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  1. street
    Had some sad news 2day, someone I work closely with has just been diagnosed with cancer(brain tumour) something like that has just made me think how lucky I am, I know im down about having a broken heart but it could be so much worse..at least I have my health.. Sometimes it takes something like this to make u realise how lucky u r sometimes, at least a broken heart can be fixed even if it doesn't feel like It sometimes… Life is too short to be moping over a lost love..life is for living!
  2. street
    Bumped into my ex 2day on the way to work we had a good chat but she was always busy texting someone and laughing(someone was making her laugh), my feelings for her are fading which I find sad but its got to happen. Anyway I just really need to ask her if she is seeing someone else yet…I know its stupid but its something I need to know..perhaps I need to know if it will hurt me as its proplay the only thing that can now… If I do ask how do I go about it…u will all think im mad but perhaps it's the last thing I need to do..i could do it in a friendly way next time i see her, like hey hows it going u seeing anyone else yet? Advice please
  3. street
    ive being trying to figure it out for a while it goes from love to hate and then back to love, now its friendship perhaps...like u said after u have been hurt its hard to still love... looks like im at the last stage of getting over her, just hope i don't fall back as i still have bad days!! take it easy
  4. street
    Saw the ex 2day, god she looked good im still very attracted to her..but other than that I didn't feel a hell of a lot…which I suppose is a good thing..still care for her but love her still now that is a good question…do people believe that u will always love someone??? I did but im not so sure anymore, perhaps u will always be attracted to someone but always love!? Anyway seems like im pretty much healed..she was with her mother who talked to me a lot where as she hardly said a word, in fact she looked pretty miserable..hope she was ok..
  5. street
    i wouldn't dare, just joking about...she doesn't deserve anything so nice as that
  6. street
    that is wicked, i would love to send that to my ex, do u have copyright??
  7. street
    Do you people believe in the saying "theres someone for everyone"?? its just after losing the love of my life I really don't believe theres someone else out there for me, when u think u have found ur soul mate its so hard to imagine theres another one out there somewhere… plus u have to find them, how hard is that going to be.. just rambling as usual, but at least im starting to think about finding someone else, that's progress I suppose! Still hard though..but feeling more positive 2day
  8. street
    that is tough..i would be well cut up over that, even if like u said ur over her... its funny but i know alot of people who do that, split from a long term relationship get in a new one and suddenly 6 months down the line there engaged!!! perhaps its a rebound thing, if my ex did that its been 4 months for me, i would be devastated as we always talked of getting married... i say just carry on living, thats all u can do..i doubt it will last..a rebound thing perhaps??
  9. street
    me and my ex broke up 4 months ago as well....we have stayed in friendly contact but its be mostly me making the effort..she split with me and told me she wanted to be friends but yet shes not making much effort.. well im not making the effort anymore, a friendship is a 2 way thing..if i had a male mate who wasn't contacting me i would not bother with him.. its soo hard after u have been so close with someone to not speak 2 them again but then she chose 2 not have me in her life! i say what ur ex is doing to u is evil, telling u what shes getting up 2 with her new bloke, why would u want to know that... i say cut contact now!! it sounds like she is trying to make u jealous, did u split with her??
  10. street
    i suppose it depends on weather u were on good terms when u split and how u went out.. me and my ex were togther for 4 years so i think we have both struggled with not talking to each other..but at first it was usually me contacting her she was always happy to reply..but now i have left it she doesn't bother much so i guess we didn't really stay friends which is hard..but thats life.. i say just get on with it and when she contacts u decide then if u want to talk to her..it all depends on weather its hampering ur recovery... in my experience they always say lets stay friends, but sometimes i doubt they really mean it
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    hey dexter we have spoke before and we seem to be at similar stages, im like u still friendly with my ex..to be honest i can't even imagine being with anyone else yet so im just staying single...i know eventully we will both be able to start another relationship..don't beat urself up over it just chill and enjoy being single...im starting to understand that u need to be happy with urself before i can commit to someone else.. the way i look at it is i don't want to wreck what could be a great new relationship by starting it when im not ready...so just take ur time theres no rush!!
  12. street
    i know where ur coming from, i trusted my ex but i still used to hate the thought of someone chatting her up and thinking they have a chance, trouble with her she was just too friendly and some blokes read it the wrong way... anyway that wasn't the reason we split up, thats another story.. just block the thoughts out, u trust her so you have no worries about her doing anything, just don't bring it up as it will only make her mad... just feel lucky that u have this girl...things will be ok
  13. street
    Ive been there, when my ex broke up with me I reacted rather strange, trying to contact her all the time, trying to see her..when ur emotions are running high u react strange..don't cut urself up over it..it will pass and u will start to see these more clearly.. Everyone reacts differently..with u, u seem to have a lot of un answered questions and u have every right to get them answered..i gave up with my ex as she never gave me a proper reason for the split and for that I hate her, but the other part of me still loves her….. Just try to calm down and chill abit, its soooo hard though…I wish you luck
  14. street
    This happened to me I was very friendly with this girl, I counted her as one of my closet friends..anyway we got closer and closer and then one day her friend told me she liked me..at first I wasn't sure but when I thought about it I knew I thought of her as more than a friend.. We had a brillant 4 year relationship that just recently ended, but I don't regret a thing…were still friends and I will always class her as my best mate..i say tell him as it worked for me..
  15. street
    ey reborn, we r in a similar position, iv tried being friends with my ex as she was my best friend as well…but its really hampered my getting over her..the trouble is I felt I wanted to stay friends to stop her forgetting about me and to try and win her back…now I know this won't happen.. I know where ur coming from, for the dumper there quite happy to stay friends in fact there getting the best of both worlds, there new life and us as friends..this isn't far on us… Im not making contact with her now, im trying to show abit of self respect to myself…as im sure at the moment shes thinking hes still not over me, and it gives her an ego boost…well im sorry u hurt more than u will ever know and for that im out of ur life!! I get soo angry sometimes… I say we both try to avoid them, lets do it together.!! You will feel proud of urself! I say don't tell him ur ignoring him, don't give him even more power and let him know that ur still not over him, just ignore it or just reply now and again to let him know ur ok.. Theres no set rule to say that u should be over him, im not over my ex, I don't think I truly will till I meet someone else and relise what I know have is so much better..trouble is I can't see it at the moment!!
  16. street
    i say go for it, nothing to lose...if it was as intense as u say it was, im sure he thinks about u as well.... obviously if he hs somone else u will just have to be friends, but nothing wrong with that.. have fun
  17. street
    thanks reborn, it helps alot when people give me encouragement... the only thing left for me now is to enjoy my life, this has made me a stronger and wiser person.. sounds like we both r moving in the right direction, its just sometimes it takes u a while to find that direction.. take care
  18. street
    Well the birthday and what would have been are 4 yr anniversary weekend has passed. I will admit I was pretty low and down for most of it, but 2day I feel as if the last thing that was holding me back has passed. I did call her to wish her happy b'day I think she liked that though she did say that she didn't got my card, dam postal service proplay get it today.. That b'day meal she had sat nite with her family and are friends hurt me, but nothing can hurt me anymore, that chapter of my life has now been closed.. For all the people going threw the early stages of a break up, I feel for you but it does get easier..i never believed that when I was told that, but I now know it does happen…just get on with your life and accept you will get bad days I still do even after nearly 4 months..just think of it as their loss and in the majority of cases you did nothing wrong..the only crime I was guilty of was loving her too much! Keep your chin up!
  19. street
    well its my ex's b'day 2morrow and i have sent her a card through the post, im sure she will phone 2morrow to say thanks.. i felt it was the right thing to do as were on good terms even if i do hate her somtimes for hurting me... the hard thing is she is going out for a meal with her family and are friends, going to be hard not being there, but then im sure she will find it hard too..its at the restaurant we always went to as well!!!
  20. street
    I know where ur coming from, I thought my ex may have been influenced by others saying things like "your too young to settle down, go out and enjoy yourself" it was after a nite out with these friends that she finished and you know what I never got a proper reason..i loved this girl so much and put her first all the time, u know what they don't deserve us nice blokes.. let them get treated like crap by some loser as im sure that will happen to my ex… As for ur holiday I had that as well, we had one booked she never came and I never got the money for it..im kinda friends with my ex, but some days I hate her sooo much!! Anger is good..u will go through many stages!! Its tough about ur mates, trouble with me is I have my mates around but they were hers as well, its made things a little diffulcult at times..we live so close its hard not to bump into them.. No worries about ranting, it helps let me tell u…what about family?? I talked to my family loads and it really helped!!! Take it easy pm me if u need anything, I will glady help another mate
  21. street
    this is a smilar situation to mine, im 25 shes 21, broke up after 4 years.. it seems these days girls panic and suddenly need space to find themselfs.. i let her go out with her mates whenever she wanted, but that never seems good enough..they just need to be single and get it out of there system.. ive been split 3 months now and i know theres no going back... i hope u do if that is what u truly want, i say give her the space she wants..im still mates with my ex but its a hard thing to do..expecially when there out partying all the time like it seems are ex's are. in a way thats what they want so good luck to them..they will soon get bored of it and relise what they have thrown away..by then we would have moved on and found someone else... use this time to go out with ur mates, u have a good time..thats what im doing, its hard at first..i remember what it was like when i first split!! i do not want to go through that again...hang in there..it will sort itself out for the best!
  22. street
    I for one could do with some cheering up, so anyone have any happy stories where they split up with what they thought was the love of their life, got over it and moved on and then found someone else and relised this new relationship is better.. i suppose i just need to know its possible!!!
  23. street
    thanks for that ur right...her loss and all that!! i have alot to offer someone else..just need to keep telling myself that!! i can't lose much more weight pretty skinny anyway, though im starting to put my muscle back on and im also updating my wardrobe so im trying to improve myself which is what u need to do in this situation...thanks for the pep talk!
  24. street
    the talking has to stop its not really helping me recover, once the her b'day is over then i feel i can really start to heal..trouble is my confidence is shot!! i just don't like what i see in the mirror, ive never been the most confident person..but this has taken whatever little confidence i had and thrown it out the window... i have to get back liking myself before i can think about being with someone else
  25. street
    well i found out she is going out for her b'day bash this friday nite, she hasn't invited most of are friends, but not invited me...i thought we were staying mates!! oh well not sure if i would have gone but nice to be invited, im proplay being well too sensitive over this but its how i feel.
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