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  1. street
    ive just split from ex for the second and last time, we were togther 4 years split for 7 months..we were back togther for 5 months...things werent the same, she had changed in those 7 months!! im not saying don't go back as i don't regret anything, but be prepared for the worst, as im going through the break up all over again and it hurts like hell!! it could work, i always felt i had to try again...so perhaps u feel that as well...just make sure u talk....my ex wanted me back when i had someone else and was showing signs of moving on!! she didn't want me but didn't want anyone else to have me!! be carefull, good luck i hope it works out for u!
  2. street
    ive just split from ex for the second and last time, we were togther 4 years split for 7 months..we were back togther for 5 months...things werent the same, she had changed in those 7 months!! im not saying don't go back as i don't regret anything, but be prepared for the worst, as im going through the break up all over again and it hurts like hell!! it could work, i always felt i had to try again...so perhaps u feel that as well...just make sure u talk....my ex wanted me back when i had someone else and was showing signs of moving on!! she didn't want me but didn't want anyone else to have me!! be carefull, good luck i hope it works out for u!
  3. street
    well i was in a relationshipe for 4 years with this girl, we split last year for 7 months(she boke up with me), we both dated other people but managed to get back together in january of this year... i had what everyone wanted a second chance, well it last 5 months but this weekend it finished again... this time it was partly me, she wasn't making me happy, i still love her loads but i always had the feelin that she didn't quite have the same amount of love for me, i confronted her and she admited that though she loved me only really saw me as a friend!! now i was crushed...but since yesterday im feeling so much better(nothing like last time) i know now this is for the best and i was preparing myself for it...unlike last time when it was out of the blue!!! im finally feel healed and ready to move on... what im trying to say is perhaps it is never the same, i don't doubt people get back and make it work, but im just saying that it also doesn't.. people hang in there, i am!!
  4. street
    cheers guys, i think i have just have to relax abit and enjoy being with her.. it wouldn't make sense her cheating, why get back with me and cheat on me, plus she is so against it!! will keep u posted!
  5. street
    Me and my girlfriend have been back together 3 months now after a 7 month split. Things are going great between us when were toghether but when were not im struggling to trust her. She never cheated on me when were together b4 and she never ended it between us 7 months ago for someone else. We both had relationships in the 7 months. Why do I get this feelin she is still seeing him? I hate not trusting her. But its things like secret text messages or phone calls. Also she was meant to be staying round her friends house last nite but when I drove past her car wasn't there!! I have confronted her but she just flips and says I can't believe u think I would do this to u.. it doesn't make sense why get back with someone and then cheat on them!! We haven't slept togther again since were back together as we both agreed to take it slow, perhaps that makes me wonder if she is sleeping with someone else. I can't keep bringing this up but its driving me crazy. The only thing left to do is spy on her which I don't want to do… Am I being paranoid?? Shall I finish it? I don't want to lose her again but if u can't trust someone then what hope is there???
  6. street
    she didn't come back because of guilt. came back as she loved me and couldn't imagine being with anyone else..her words!! we shall just see what happens, though like u said im preparing for the worst and at least i will then know it wasn't meant to be! lets see how are weekend away goes, that will be a good indication of things to come!
  7. street
    Well ive been back with my girlfriend 2 months now, things r going ok but she just seems soo unhappy..we were apart for 7 months and we both had relationships in that time…hers was with a right loser who by the looks of it has left a lasting effect!! She has had a rough time of it, what with that relationship, her granddad dieing and work has been getting her down…I thought us back together would suddenly make all that go away..well it hasn't…am I just being insecure as it was her that broke us off all those months ago…I have talked to her and she says its not me and she really wants to be with me, loves me etc… But I can't help feeling its me…I hate feeling like this and im seriously doubting this is going to work..can people get back and make it work…perhaps she feels guilty about the pain she put me through..or perhaps shes still seeing him!!! I cant keep talking to her about it as it will just make her mad… Should I just weather the storm, were away this weekend so perhaps I should see how that goes!!
  8. street
    im 26 shes 21, we split because she was abit bored with r situation, stuck in a rut i suppose..there was never any doubt that she loved me... guess she needed to see what else was out there, and in a way so did i.. we got back as we still loved each other..it just kinda fell into place and happened naturaly.. i don't doubt it will work, just the going slow is hard as i want to see her all the time, but i know were not ready for that yet... its like starting a new relationship but already having the strong feelings! its not easy but it feels right. i never gave up hope but i didn't put my life on hold either, i was dating someone else, who was great but i guess my heart was never really in it!! it can happen, i never pressured her and no one else did either..
  9. street
    After 7 months of split me and the ex are back together, we both have had a relationship in the break but I guess are hearts weren't in it…it was her who broke up with me after 4 years..im over the moon were back together but at the same time im scared as hell, scared that she could do it again?? Who knows… it feels very right were taking it slow just going out on dates a couple of times a week, which is great fun…I don't know its only been a few weeks but theres something niggling at me and I don't really know what it is…im sure it will go away once were back into it full steam, but for the moment I hate this feeling…I think it is the worry of losing her again as im not sure I could go through it again!! As she split from me im letting her make most of the effort as I guess she has to show me shes serious which shes doing very well, I suppose she now knows what its like to be without me so im sure she won't let it happen again… Can couples get back together and make it work??
  10. street
    hey senna me and u r in the same position, im back with my ex after a 7 month break, she had someone else as well... just wondered how ur finding it, were taking it slow..going on dates etc..it seems to be going well.. do u have that niggling doubt that she might do it again...i know this will go away eventully but its hard to have that in the back of mind.. this is what i want and i know it will work, but its tough feelinjg like this sometimes... would be interested to know how ur going with it..
  11. street
    Determined, For the few months I did the begging and kept in constant contact, but then I stopped contact for a few months and that worked, she couldn't handle it…and so for the last couple of months we have been in contact and I guess its gradually been building up to getting back together… The only advice I can give u is cut contact, let her miss u..it worked for me…I know its so hard to do but also go out with mates and try to enjoy urself..chat to other girls u don't have to do anything else…I even started seeing someone else…though my heart was never in it fully it was good to have a female mate, as long as ur straight with them from the beginning…and the best thing I found I talking to people, don't bottle it up inside!! Hope it works out for u, the saying if its meant to be it will be was one I never believed but now I do! Pm if u need more help
  12. street
    yep i have just got back with my ex after exactly that, we were split for 7 months. she found someone else 2 months afer we split and up till last week was still with him..she split with me by the way though she told me she has wanted us back together since day one really, guess she was just checking what the other side of the fence looked like... it does happen, but u have to get on with life i was even seeing someone else as well though my heart was always with my ex!! im abit nervous but it does feel very right!! there is hope!
  13. street
    Well im back on this site, so I guess things aren't going too well…its been 6 months since my girlfriend of 4 years split up with me..ive come along way since then…shes with someone else but doesn't seem happy but hey that's not my problem…ive done the no contact rule for the last few months but recently we have been speaking a lot…I think that's why my head is screwed up again…all these mixed signals aren't helping me!! It was my b'day a couple of weeks ago and she got me a present and I even got cards from most of her family how twisted is that… Also I have been seeing a great girl but the trouble is my heart just isn't in it…don't think im fully over the ex..ive told this girl the situation and she is happy to be friends for the moment..which is really all I can offer her.. Theres no question to this post really but im wondering if I will ever be ready for another relationship?! Its been 6 months now, the love is dying but is still there for now! thanks
  14. street
    Well its 6 months since the ex dumped me and im feeling a lot better, I have even meet someone I like. I have got her number and text her a few times just general chit chat, anyway I want to ask her out but im scared of rejection. I do not need more rejection a this present time, im finally feeling better!! I meet this girl for the first time about 6 years ago and I know she fancied me then but I was happy being single. She may still like me so what shall I do?? We had a wicked time in a club the other nite, there were other people there but we seemed to spend most of the nite together. I don't think she is seeing anyone else. Advice please
  15. street
    looks like were in the same boat, she was contacting me through my work email which i couldn't change, but i did change my number... some how she got it though, so she must have gone to great lengths to find it out... ur right she doesn't know what she wants so she was happy to keep me there for when she decided, well i made that decision for her!! i wouldn't be surprised if in a months time, she is back again..but at least if she is i know she is serious this time and knows what she wants... and by then i will know what i want and it won't be her!!! hang in there cheers
  16. street
    yeh ur right, were 2 different people now...i know you do hear the odd story about people getting back together but i think once you have split up its for good!! or at least treat it like that... one day who knows we may cross paths again.. im going to make sure i enjoy finding miss right!!!
  17. street
    to be honest, im moving on and i feel shes not...i know she has someone else but to be saying that to me doesn't make sense.. perhaps she is on a rebound who knows...i still care for her and want her to be happy, but thats his job now not mine... i think i have been too nice to her all through this...as when someone tells you they don't want you in their life anymore it hurts im happy being single for the moment, don't want to rush into anything..not quite ready yet...i think im doing things the right way wheres her im not so sure hey im only 25!! still young
  18. street
    thankyou so much that really means alot, i know i have done the right thing but its still hard... deep down i think i thought we could get back together and it would go back to what it was when we were happy, but i know that could have never happened... just got to get myself happy, i know i can do it.. ur right i think she was thinking " i don't want him , but i don't want anyone else to have him" thats so selfish... her true colours are coming out!!! thanks for listening
  19. street
    ur doing great if u ask me, im in a similar situation i had that drunken message after 5 months, and it does send u back..after 5 months i feel like im back at square one... ur right after the first few months the healing does seem to slow down, i still think about my ex often, i feel love, anger and even hatred... but i know one day soon i won't think about her...the best thing u can do is no contact it reallt does work!!! she also shares my friends but i have managed to stay away from her, my mates understand and after they have seen how she has treated me have sided with me... just keep ur chin up!!
  20. street
    After all these mixed messages from my ex, (the emails and voice messages of how much she loved me, even though she is with someone else) I finally told her to leave me alone!!! She has agreed….she wasn't being fair to me..she never said she wanted me back just said I don't know and yet all the time was still seeing the new boyfriend and making holiday plans with him! Im not being second best to him!!! I have to look after number one and after 5 months of split I was not being allowed to move on…I think she wanted to keep me on the end of that string!!! So I have thought of myself for once and I believe I have done the right thing, trouble is why do I feel so bad!!! Also if she is with someone else and happy and in love why does she even have to think about me and tell me these things!!! We did go out for 4 years but she broke it off and it has been 5 months! At least now I can move on trouble is I feel as if we have split again!! Perhaps I thought she was coming back to me, but to be honest I think she was just playing games!!!
  21. street
    thanks people, its just she broke it off so i think she should be the one 2 suggest getting abck together, i don't want to chase her like i did when we first broke up.. will let her do the running for now..will keep u posted
  22. street
    i do still love her, i could trust her.. she hasn't said she wants back in, i think she is still with this other bloke.. im just going to let her do the chasing and see where it goes..its because i have backed off and have shown im moving on that she is scared of losing me.. i don't want her as a friend.. will keep u posted
  23. street
    After 5 months of being broken up after a 4 year relationship my ex I think is having regrets. It was her who broke up and she has even being seeing someone else for the last few months. The last month has been no contact until she emailed me last week..saying how much she misses me etc.. This put me in a spin, but I tried to ignore it as I was doing so well at moving on, anyway sat nite she phoned and left a drunken message on my answer phone saying how much she misses me and loves me!!! Im being dragged back into the despair that I was in, I do still love her but im not sure we could get back together and im not sure that is what she wants.. What does she want from me?? I asked her this last week and she says she doesn't know!! Im just going to ignore her I think and carry on moving on..but that love is still there and part of me still wants her!!!
  24. street
    my first reaction was to reply, but im holding out... some of her words were, "havent spoke in while and it seems like a lifetime" of course i have missed her and part of me still loves her and wants her back, but im not sure i could go through this again...also like people have said shes found out there is no one better out there and wants to come back, thats assuming she does...i would be a fool..but love does strange things to a man!!! will not reply yet, see if something else happens
  25. street
    well ive been split from the ex for 5 months now, she has someone else which im over now... well ive heard from one of her friends, that the new relationship isn't going well, she regrets finishing with me and misses me...i didn't read much into this... anyway we havent had contact for a month and im soo much better...until 2day when she emails me asking how i am...what do i do shall i reply or ignore her...why is she emailing me?? for those that don't know my story she finished with me after a 4 year relationship... advice please.
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