Well, he called --thank God--and we discussed.
I am young in the deployment thing, I am 40 .yo. , twin stepdaughters age 19, and my husband is in his 25th year with NGuard. We talked about the emailing explicitlty before he left and how just a brief response, "can't talk...gotta go" would suffice and that he would have someone there to contact me to tell me he woud have to be incommunicado for X pd of time as it occurred. So, we talked about it tonight and it said there's no excuse and I feel better, just have to see how it goes from here. I, of course, told him how proud I was of him, the mission he is on, etc, so it was good. I want to thank all of you for your input. I hope that our conversation was productive, for him to know that I care and that I do need him, that everything at home is fine and waiting fir him, for me to know that he will try to remind I am not forgotten. Thanks everyone fo input!