mademoiselle_amelie

Thanks for all the replies. yep I've tried it all. Oh and I do know I've almost been there ... I get to this immense state of pleasure but then there is no release.... I think I may have to try the vibrator idea. ...and yes maybe swallow my pride and see a doctor I don't have a partner at the moment...I am casually seeing someone but we haven't slept together yet. Sex is already fun for me...I mean I love it!! It has nothing to do with not feeling pleasure or not enjoying sex... So i can only imagine how good it would be if I could actually orgasm! Is there anyone lese out there who also has never had an orgasm or finds it difficult to orgasm?

show off those pretty eyes! if you like it long then why not grow it long enough so you can tuck behind your ears? doesnt it feel annoying having hair in your eyes anyway?

I have a NEVER had an orgasm. Although I really enjoy sex and have had two long term relationships (ie lots of practice!) i never quite get there. Sometimes I will be so close and then the feeling suddenly disappears! I have tried masturbating but this does nothing, I have tried every sex position imaginable... Could there be some medical condition causing this? Why can't I orgasm?

thanks Ilse, yeah it makes it hard to analyse because we weren't in a serious relationship when we parted. We had only known each other for a week! When we chat on msn he always initiates the convo.He always says hi as soon as he goes online. We havent written many emails , i was the first to write one to him and he just replied. Since then we have always chatted on messenger before having a chance to write. I chatted to him tonight for an hour. He is still talking about visiting me in January at the latest which is good. He goes to London tomorrow night . I am feeling positive, but I just have to remind myself not to take it all too serioiusly yet. I have to be ok if things dont work out. He will have a new number next week so i will be able to call him - that will be good, Thanks for all the advice! I will keep you updated

Thanks guys. My problem is that I am very impatient i guess! I always want to know what the outcome is going to be! I have been good at not acting desperate .... have only emailed him twice and chatted to him on messenger twice. Do you guys think that when i email him i should be cheeky and flirty or keep it very cool? You see he couldn't believe that i liked him and although i want to be cool calm and collected i still do want him to know that I like him very much! He kept saying to me that he thought that wehn i got home i would meet someone new and forget all about him.

Hello Not sure if this is under the right topic ...but... I met this fabulous guy while i was travelling through Europe. I met him in the last week of my trip and we spent an amazing week together. I won't go as far as saying we fell in love, but we both felt pretty strongly about seeing each other again and we talked about this alot. He hasn't had a girlfriend in 3 years and told me I am the first girl he's like in a long time. His friend also told me this. We are both from Australia but different states. I had to go home after that week and he continued his travels. He i settling in London for a couple of months next week to work before coming home over xmas/new year. I have exchanged a few emails with him and had a couple of chats with him on messenger. He seems really keen to come and visit me when he returns to Australia. I am also going to work in London next year (he will be returning there too). After that we'll see what happens. I really want this to work out though! My dilemma is: I know that he is travelling and when you travel you meet lots of people and you kind of forget everything back home. You seem to live for the moment when you travel...i know...I did it for 5mths How do I keep him interested when my only means of contact is email? I know he likes me , but that one week seems like years ago now (it was a month ago) ... am I crazy for thinking this could work? I really like him!! Thanks For Reading!!

What are you worried about? 8inches in a good size! Don't go all porn star on us. Just remember there are alot of girls who are afraid of REALLY big ones anyway. And...... it's not the size of the tool it's what you do with it!

I think maybe she didn't think you would like her back? I think maybe she is scared or nervous? Or maybe all 3 girls lliek you and she doesn't want them to feel hurt? hmmm tricky one! Be patient, you've made your move...she knows you're interested .. the ball's in her court at the moment. If she doesn't end up going out with you don't worry considering you are the new guy in town, you are off to a good start with the ladies!...go gettem!

Well sisterlynch, I think that women don't understand that subtle hints just don't work on men! I guess we try to be nice about the whole thing ...i know it's a misteke. From personal experience, I find that as soon as i tell a guy that i want to be friends, they end up hating me! For me guys either want to be with me in a romantic way or have nothing to do with me!! I envy women who are able to just be friends with a guy.

Oh yes, at 14 you still have alot of growing to do. Don't worry! There is no "perfects" size... as akekasong said, i guess it should be in proportion to your body...although that is not always the case. Some really big guys don't have big penises and some small guys have surprisingly large ones! Did you know that girls also have different size vaginas? Bet you never thought of that one!

hi ayekasong though i have never experienced this myself whilst being on the pill, i still think it could be quite possible to have an irregular period if you have had a change in your daily routine, lost weight etc. It is all just hormones after all. I would get a check up at the doctor just to be on the safe side. I'm sure it's nothing too serious.

Hi! Ok, I would start by just saying hi and smiling whenever you see him in class. This will break the ice and let him know that you are friendly and interested. As Punk mentioned, from there you can start bringing in other simple stuff like stuff that sgoing on in class, tests, assignment etc. Maybe this could lead to a stuy date?! Keep up the subtle hints and I'm sure that if he is interested he will start trying to talk to you more aswell. Hope it all works out! amelie x

Hi Ducky Are you sure this girl likes you? It is normal to be shy, but if she is going out of her way to avoid you, then this isn't usually a sign that a girl is interested! Maybe you should try and talk to one of her friends and ask about her - if they know if she's interested, has a bf etc? I think this will be your best way of finding out for sure...especially i she is really shy. Good uck!

Being on top is your chance to do what makes you feel good. You control the rhythm and the depth. You can go as slow as you want...especially if you get tired...yes...try different angels and movements...experiment with a few different moves until it feels good. And trust me, being on top is the best way to find out what feels good! Just out of interest, how do other sexual positions make you feel? Is it just being on top that is a problem?

Hi There! Are you sure there is nothing that you did to hurt him? He can't posibly be angry for no reason? If he won't talk about it, then there is not much chance of having a happy relationship.... hmm.... How long have you been together?