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By the email alone, I would take it as, she cares about you a lot, your a good friend still and she just doesn't need all the bad relationship stuff right now. But by what the best friend said, she may feel more for you then her email lets on. She still has feelings for you. She said it is the hardest thing she has had to do. You don't say something like that unless you have some feelings for the other person. Just be there for her. As she said moves are stressful and emotional and overwelming. If she wants more to happen, I am sure she will make it clear.

That is a hard one. Religion causes so many people to split up that are otherwise perfect for each other. Tell him you felt hurt that he said he thinks you are going to go to hell. Ask if he cares. If you are wondering why he is not trying to save you, maybe he thinks that the direct aproach will scare you off. I know religion is a difficult topic to talk on when your views are different. But if you have been together this long and see a future together you have to talk about it, or later on it will just come between you. Don't argue about it though. Just tell him what you believe and ask him questions about his beliefs. Even if the religions are very different, you might find that you have some common beliefs about some things.

If you were in love I would say chances are that he was actually wanting to learn sign language, but since it was just a few dates I think that he was just trying to get some. Guys will say anything to impress you if they think it helps their chances.

Just be sure that you are not dependant on him. Make other friends there. Have your own place. Be able to take care of yourself. When you first go there you are leaving your friends, family and everything you know. Then if you split you won't have him either and so be prepared to have your own friends to go out with. Not shared friends. That is too hard then in a breakup.

I met my current guy online. People tend to look at you funny when you say it though, like ugh an online thing. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If you really care about her tell her your true feelings. The distance is hard though once you get into a romantic relationship. It is hard because you miss the simple things like wanting to hold hands or hug him just. As far as the age difference, you have to be careful because certian things can be agianst the law or just plain wrong to do with a minor. Tell her your real feelings. If she says I love you chances are she is feeling the same. Since she is younger though, what love means to her may not be the same way you view love.

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It is really possible she may still love you. She might just be confused about her feelings for you. I have told my bf before that I can't say that right now, when I was confused. Give her a bit of time. Don't totally give up on it yet. Let her sort her feelings out.

If you are going to tell them start by saying that their daughter is going through a hard time and she needs their support. That they shouldn't judge or give her a hard time, because she is having a hard enough time right now.

Well the name is depression. Something that may feel forever and feel the worst thing, but it is temporary. It goes... eventually. It might help you to see a doctor. I know no one wants to be on medications, but they do help. And since you are a cutter, therapy might help you. I know I cut too. It helps to talk about why. Even if you don't know why yet. Try to hang in there. Even when you really don't feel like it. Life does turn around and get better. It always does. Depression is a really hard thing to go through, but your not alone.

I would say you are depressed. Not looking forward to things and apathy are one of the main signs. Depression often starts as just lack of intrest and not caring much about what you used to. It might do you good to consiter medicine. I don't mean that you will have to be on it forever. You might need something for a few months just to get you back to your old self. Talk to your dr. Tell him how you feel. If he recomends meds ask about welbutrin. It is mild, no side effects such as weight gain either which is nice. That is one of the best meds you can get on. Or consiter therapy. That often helps depression, if you don't want to try meds.

I have a friend, she was 43 when she had her first and 48 when she had her second. It was high risk, though.

I have the same problem. I have depression and it makes me not want to do anything or go anywhere. I have been through this many times already. Recently it has been worse. First off, I am not sure her meds are working. Or she might need to add and anxiety med, since a lot of derpression meds cause anxiety. The best thing for depression is: a constant sleep schedule. Not too much not too little, and the same times daily. a good support system. She seems to have that in you. Just someone to talk to and who cares to listen. Who she will let see her at her worst. the right meds. I have been through close to a hundred meds and thousand side effects, before I found the right one. She needs a good dr who will lister to her when she doesn't think things are working and is willing to listen to her sugustions for a different med. Know your facts. There is a lot of meds out there, that may be better. Know what the drs don't tell you as far as side effects. And then the most important thing when it comes to depression, is getting back to your life. Often depression leads to reliance on others and fear of, or lack of intrest in what seems common tasks. Start small. Say honey can you help me out and do this. Something small that she has stopped, it may seem like a common, easy to do thing to you, but to her it might be the hardest thing in the world. Help her to get out more. I know she won't want to. Doesn't feel like hanging out with friends. Either you don't want them to see you that way, or you just don't want to see anyone. Start small, have a few friends over for dinner. As she had an abusive past, that may well be the root her depression stems from. Until she deals with her feeling on these issues she won't be able to perminantly shake the depression. I recomend that she get therapy. Just talk out her feelings. This would also help her self confidence and esteem. Hang in there and offer her as much love and support as you can. She will come through it.

It could just be that they have become good friends, but to me it sounds like he likes her and might be messing around on you. A guy can have a girl as a friend, that is just a friend. I say talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you are worried and don't want to be taken for the fool. Ask for the truth, whatever it may be.

Less emails mean nothing. Maybe you just talk more on the phone or in person that when it started. Me and my guy are close as ever and almost never email anymore. As far as anniverserys, tell him you would like to. He will never know unless you speak up. And since you guys are like best friends then it shouldn't be that hard. Just say, you know our anniversary is coming up... maybe we can do something special for it. Let him know that it is important to you.