wickerbasket
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trrruuueee.... hmm that doesn't help me stop thinking about him though. what about: hey I feel like seeing you. that's probably not too different..
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Hi! Whate type words in the beginning of a relationship do you think would scare a guy off? This is basically a general question so you can answer anyway you want. One particular example I have is that this new guy I'm getting involved with who I really like and I'm not quite sure of his feelings for me just went away for a week on vacation. He's been gone for three days and already, he's all I think about. So I was going to send him a text message that says: Hey I wish you were here. Too much?
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thanks! That really helps. I just put my feelings out there too easily and consider his hot and cold feelings a minus.. but I guess I do have to consider the little games that guys play. But thanks you made me feel a lot better!
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I think she likes you. When people are silly with each other, that's a good sign. Just go out on a limb.. ask her out.
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I think you should contact him. Some may say you need to face the facts, it's over, you're too clingy, whatever. I don't think any of that's important. If you love him, tell him so, and clarify for yourself once and for all so you can either get back together with him or really focus on moving on. So write him a letter or call but make sure you make your feelings heard. You at least owe that to yourself.
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Hmm, I'd say beware though. Going on a break is never a good sign. I told my boyfriend I wanted a "break" and we still got together and I let him hold me and we laughed and talked as usual. We even continued having sex. But in my head, I knew it was ending and that I was just postponing it. The thing is my boyfriend asked me again and again why I needed to be on a break and the truth is, I couldn't tell him that my feelings were waning for someone else and some other life. Eventually, his questions nagged me to the point that I NEEDED to break it off. So what you CAN do is cool it. Call every once and a while, wait for her to make the move. Except.. if you really can't stand it, that's understandable of course.
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well actually, he's on a planned vacation right now that he told me about before we ever got together. He's planning to come back at the end of july. I just wish he'd contact me more. We're both going away for college soon so we can't really start a relationship but just "hooking up" with someone like him.. makes my heart hurt. I guess I'm just wondering if any part of him cares like I do.
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I think you can. This guy I'd never given much attention to moved away and we started talking online and on the phone. When he came back, we were together every night for the week he was here. He left, but he's coming back, and I've never felt more in love. But I think it may just be infatuation. We really didn't get to know each other THAT well and didn't have too much time alone. Plus, at least your guy is calling--mine rarely did it. But he's like that... so nonchalant and independent. Maybe I'm just drawn to him rather than in love. Good luck with everything though because long distance love will eat away at you. I already feel like I'm empty inside.
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Hi there! I'm new to this board. But anyway, recently I broke up with my boyfriend because of this whirlwind relationship I got thrown into with a guy who used to live, just moved to CT, and is visiting throughout the summer. The problem is, he's very hot and cold. One minute, he'll be touching me and asking me things and smiling at me; the next, he'll ignore me, he'll seem spaced out, and unattentive. But I've never been with anyone like him. I'm addicted already even though I know his hot and cold behavior will drive me insane. He just visited for a week and left for two weeks and I've received no calls from him or anything. It's only been three days... but I'm obsessing over it. He sent me a text message once saying that he wanted to see me--about two weeks ago and I was thinking of sending him a similar message soon. Good idea? Bad? Or am I too clingy? Or should I just get my feelings out there so we can no ahead of time if there is really anything between us?