a sudden get so Self Rightous After the Fact???? 'Oh, I gotta tell her I just spent the weekend Porking some Hoe. I love her, I owe her that much!' All BS in Good Ole Mike_Wazowski's opinion... I cheated on my wife....Accepted the fact that I was wrong, wrong, wrong, broke it off quickly....that's it! Now I'm showering my wife with all the attention I used to give the other girl. My wife is happier than I have see her in a long time...Our sex life is slowly improving....And I'll NEVER CHEAT AGAIN! Now..If I would have told her...I'd be searching for a good divorce lawyer now....
  19. Mike_Wazowski
    For me, the best way to fall out of love or to forget about an ex girlfriend is to find a replacement.....Nothing works better than replacing the one you lost with someone else! That also shows the Ex that he/she is not irreplaceable! Peace! I also find comfort in the arms of another female..even if it's just a platonic thing! It's all about getting support for me!
  20. Mike_Wazowski
    manipulation is just another form of having power over someone else...i'm just curious.....how do you feel if... A: You manipulate someone into doing something (sucess) and B: You try to manipulate someone into doing something but it doesn't work(failure)
  21. Mike_Wazowski
    telling your her you cheated serves no purpose unless you plan on using it as an excuse to break it off with her. if you plan to stick together and to never cheat again and to love only her, then spare her the pain...Don't Tell!
  22. Mike_Wazowski
    I guess it all depends on what your idea of partying is...... is it having drinks with friends, dancing with your man....not going overboard..... or is it getting totally wasted at a party, flirting with a lot of guys, setting yourself up to be date raped etc..... Unfortunately in our society, girls cannot 'Let there hair down and get wild" to the extreme that guys can.....for the only reason that its not safe.... Go figure! peace!
  23. Mike_Wazowski
    Bro..if your idea of a nice girl is one that is over 20, still a Virgin and likes to spend Friday night infront of the TV...well..they are a dying breed...... if you want to meet a girl who isn't into partying or sleeping around then I would advice you to join your College Church group or something like that. Also...if you are as attractive as you said you are, then just sit back and CHILL.....Da Girls will find you...then you can pick the one that fits your description of a "Good Girl" peace!
  24. Mike_Wazowski
    Yo Mike..Thanks for your Mail! I checked out your story. My only question to you is this: What ever happened to the 'Hottie from work' that you gf said to 'Go for it' with! Forget about your gf bro.....happiness for you lies in the arms of the Hottie! Lest I repeat your gf's excellent advice.....GO FOR IT!
  25. Mike_Wazowski
    You know, the NC (No Contact rule) doesn't apply in your situation. You said you still love him. Then don't lose your maybe last chance to be with him. You are waiting for him to call, maybe he's waiting for you to call..... Either way, if you really love the guy, call him and ask one last time, 'Is there a chance for us?' If he says 'No', then apply the NC rule and start your emotional healing process. If he says 'Yes', then you both need to MAKE TIME for each other. Good Luck.....
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