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  1. goddess23
    hey well i also very recently started doing sexual stuff with my bf. we love eachother alot and talked about it before and everything. the very first time i put his penis in my mouth, i probably just like licked it a LIL for like 20 secs lol. but i didnt give him any handjob or anything, but i gave him a full blow the other day. like for a bout 7-8 mins. i could tell he liked it as well, but he didnt come. it seems like most guys dont come during JUST oral, especially the first time because i think it takes practice. about pre cum, i tasted it and i was like wat is that in my head lol. and that kinda actually freaked me out at first, but i think i didnt actually SUCK enough. like i took his penis into my mouth completely a couple times, but i barely PULLED/SUCKED so i dont know if thats why it wasnt enough. but i hear many times the main thing is that the guy feels that you want to do it. i actually asked my bf later about it and he said "it felt good, but i could tell you were tired", and i was VERY tired when i stopped my jaw was killing me. but a big thing is to tease a bit, and do what feels natural. im still in the experimental zone, i mean i did it once with him now hes on vacation so i dont know when we'll actually be in a place where we can. but dont worry, just a little teasing, tip licking, and sucking because i think that was my mistake lol.
  2. goddess23
    wow, see i recently turned 16 and my bf is turning 15 in a couple of days so i can give you some personal experience. i dont know about you but my bf is very shy, espeically since im older. we recently really started getting into stuff, and kissing my neck is definitely something i like. him making the first move is something i really like because hes so shy and i usually have to make the decisions and stuff. playing with my hair, taking it slow as in steps. like start by playing with my hands or hair, looking into my eyes slowly kissing me then actually getting into it. yet being aggressive to a degree is also nice again because hes younger, i dont feel as threatened or pressured, so when he is a little aggressive its actually nice. but he does a good job, he does like all of the work when we do get pretty intimate so hes pretty good. but if she realllly likes you which i think she does, then anything sweet and nice you do will turn her on. now do have any tips for me?? lol, i would love to hear any advice that you like from your older gf. thanx!
  3. goddess23
    ok...this is kind of embaressing but i gave my bf head for the first time recently. i was really scared, we have talked about it and he knows that, so i did, and he seemed to like it but my jaw was killing me, so i stopped. so he didn't come, and im just wondering how long it usually takes and any tips would be welcome because this is the first time ive done it. thanx.
  4. goddess23
    hey um...6-6.5? WOW, you should be estatic, and you're 16, you'll probably still grow a bit. im a girl as you can see, and i think if a guy was longer than that i would be scared to let it go anywhere lol. seriously that length is very good. btw, length has nothing to do with satisfying a girl, its all in our heads sorta like breast size i guess. as long as its at least 3 inches, thats enough...but i think 6 inches is actually considered perfect, maybe 7 but THATS IT. lol, so dont worry, you're actually kinda lucky!
  5. goddess23
    its a beautiful poem, and its one i can truly relate to. you also did a great job rhyming lol, and thats tough when you just want to express your feelings sometimes. i have a similar poem, in context, i dont think its as good as yours, but its one that i truly feel. Why does my heart cry every time i think of you? Why does my entire body know it would give itself up for yours? My sadness is overwhelming, it controls my every thought, every action. The stars seem to meaningless dots compared to you, the moon just a speck of dust. I have fear, it comes from the mere idea of not having you near me. The constant shadow of your memory taunts me, drives me insane. The idea of seeing your precious face, or hearing your sweet voice is now an impossibility, I feel guilty for not being there with you, guilty for not knowing about your day. In my dreams i will meet you, in my heart i will feel you. Forever in my heart, always in my prayers.
  6. goddess23
    there probably is a SLIGHT attraction there for the both of you. maybe just the idea of playing out the classic "professor student relationship". i think you both are subconsciously doing very slight flirting. i mean maybe generally you are a very friendly talkative person (i have the same problem, people think im flirting with them when im actually not lol), and maybe that is his personality. but he probably does do a little flirting, but not enough to send an actual clear sign out because of the nature of your relationship. its just a fun fantasy to think about really, i doubt either of you will act upon it from what i can tell. hes being a litle extra nice to you, because he finds you attractive and thinks you might have a little crush on him which makes him feel good about his middle age self. its nothing to actually worry about unless feelings actually start to develop. but right now it seems harmless.
  7. goddess23
    hey i totally feel you. i mean im 16 now and i started going out with my current bf when i was 15. i waited for a long time for someone i relaly liked and cared about and its lasting. although i dont believe that age really defines a relationship, generally speaking, most relationships during this time are really not relationships. although you never forget them, and they do have some impact on you, these little crushes shouldn't be considered RELATIONSHIPS. im very happy that i waited. and i was in love before, so again, age doesn't define everything, but i have to admit ive always been very mature. with my friends, they call me the mother, so im a little unique in that sense. but ya, i totally hate how people say they're in love and then two weeks later they deny it. its like they cannot even respect themselves. like by the time these people are 18 theyll probably have sexually transmitted diseases. kissing and sexual activity is becoming so normal...its scary, and people keep switching partners. i think age isnt what should be looked at, its the people inside, but generally, the person inside a 12 year old isnt ready for a RELATIONSHIP in most cases.
  8. goddess23
    hey! well...at first i was thinking she could just want to be friends. i mean it really depends on your relationship which only you know. but considering the time you guys have been friends, if she says things like what you mentioned, this girl definitely needs you. she may just "know" that you like her, and like that feeling that theres somebody she can always fall back on. you didnt mention her relationship with her bf, that would be something to consider. are they having problems? has she said that she loves him? are they reallllly close? if its not all that great, then she may be flirting alot MORE with you because she has always had that connection with you and now she realizes she LIKES you. i mean a girl REALLY WANTING to sleep in your bed (personally i would not like to sleep in any of my "friends" beds--my bfs, i wud LOVE TO) and then MASTURBATING in it!! she was getting off your scent! she obviously is flirting. honeslty you need to tell her that you do like her and you feel that she feels the same way. that she feels you two are meant to be and see what she says. ofcourse consider the above, espeically her relationship with her bf, but ya the best thing to do would be to talk to her. but you do have a good plan yourself, start flirting back and see what happens. if she doesn't wnat anything happening then she'll back off. you should flirt, say things that she says, make "jokes" about you two going out, you don't have to grab her butt cheek to flirt. so think about both the nature of your friendship and her relatiosnhip with her bf, and try the flirting thing. best of luck!
  9. goddess23
    hey well...ok, honestly you shoudn't have been that harsh. i mean flirting with another girl like that and seriously acting like you're having alot of fun is not the way to go. if u can be honest then thats best, but a little flirting or just showing that there are other people around you is always a way to get the person's attention. but if you flirt TOO much with someone else, us girls get a little disapointed and feel that you really are not interested in us. a little flirting is ok, its a great way to get us girls attention, just don't lay it on too heavy. shes probably not TOTALLY TURNED OFF, she might be a little jealous if she likes you. just do a little damage control....flirt with HER this time lol. dont worry, if she liked you, you flirting with someone else will just make her want you more, but if you do it too much then she'll just realize she needs to move on. so right now, you need to show that you're intersted! good luck! bye
  10. goddess23
    hey guys! well im just wondering about something, and i realise it might be similar to other peoples posts, but ofcourse everyone is a little differnt and individual attention is needed lol. okay, well ive been dating my bf for 7 months now, im 16 and hes 15 so there is a slight age difference. we have never celebrated anniversaries. and the thing is, its not like i want to or have told him anything, but i barely remember him, and i dont think he really does either. we love eachother alot (at least i think so lol), we have had the deep conversations to the jokes and we are like best friends with a really strong physical attraction lol. but its just sometimes i feel as if he doesnt care as much. i mean things like anniversaries, or like he doesnt email me as much as he used to, its just those two issues. i mean i might be feeling this way because hes on vacation right now, and im missng him alot, i mean no contact with him. but im just wondering if i should be concerned? has this happened to anyone else? he says he loves me and everything but what really worried me was the last week before he left, we didnt even get to talk. i sent some emails but i think his account was screwed up and hes not allowed to talk to girls lol. so ive just been feeling a little insecure. sorry about the length, but i would really appreciate any help. btw, his birthday, hes not going to be here, but i don't know what to get him!! ne suggestions welcome! lol thanx !
  11. goddess23
    well the virginity thing really doesnt matter. me being a young teenage girl, i would want to be with someone whos a virgin, first of all for the safety of stds, as well, i would prefer not to be compared to anyone. but it doesn't really matter. if the guy wasnt a virgin, he knows what he's doing. theres pros to both. no cons lol just pros. virgin: wont be compared to anyone, its special for the other person because im their first, the idea of stds and such are not as much of a concern in my head. not a virgin: they know what they're doing, for guys it takes away the fact that hes going to hurt the girl. so either way it doesn't matter, i dont think gender has much to do with preference, i think it really is personal, this one just cant be generalized
  12. goddess23
    hey leah! well im young (16), so maybe i still am a firm believer in true love. i just feel that there is this happiness that you will not be able to achieve if that certain connection isn't there with him. think about it. do you WANT to have HIS kids? do u feel as if his genes are the only genes you want for your kids? if this person is your friend, and thats all you feel for him, then thats all he'll ever be. and both of you will eventually end up having afairs because you just will not be satisfied when it comes to that completeness you feel as a person. marraige is a sacred thing, and im not saying that you should definitely not consider him, but as someone else mentioned, start dating him. c how you feel in a relationship. honestly i dont believe in dating or persuing a relationship with someone that you're not physically attracted to. its not about sex, but its just a personal elation that you feel, and when all the other factors fall into place like friendship, financial security, interests, lifestyles etc, then that connection never dies out and you live feeling fullfilled. so just really think about both your feelings and your friend's feelings. you guys maybe the perfect couple in living together and interests and everything but you will never be able to truly commit yourself to that person whole heartedly. just investigate your feelings...money isn't everything and if you are preparing yourself to suppoort yourself, then you have that wonderful choice to marry the one you love.
  13. goddess23
    well me n my bf have been going out for 7 months now as well. but we knew eachother for years before dealing. and probably about 3 months into the relationship i knew i really loved him. i wanted to tell him many times, but i wasnt sure when. so i waited it out. i mean i was the first to admit i liked him, because hes really shy, so i don't know how long i intended on waiting, but i just thought when the moment is right ill say it. and one day he walked me home and we kissed and he told me he loved me, and i replied it back. it was wonderful. but i wasn't going to wait forever, if the moment is right, like the one you described, i would go for it. but since that moment has passed i would wait it out for now. but if you ever feel that sudden rush, i would advise that you say it. at least you can be clear on where you stand, and let him know where you stand. so don't wait forever for him, just do it when it feels right. and i know its hard to think that he may not say it, but even if he doesnt RIGHT AWAY, he may just be shocked. but the worst that will happen is that you will know how he feels, and if you still want to be in the relationship. you know what, when i asked him when he knew he loved me, he said a time before we even started going out. so he may be dying to say it as well. saying it first is not that bad. i was the first to say i liked him, and he didnt answer me at first, he thought it was a dare lol. so dont worry, its just a sweet thing to look forward to, whether it comes from your mouth or his!
  14. goddess23
    well im 16 and you know what? this guy that i knew since i was 4, in my class for 5 years, we were best friends and did everything together, and i knew i was in love since i was 10. i know sometimes you feel as if you're too young to know what love is, and in most cases it's true, but some individuals are capable of this intense feeling. i mean the guy i loved, he moved away and the end of grade 8, and i now have a bf that i love very much, but part of me will always belong to him. he was part of my innoncent, uncomplicated childhood, part of a time when things couldn't be stressful. i know that i loved him, and i am over him now, but i did love him, i don't deny the fact now. so it will take time, and it depends on the person you are, but your age doesn't have much with what you're capable of feeling.
  15. goddess23
    i think he does have some feelings for you. its early, so for him, he may not want to seem as if he "cares" too much, because hes not sure exactly how to act in this new "relationship". in the beginning, guys often do the hot and cold thing because they know it keeps us interested and drives us insane, making us think even more about them. i think you should do the same, play it cool. let things flow, if he sent you a message like that, do the same! if he doesn't, you shouldn't either. if he ignores you, you ignore him, mirror his behavior. and if he keeps playing it TOO cool lol, then you should get your feelings out. college is coming up, and you realize that chances of something really serious developing are slim, but you don't want to put yourself out there for nothing. honestly i think you should just let things flow, and if more feelings develop, then great, if they don't at least you're not too deep into it. but i think hes just playing the game, not sure exactly how to act with someone he doesn't reallly know.
  16. goddess23
    gifts are important to an extent. i mean it is the little things that count, honestly when theres no occasion an actual gift is not necessary. i was touched to hear that even though you dont use what your gf brought back, you really appreciate it, and it makes you happy inside. and obviously in your relationship, you're not used to exchanging gifts for no apparent reason. i think just writing her a poem, or a stuffed toy or something like that for a "no reason" gift would really make her happy. with my bf, hes a year younger than me, so hes really insecure about what he should do, what he shouldn't do, and for a few occasions, he gave me personalized bling. and i love them, not because of the cost but because his friends told me how much he agaonized about what to get me, and how much he thought about what to get engraved which is so sweet. but honestly im one of those girls that LOVES stuffed animals, and if he just got me one of those i wouldve been more than happy. so just know your gf, u dunt need to get her something all the time or everyday but gifts do have their place and time. and they are sometimes necessary to show how much you have listened, learend and loved.
  17. goddess23
    ok this girl definitely likes you. first of all, you have managed general conversation with her that seems to go smoothly. sitting next to you casually is just so that you might strike up a conversation. sitting relatively close and fondly with another guy is to get ur attention. not even make you jealous, its not like she started making out with this guy, just enough to let you know there are other guys around and to get you to start acting. and now with talking on msn and everything, im 16, and these would definitey be ways i would attract a guys attention and then to top it off, the JOKE, omggggg, this is like the biggest indicator, like unless this girl was like your best friend or something, this JOKE means the literal meaning. honestly if this girl doesn't like you, i would be shocked.
  18. goddess23
    hey hun. well im 16 and my bf is 15 and this is probably my number one fear about him. that he feels that he's too young to be tied down. honestly, if you feel that you want to "experience" more through high school, then you should definitely talk to him about it. personally, i am completely content spending the rest of my life with this guy. but not everyone is like that, and i don't blame you for feeling this way. but if you know that this is what you want, then you're going to have to approach all relationships in the near future with alot of caution. you probably should actually look for players, just experience things. but in the end you might lose the best thing you ever had and mayb even a year from now, you'll regret your decision. you should really think about the urge you have to experiment and experience. there are many risks to that too, as well i think there's something dysfunctional in dooming a relationship from the start because you DONT want it to go anywhere serious. so i advise to really consider your decision, but most of all, talk to your bf about these feelings. as hard as it might be, bring it up, even hypathetically. its really tough to lose the greatest thing you have, and to love him and to have him love you is the most wonderful thing you could ask for. but there are many people who feel the way you do, ive seen it many times in my school. so just really think about your bf, about yourself and have a good talk with him. i wish you all the luck with this issue. it's a fear that i think lies in the back of all young teens in serious relationships.
  19. goddess23
    hey. well i know how difficult age differences are in relationships right now. im 16, my bf is 15, so i know first hand what dating a younger guy entails. first of all, the fact that you feel like you're giving more to the relationship is normal. he probably loves you just as much or maybe even more than you do. but he is intimidated, and his lifestyle may make it difficult for even other people to know about his relationship with you. i don't know all the details of your relationship but maybe contacting you isn't easy. a good idea would be to back off a little bit. im not saying DONT CALL, DONT EMAIL, but just do it less. i don't know about you, but i always feel as if im reassuring my bf about his position, because he is insecure about himself in regards to dating someone older. and although your age difference isn't much either, its enough to pose some major differences in lifestyles. honestly i wouldn't think about it too much. let things flow, im sure hes a gr8 bf and cares about you alot. don't let something as minual as a phone call get in the way
  20. goddess23
    hey hun. well listen...ofcourse instinct is the best thing that us girls have. but consider the circumstances of when he cheated on his gf. i mean did you 2 connect on a level beyond the physical? was she saying or doing things to him lately that seem hurtful? even though its no EXCUSE, it might explain what kind of guy he is. im sure you like him, but ofcourse instinct is the best thing to follow. but it is always best to go through logical explanations. im not saying give him the benefit of the doubt, im just saying really analyse what your relationship with him was like. but DONT NOT TALK TO HIM WHEN HE GETS BACK. if you want to say no, say no, and explain what you're feeling. dont just not talk to him. you didn't mention if he already broke up with his gf, that might be a good place to start. so just handle it logically and instictively. good luck!
  21. goddess23
    hey i just posted a "new topic" on the same situation that im going through. its like u like this person, genuine feelings but at the same time you think you like your ex more. well im still confused about my own feelings. but im so in love with the person i am with now, i cannot imagine my life without him now. yet there are qualities in my past love that my present love doesn't have. honestly, if you really like the person you are with now, then let it be. but if you know that you have a chance with your ex, even just on talking terms, to straighten things out, you should. you should figure out exactly what your situation is regarding your ex. because why ruin a good thing for something that is definitely your past and is there just to serve as a memory. and on the other hand, why go through a relationship that you don't feel you're giving your all which ultimately hurts both of you. if in your heart, you know that you have strong feelings for your current gf, and are dedicating yourself fully, and just using your past as a way to reminisse. to learn from, to look back and laugh or cry about then it's fine. our past makes us who we are, and sometimes it's tough to let go. but if what you have going with this girl is good, then don't ruin it for your minds cruel way of interrupting. but ultimately, i think that if you are still in contact with your ex, then you should definitely figure out exactly where both of you stand.
  22. goddess23
    hey everyone. ok...i just want some unbias opinions and insights about something. im 16 at the moment, but i knew this guy since i was 4, and we were best friends growing up. we were really like 2 little kids in love but just too young to do anything about it. we went to junior high together and he became a jerk. but things got better and we ended on a good note until he moved the summer b4 high school. because of our relationship before, i don't have any forms of contact with him. but i know i truly loved him. i slowly began to move on and not seeing him everyday became normal, the idea of hearing his voice an imposibility. this year, i met this great guy and we're going out and i do love him. but i feel guilty because i still think about that guy from my childhood. it scares me because i truly don't know how i would feel if that guy walked back into my life. i just feel guilty, that im not fully over this guy that i really never even dated. do you guys out there think its wrong? has anyone been in this situation? how have u dealt with it?
  23. goddess23
    hey. listen, im not sure how old you are, if you're in your teens (like me), then age might be an issue, but it sounds like it's not. im 16 and my bf is a year younger than me, and sometimes people in school say "don't u feel weird dating someone younger" but lately alot of girls have been doing the same thing as me. if it doesnt bother you den don't worry. and honestly 2 years is NOTHING. but i know when you're in your teens, 2 years seems like alot to some people. but if this person who made this comment is your friend, than it was probably really just a joke. but you know your friend. you should talk to them and let them know that it really hurt you. im sure it was probably just a joke. dont stress about it too much. i know how you feel, but younger guys, there are actually alot of advantages that people don't know about, rite?
  24. goddess23
    its actually a good question. it is interesting to c. well.... first crush: age 6 first date: honestly i dunt think ive really been on a DATE buh mayb last yr so 15 first kiss: 15...i was almost 16 lol virginity: still a virgin, and obviously looking at how long i waited fer a kiss i plan to wait just as long for losing virginity lol
  25. goddess23
    honestly i hav some friends that make out with us, and its very annoying. its not about being jealous or nething, i mean i hav a bf and my other friends as well. but if u want to b affectionate, do it wen ur alone, have some dignity. its ok to hold hands or hug or even a lil kisisng but making out n stuf, its disrespectful. its not dat ur friends will hate u or nething, but its just dey may not want to tell u dat it dus bother dem sometimes. i no u want to b affectionate all da time wid ur bf, buh try to keep da personal stuf fer wen ur alone.
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