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  1. BeenCheated
    If you value your friendship with your mate more than you want to go out woth her, forget about it. It sounds like she is his backup girl.
  2. BeenCheated
    Leave now before it's too late. I'm sure your finacé has a lot of good qualities that you fell in love with, but the fact remains- when someone cheats on you and you take them back, you've only taught them that they can get away with it. The next time she cheats on you, and there WILL BE a next time, it will only be easier for her. Now she knows you'll take her back no matter what. In addition, since she was abused by her father, she'll most likely to be messed up for life (when it comes to relationships with men). I know that sounds cold, but it's true.
  3. BeenCheated
    ...yes, and my appologies to all the unemployed cynics lacking personality too. Let's not get bogged down in being PC here. It was mgirl that started this whole unique thread by stating the obvious: she wants someone who is attractive, funny etc. and preferably has money. My point was, that's what everybody wants, even your poor cousin. The fact that she, your cousin, didn't feel worthy is an entirely different issue.
  4. BeenCheated
    Now we're all curious. What do you want that most people don't?
  5. BeenCheated
    Is this supposed to be something new? That's what everybody wants. When is the last time you saw a personal ad that read: SWF 32 seeks cynical pimple-face with multiple physical disabilities and no personality. Obesity and unemployment is a plus!
  6. BeenCheated
    Forget about trying to last longer for now. Instead, you need to focus on foreplay. Go down on her until she's just about to explode and THEN slip her the wet noodle. Alternatively, if she can have multiple orgasms, go ahead and give her a few orgasms (from going down on her) and then have sex.
  7. BeenCheated
    I highly recomend reading The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living. I picked it up at the airport one day out of curiosity and thought to myself, "this is probably one of those books that talks in circles and never answers the question we've all been waiting for: What is the meaning of life?" But as I turned to the first page, the first sentance read: I believe the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness. Wow! There was the answer, right there on the first page, and the book only gets better and better. The book is not religious at all either. It just talks about the Dalai Lama's philosophies on life with practical examples and applications. The main thing I got out of it that changed my life was to surround your self with people, experiences and things that make you happy and keep away from things that don't make you happy. Simple, huh? It's also important not to compare yourself to others. Good luck in your search.
  8. BeenCheated
    I think you should just ask him why he's been so quiet. Be sure to sound as sweet and loving as possible when you do, so you don't come off suspicoius or accusing.
  9. BeenCheated
    Everybody knows shaving is out, and so is the landing strip. Keep it trimmed, but not shaven.
  10. BeenCheated
    If you want good advice, you'll have to tell us the why you don't like to do it. We can make a lot of assumptions about why, but it won't help unless we know how you feel. annie24 is right. You gotta practice the 3G's.
  11. BeenCheated
    I like it because it's forbidden. I prefer regular sex, but the best orgasm I ever had was from pokin' the brown eye.
  12. BeenCheated
    Pensive, yeah, she was sexual in the beginning, though a little on the selfish side. Ironically, she was kind of like a typical guy. She just wanted to screw and cum without any foreplay or anything else fun. What si your wife like? Does she always have an excuse, or have you quit trying? I've been sleeping in the guestroom for a few weks now, because I can't stand to sleep in our bed anymore. Our bedrrom is a symbol of rejection to me and I can't sllep in there. On the bright side, I sleep a lot better alone.
  13. BeenCheated
    Well, I still haven't cheated, but things haven't changed either. Peanut15, I hear what you're saying about priorities, but the thing that bothers me the most is absolutley EVERYTHING comes before me. She says she's tired, but she always has the energy to sit in front of the computer all night and ignore me. If I ask her a simple question, she growls at me, but when the phone rings, she jumps up and talks to whoever for hours. It's not like she is slaving and working until the minute she goes to bed. Our kid is an angel. He sleeps 12 hours straight every night, and takes 2 naps every day. I help out in the morning before I go to work, and I take over as soon as I get home. Our son is in bed by 18:30 (19:30 at the latest), and we have the rest of the evening to ourselves. She really makes me feal like a ghost, and it's not just the ignoring me either. At our son's first birthday, he got a toy, and the first thing she does is hand it to her brother to put together. HELLO!??!?!?! I'm his father! It's my job to show him how to put things together, and I'm the one who will teach him how to ride a bike and everything else. But I guess that only applies if you exist, which I apparently don't.
  14. BeenCheated
    Get her a dildo that is bigger than your finger but smaller than your manhood. You could also work up to two fingers.
  15. BeenCheated
    My first wife was a saint, at first, but then she turned out to be a cheat of the worst kind. Unfortunately, there is no way to know if someone will cheat on you or not. If you choose a "good" girl, she might get curious and go wild one day. If you choose a wild girl, she might not want to be tied down. My advice is to date around, have a good time and don't try to find someone to marry until you're around 30. Good luck!
  16. BeenCheated
    People are stupid. That's all there is to it.
  17. BeenCheated
    It's okay to break up even if you still love each other. You can't help it if it wasn't meant to be. End it nicely before you drag it out and become enemies.
  18. BeenCheated
    ShroudedSorrow24, you sound like a wise, young man. I hope you can hang on to your positive and hopeful outlook on marriage when you get older. accord_lowrida, I wish I could, but I'm not the type, evne though my thoughts are consumed with cheating lately. peanut15, she has recovered, and she gets plenty of sleep. If she hadn't recovered, why would she want another baby already? As I mentioned, she has energy for EVERYTHING else, but she doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I have to read our webpage to find out what my son has been doing while I'm at work because she won't talk to me when I get home. Well, I doubt I will cheat on her, but I'm through being Mr Nice-guy. I'm not helping around the house anymore- no more massages- no more cooking dinner, buying flowers or anything else nice. I'm just going to come home from work each day, spend time with my son until he goes to bed, then go to sleep myslef. I hate playing these stupid games, but what else can I do?
  19. BeenCheated
    Thank you for your quick replies. I actually have suggested we see a counselor, but she doesn't want to. She thinks counseling is the last thing you do before you get a divorce. I also understand about hormones being out of balance, but for a whole year? As for the priorities, I wish I was second. I would jump for joy if I was even third. It seems she has more time/patience/energy for complete strangers. It's like I don't exist. Do you think I should tell her I think about cheating? Would that wake her up or make things worse?
  20. BeenCheated
    First of all, never tell someone you're dating how many partners you've had. Unless you both say the same number at the same time, it almost never has a happy ending. Secondly, it soulds like he thinks you are, or were, a tramp. Sorry if that was blunt. This is something he'll probably never get over, no matter what note you bring home from the doctor. So my advice is to find someone else, and don't tell him how many partners you've had. Good luck
  21. BeenCheated
    I used to treat my wife like a princess. I bought her flowers all the time, gave her massages practically every night, and whenever I had a little extra money, I would surprise her with something special. I even did the dishes every day ;-) When we were pregnant, I treated her even more special. She was never "in the mood", but that didn't really bother me because I was focused on preparing to be a father. Besides that, she was so greatful for me taking such good care of her, she told me many times how good I would have it (in bed) after we settled in our new roles as parents. It's been a year since our child was born, and our lovelife stinks. We have sex once, maybe twice a month if I'm lucky. I say "sex" because there is no passion. She never wants to kiss, be romantic or have foreplay, she just wants to have sex. She's also selfish in bed. I do anything to please her, but she doesn't care to please me. She is sort of like a stereotypical guy. Then suddenly when she decides it's time for us to have another baby, she wants to have sex every night for a week when the time is ripe, then it's back to nothing. I feel like she is just using me for my sperm. She hardly speeks to me, she just sits in front of the computer all the time. It's like we're strangers. When I want to spend time with her, she says she's too tired, but she always seems to have energy for EVERYTHING else. I feel like I'm her absolute last priority. Actually, I'm not even on the list. I've NEVER cheated on anyone in my whole life. The thought of doing something like that has never even crossed my mind... until now. I fantasize about cheating on her all the time. I'm dieing for affection, but she won't listen to me. What should I do?
  22. BeenCheated
    Cheating is when you do something with someone that you wouldn't do if your partner was there.
  23. BeenCheated
    Give him more time and a lot of space. It could take years before he trusts you again.
  24. BeenCheated
    Her teeter tottering back and forth will only get worse over time. Just dump her and find someone better.
  25. BeenCheated
    Look on the bright side, at least you didn't have any kids.
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