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hi i have been in this relationship for 10 months now and i love her very much and she loves me too (at least i thought she did). but she cheated on me with some dude that she seemed to have a really intense crush on. she didnt even tell me about it either, i found out on my own, now i am super pissed off and i want to dump her but i love her so much and i know it would hurt so bad. i just found out this morning and i havent talked to her yet and i dont know how i am going to. anyways if you have some advice that would be greatly apreciated!! I also thought about taking a knife to this guys throat he lives in another town, and i figure i could find out where he lives. it would make me a lot happier. so if you have some advice on this too let me know! THANKS!

i woul definitely be stern with him and try to put some fear into his eyes, whatever you feel is right i just wouldnt let this keep on without doing anything about or else he might think you are weak and he can get away with it. also you dont want your gf to think you are a ***, if you stand up for her and act tough she might like that and think you are protective of her, some girls find that attrative i think, but it probly depends on her. just make sure the guy gets that point that you dont want him ***in around!

hey yall, I really enjoy being able to pleasure my girlfriend, and i can give her clitoral orgasms when i want to, but when I use my fingers and try to give her a vaginal orgasm by stimulating her G spot she says that it really makes her feel like she's going to pee and she wont let me keep going because she dosent want to pee on me! Is it possible that i could finger her until she pees all over the place? or am I maybe pleasuring the wrong spot.... cause im not to sure whether i am hittin it or not because i dont know what this whole peeing feeling is about and whether it is normal or not. Thanks in advance for your help, it is greatly appreciated!!!

I am 18 years old and I have been dating a girl that i love very much for about 5 months. In the past when we have been physical and she has givin me a blowjob or a handjob It takes me anywhere from 30 seconds to maybe 5 minutes to orgasm. I dont know if this is very normal or not?? I have never really been to physical with anyone else in my life. Very recently though we have tried to have sex. Sometimes It is hard for me to get it hard enough which seems weird cause i havent had problems with this before and i am very attracted to her, I think i just get too nervous. But when i do get it up and stick it in, It seems like it only takes a few seconds before i can't hold it anymore and it blows. I feel really embarrassed when this happens. She has been with other guys in her life and has way more experience with this stuff than I do, but she has also told me she's never had an orgasm in her life. I feel really bad cause I feel like i can't please her and it is putting a negative damper on the relationship i really don't want this to happen. If anyone has some advice on how i might fix this or any tips on how to prolong my orgasm for better sex, or even any questions or comments at all your help is very much apreciatted! thanks a Lot!

I suppose i could see this being a problem of shyness, i have the same situation, I am a very shy guy and pften feel really awkward. I have very little experience with sex though, as only started doing it with my gf few days ago, but beacuse of my shyness i sometimes feel awkward with it maybe I will grow out of it who knows.

Hello. I have been dating this girl for a while now, but letely things have been getting a little sketchy. She is not happy with the way things are going because I am not Taking control of the relationship enough and expressing myself. I blame this on the type of person I am, I have always been more of a follower than a leader and i tend not to speak up for myself a lot. And she is kind of the other way around. Anyway this dosent really bother me because i am a really easy going type of person and i am usually happy with whatever as long as I am with her. But she dosent feel that way, she dosent like to have to be in control so much and wants me to be more assertive. This is hard for me because at heart I am a very shy person and somewhat insecure and i don't like to make descisions. I also fear that she wont be happy with the ones i make. PLease if you have any advice on how to improve my relationship help me out, and thanks in advance if you decide too!

hey man. i know exactly how you feel, all the things you said i have problems with as well like shyness and inability to express my feelings. I rarely even associated with girls until i got into hight school. I am in the first serious relationship of my life and it's been going for about 4 months. At first i had the same problms that you have, i had a hard time expressing feelings and dealing with issues that we had and she was a little disappointed about it. but over time i found it easier and easier to open up to my girlfriend. I would think about nice things i could say to her and ways to tell her how i feel. try maybe writing a little note or an e-mail and just try to be a little romantic, you'll be surprised how much it can help with just a little effort put in, it will make her very happy. I'm sure she will like whatever you have to say, and won't judge you for it even though you probly feel like it, just go with whatever comes into your mind and don't stress about it too much. This all seemed to work for me so i think you should give it a shot and i hope you can have a much better realtionship with my help. --Reply if you want, or if you have any more questions

ya i've heard of this business happening, it's a pretty normal thing, but if it gets bad i heard you can it fixed pretty easily, ask a doctor they would know

it would be good to show her how you feel, but you got to be prepared for her response, if she dosent feel the same way, she might find it kinda weird and you'd be in an akward situation

make her feel really good about herself. do some nice things for her that would make her feel special and wanted. she will forget about that other looser in no time. chicks are suckers for that gushy romantic stuff!

you should tell him how you feel, tell him that you would'nt feel comfortable in a crowd of people that you dont know and you would rather just be alone with him. he should be ok with that. Maybe he wants to be with his friends too because he is too shy to be alone with just you, but that depends of the kind of person he is i suppose

my girlfriend is like this too, persolanlly i dont see what the big deal is i think you should be able to be comfortable with your body, especially after a year. im sure he dosent care about what you look like he will love your body no matter what

if you just try to ram it in there without her expecting it you might get some pretty scary reactions, i would make sure she it totally cool with the idea.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and things have been going ok but lately i feel like our relationship isn't really progressing very much and i feel like it is my fault because i am unable to open up totally and express myself with her. I have never been in a serious relationship before and she has a few so i feel like i am inexperienced compareed to her and i am bringing down the whole relationship because of it. I really want to express my feelings but I am a shy person and it is hard for me. Also recently she told me that She is falling in love with me. HOw do i respond to something like that? I want to tell her the same but i dont know if what i feel really is love or not.. It's hard to know Thanks for all the help!!