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Just ask her to hang out after school one day or on the w/e...Its a common thing to do and it doesnt mean ur asking her out...then use ur stretegy...

What PocoDiablo said!

Thanks 4 the advice Waking up early works... Might snatch me some dolly or cosmo of my gf ...That should put me to bed quick lol Ill have to "borrow" some wine out of my parents bar, to see if that works.

Hey, Don't stress on the inability to find a topic...it makes it even harder to do... Try to just throw things out without thinking TOO much about em and don't worry if you make a mistake, but DO know in your head what definitely not to say... I found that worked the best for me, although I did mess up sometimes I learned from it and now it’s orgasmic And another thing that I found out: if you're feeling too scared about not having a topic it's best to not say anything... AND BE CONFIDENT in anything you say or do...that’s the biggest advice I could give you! Social and communication skills are just like learning to walk and talk. You can’t walk without legs; you can’t communicate well without confidence. And the reason some people are better talkers is because of that and they have and had a lot of experience and exposure... You got all the tools, you just gotta find the right way to use em…It works with ladies 2 Hope this helps... El_Sergio

Theres nothing wrong with drinking now and then... As long as it's not made into a habit. I mean, even in the bible somewhere (i've been told) it says that alcohol can soothe a man's heart. And its true, a healthy level of acohol- just beyond tipsy and under "can't walk and mumble" usually makes people more opened and can increase the amount of fun you have with you'r friends and/or partners, sometimes multiple of those at the same time And its even good for your health if taken in correct proportion... Can't say the same about hangovers though El_Sergio

Hello... In need of sleep...](*,) Lately i've found that i end up laying in bed for hours at night trying to make my self go to sleep, with no luck... I keep thinking over what happened during the day, or past days. Or thinking about lyrics for songs... This has only occurred to me just recently... Its not a big problem atm cuz im on holidays and can sleep in, but school comes back soon and i'd hate to get only 5-6 hours sleep. I tried doing some regular repetative activities before going to bed and then trying to slowly shift the time of the activity so as i go to bed earlier, but it didn't help. Is there anything i can do? Thanks Serge

Hey, I agree with MetallicAguy and Kyoshiro Ogari... You're obviously deep into puberty (the dreams) and don’t be so obsessed with your voice...verbal, makes up only around 30% of your communication when you talk to people (heard somewhere). And the way you talk is usually at the end of the list of the things a girl will remember about a guy...unless its reaaallly different... For instance, one of my friend’s voices sounds not far off from a girls but he scores more chicks then a tampon's section of the supermarket... Forget about the body building, if you think it will improve your voice in some mystical way... Singing help's..It gives you an enormous leap in vocal control... The bottom line is... Stop being so obsessive, it comes out..and girls can smell it... And it can freak them out sometimes... Stop dreaming all these wacky, wild movie like dreams... At least don't do it as frequently... Just let it come to you...be opened up, outgoing... don't sweat over getting a girlfriend... just stick your head out for as much mixed gender social contact as you can...and before you know it things will change...

I so relate to eclipse99fwb... Congrats man... And yeh...masturbation helps everythin lol.. El_Sergio

Honestly... Im not a love type person, have my reasons...but i know this.. People (you) can sometimes get mixed feelings in a relationship which can either mean something is ->NOT RIGHT I would try to spend some time having little communication with both, your gf and Katie and see which way the wind blows. Try not to dig your head in either of them. Keep in mind though your gf is pretty rare and would it be worth loosing all that you have with her, cuz of an erection in a different direction (using that word harshly) You said: "The thing is my girlfriend is great, we have a lot in common, she's smart, loyal, giving, funny, everything I could want...almost" Whats this almost that u speak of? El_Sergio

Heya.. My self, being able to fluently speak multiple languages and english being not my birth language. I would find it really cute and would feel special if a girl would bother to say (try to) something on my language. Infact mistakes would make it even more cute. So yeh..go for it El_Sergio

Hugs usually dont mean anything on their own.. It would be rare to show attraction just by the way you hug someone, or by hugging them at all... On a better note...she might hug u more passionatly than others cuz she thinks u got a "seckthy bodseyy" lol

Dude.. U shouldnt think that way...that impacts on you...and most definitely impacts on the way you portray your self to the opposite sex. Girls can sense when your not confident...](*,) and thats a * * * * *...they also have cooties but thats a dif story..lol youre only 15 anyway bro.. you got a lot of life infront of ya. Think of it differently...dont even try to see your self with a girl...like..doing all this romantic..stuff.. until you have one..instead, when your somewhere, lets say a party or a dance, hanging out with your friends find a girl...make sure shes not in a group of ppl..cuz it gets intimidating and hard to think of things to say that way...specially if you dont know her(them), look at what she is...judge if shes borred or what shes feeling, then set your self a goal: im gonna go over there, and talk to her, and shes gonna love it!! Then take things on from there...if you see shes interested (she will look at your eyes lots, giggle bout everything u say) then suggest a dance, or ask for a fone number..with a silly pick up line like...hey, umm by the way, i lost my number can i borrow yours...after that, youd wanna leave cuz she might think youre obsessed so say something like..i spose i'd better get back to my friends..smile..and say nice meeting you..And most important dont wreck your head on a failure...or on one perticular girl unless you both click... Look through this forum, alot of good advice here T8k care El_Sergio

Well..theres many reasons..none of which r probably really important or have some meaning to them. For instance, he might have just said it because it popped up into his head, due to a possible conversation your ex and him could have had about the park... When you say this guy do you mean the guy you are attracted to?

Actually that aint true.. Look at the most known musicians whom are dubbed the pop-punk, ego-pumped, girls go crazy over, people: Billie Joe, James Hetfield, Dexter Rollan, Travis Barker, Tom DeLonge and others...they are all married some even for many years with kids and so on. From a frontman, punk-guitarist perspective, i would say thats becoz they get borred with the unpredictability (if theres a word like that) of the whole popularity wall. I mean sure, playin a gig, gettin drunk, then waking up in the morning with a hot chick (or guy if youre elton john) completely hung over, would be fun for a while. But it all brings unbalance and thats what they long for in their spontanious, uncontrollable life. ROCK ON!! El_Sergio

I have talked to them, but they keep looping with "when you will grow up you will realise your friends werent worth your time...when we were little we didnt get to do these things...and so on" Thx