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I don't like the word "chemistry" because it makes its sound that love is just is a creation of chemicals and different things in our brain and body. Love is so much more than that. Its something that goes beyond reason and sex. Only humans pair up for non sexual reasons. Its beyond breeding...its about adoration of someone, appreciation of someone, dreaming together, being one together.....love is much more than what some evolutionary biologists try to make it out to be. We are not just breeding animals....we are lovers, we are huggers, we care for each other, we protect each other.......chemistry is not true love. When you find true love you will know, but sometimes its worth waiting for.

I was really impressed that the whole poem rhymed. line to line. Thats take a lot of talent, creativity, and effort. Sometimes when people make unrhymed poems they just rant mindlessly.....some people I know sometimes write poems filled with swearing and nonsense.... Ryhyme is beautiful. I appreciate it!

Thats a really great question!!! One thing that will get you through ANY presentation is SMILING. Smile all the way through it, and people will have no reason to critize you no matter how bad you do. Just like Tony Blair, a lot of what he says is nonsense but he always smiles and atleast it looks good on camera. I am sure if Blair can look that good, so can YOU.

Being a girl has its own problems. I just watched a documentary on girls bullying each other in school and it was quite graphic and disturbing what some girls can do. Girls can be just as mean as guys, and one girl was even driven to suicide in the documentary. People of every gender can be screwed up, or really nice too. Life isn't fair, but you just have to make the most of what you have.

Lickthelightbulb, Do you think that guys of any age could impress girls by learning poetry or shakespear?? JUst wondering...

Here is a mini survey...... How many people have you been on a date before? How many people have you kissed before? (excluding family members) How many boyfriends / girlfriends have you have before?

--i am close friends with a girl named Shirlene, and have been for 2 years, and i have been the one pursuing the relationship....though she does too... some people say all guys who want girls as friends as doing for some sexual reason, but i find this claim illogical and unsupported by evidence. All the guys I know at least are friends with girls and have absolutely no sexual interest in them. THey become friends with girls because they want to be comforted, listened to, and want someone fun to be with. This is esp. true when one considers that many of the girls they are friends with are not physically attractive...if their motive was sexual, then they would pursue someone more attractive. But they don't, which shows they want an empathetic and listening friend, regardless of who she is.............. "Interesting replies. I am glad to know that it can exist on a plutonic level through a man's eyes, but how many of you men have had long lasting (over several years) friendships with these women as a result of YOU pursuing the friendship and her not pursuing you to keep the friendship alive? This ought to be interesting...".

Guys can leave one stains on boxers for numerous reasons, even if they have never participated in any sexual activity (exluding masturbation too)....for me I have had it happen. Is just a normal reflex, and there doesn't always have to be a sexual stimulus. Confronting him might lead to an argument. Just keep an eye on him and what girls he talks to

I have become friends with lots of girls, and with most of them I have never even considered sex. Firstly I don't plan on having sex until marrriage, but even so its something I think about very very rarely. I would never become "friends" with a girl just so i could have sex with her. There are many reasons why guys want to be friends with girls, but here I will share just a few of the reasons why I enjoy having many friends as girls. I like the fact that many of the girls are empathetic, understanding, fun, and are willing to give hugs. Being hugged is something really important to me personally. Also, I can be a friend to a girl in ways I can't be a friend to another guy: I can protect her, comfort her, listen to her, and be have a relationship that is close but not sexual.

If you are happy with your boyfriend, why leave him? You will probably never find anyone better than you. There is nothing wrong with being "tired down" to someone. Being stuck with someone you love is wonderful.

i know many people who have played those instruments. I know they must also give very WET kisses too...lOL "brass players such as trombone, trumpet, horn, tuba, like that tend to be good kissers. Trumpet players being the best"

On the internet I have told several girls that I find them "cute" or "attractive" but I don't think i have ever used the word "beautiful"..i think i will reserve taht word for when i find a girlfriend and wife....its for her only.... i have told my mom and sister now and then they "look nice" in something..... but i would never tell a girl she was attractive / cute / beautiful if i didn't really think she was and had feelings for her....

Chocolate chip cookies are aslo good. Esp. if you baked them yourself and they are homemade.. Also even better yet, bring a cake or something to class. This will certainly get attention.

When was the last time somebody (anybody) told you that you are beautiful? Who told you that?

anyway, what is the BEST thing about having an opposite sex friend, not the worst...lol...i know that guys and girls really aren't that different in rudeness...but whatz the BEST thing about having a friend of the opposite sex???

what does "snide" mean?

For me, I think the best thing about being friends with girls is that they are so understanding, fun, empathetic, attentive, honest, open, easy to talk too, and non-judgmental. For everyone here, what is the BEST thing for you about having a friend of the opposite sex?

This is a rul of thumb to determine if a girl is too young for you: Divide you age by 2 and add 7. FOr you, thats age 25. So 25 should be the rough minmum age. For me, its 18.5 (i am 21).....in case that helps

I know its soooooooooooooooo hard when you spend time investing in someone you love and then you find out they are already committed....its happened to me lots and lots of times too...and i am sure it happens to lots of people....there is no reason to feel stupid because its impossible to tell if someone has a boyfriend or girlfriend, unless they tell you. If everyone assumed that everyone else wasn't single, then no body would ever get together. Falling in love always has risks... anyway, i don't know if any one person is "too good" for another. Sometimes the most attractive people are single. But it all depends... ANyway, NEVER ever GIVE up.........

I am friends with a girl I know was physically and emotionally abused repeatedly by her alcholic father. He father is now dead (died a couple of years ago) but she says she still loves him and misses him. I am also friends with a guy who was abused by his father. He hates his father. You even mention his father's name and its like putting a lit match to gasoline. He blows up. WHy is there this difference?

Kalash, i really think you should seriously think travelling far away if you need to get away from your problems. Instead of killing yourself, you could start a new life in a new land....like fly to Canada, or New Zealand...or Norway...wherever you want....you can always start afresh!!!!!!!!! check into a local travel agent rather than checking out of this life

its true that most of the time for letters are recognizable, but not always. If you enough out, sooner or later some one will get one thinking its original....there is nothing wrong with doing that, as long as you are somewhat interested in the person you are sending an email out to....like if you just mindlessly send a letter to everyone thats stupid....but form letters can work, sometimes, though you are right they don't usually work "women can tell when they're just one of a hundred getting the same letter"

Maybe your parents just have a negative impression of your boyfriend, and possibly you could help to change their impression. Talk about him with them. Tell them in everyday conversations how much you like him and how important he is to you. Don't just tell all this in one big fight or rant. Day by day, tell them little bit by little bit all the things that make him great. ANd if you want to see him more, give little reasons now and here on why seeing him more would be beneficial. Or maybe he could come to your house more to see you??? Is that a problem with your parents??????

ya thats a good idea. Just plan the conversation in advance....and find someway to work it in. But how he answers depends on if he has had some negative experiences in the past. Maybe he has, and he might refuse to talk about it...be prepared for that sort of answer. Anyway, why are you interested in finding out about his previous relationships (if he has had any).????? Maybe as you get to know his friends and family they can tell you more about his past. "Don't ask that straight up, work it into a conversation. "

Kalesh, lots of people will grieve for you after you are gone, even if you don't want them to. Also, when you kill yourself you might not go to paradise. Do you really know for certain what will happen to you after you die?? ITs better if you just wait for your problems to pass becuase they will in time. Remember you can always travel far away from your problems and start a new life in another country. That would be a better solution.