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Wasup Warpten ! [At last a normal name without any - "lonecar5677"] I agree with WX , just go for the girl. Go to a park or places when you talk and not sit your 2 hours and go home. Her sister may get angry at you and chage her position about her friendship with you. So be in the new and see whats going on. Tell her that you like her sister and you are not a bad guy, and you just want to have fun, nothing else. About be more talkative in a group, its hard very hard. I'm like you , cant just find my self talking and always quite. Thats what I did. You need to follow that they are saiying. In general its 2 people debating and others say their things about the subject. All you need to do is to wait to a momment when ther is a 2 seconds silence, and just comment about the subject, give your own opinion or to agree with one of the debaters. Then you are on the side of the debator and he will "make" you as your pal. And futher he will give you space to talk, and will not have to seek for those 2 secons to "enter" your self to the confersation. If you can just "throw" yourself to the sea and talk with people , try. But have something to say that is relevant and interesting. Becasue you may appear stupid and thats not good. You will be marked with an X , as "dont listen to him, he is a joke". Good luck and SMILE !
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Wasup Sportfan ! About the first question. Shy people do the same but less and with less confident. They smile back but for less time. Whn they pass the person they like , they look down or to the side just not to catch the persons eyes. They just need alot more time. When they would feel that the "danger" is gone. That leads me to the second question. After knowing a person for half a year, they became less shy and are more confident. BUT they wont be confiden when its about love/date relationship, becasue it will still be a problem for them. The third question, OF course he/she is talkative with friends. But dont mix strangers and work. If you will be in a room with 100 people and you know that if you wont make 10 friends , in one hour, you will die. TRUST me you will be the opposite of shy. So at work , its their job , so it doesnt count. I think it would be hard for a shy person to be talkative and give signs of liking. Lets say I really like the girl that entered my store [i'm shy] and I talk like a super salesman, but I wont be able to comment that she is preaty and would she like to go for a coffie. Remember you ar still shy........... The work pushes you to talk , but you cant jump over your head. I hope I cleared a little the questions..... Brujeria.
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is there anyone that had sex @ a young age and doesnt regret
Yahko replied to EmptySoul's topic in Sex and Romance
Wasup ! My brother had sex at age 12. He didnt regreat it. So its how you look at it. As experience or as a religious sin. "Summer In The City" -
Wasup Snow ! DONT WAIT FOR REPLYS !!! Never wait for something. Its like wating for a girl to call you, so you sit next to the phone and look at it !!! Never do that. You will get too much fustrated...... Its a waist of time. if you need to receive a call from some one that is really important , AND you know he is going to call ! So here you can wait. But other wise if you "think" tha girl will call you or your friend will sent you an e-mail , dont waist your time. Becasue my best friend sends me an e-mail one a month, AND he have PLENTY to tell but....... dont wait !!
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Wasup Anna ! I can tell you that, he is trying to express him self in a diferent way , other than regular "I really like you..... " So he is trying to bring it throught silly stuff. Maybe he is not old enought to do it the regular way..... But tell him the same stuff , when he tells you "Your so nice and cute" Tell - "You too , little guy........." and punch him a little on his hand....... So basically he will see that you like him back and you not afraid to do "silly" stuff too....
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Wasup Racer ! As Learning said , be her best of the best friends. Let her cry on your shoulder how much she want. Be next to her more as you can. So she would see that you care about her and you are real gentelman. And [This is the best part!] when she would feel lonely and the bed is cold, she would go to you and say "Take me!" Trust me, the best time to get ladys heart is after she break up with her BF, and you are "replaceing" the ex ...... Good Luck.......^_^
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Wasup Bunni ! You will need to give me more information about him.[How long he looks st you, does he ask you questions about the lesson, try to borrow your book , pen....etc ] He may look at you at class becasue he just want to look at you. Many times I looked at girls at my class that i dont like but I could look at them 1 minute strait. And they got nervious , but it wasnt "real". If you sparr with each other, after the training ask him if he would like to go for a movie with you ? THe worst thing he can tell you is "No, I'm busy!" So you will clear your mind and know that he doesnt like you. Open your eyes and just watch.........
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Wasup Togepy! Lets say you go out for a shopping "voyage". You just go from store to store , she would find stuff for her , you find stuff for you. Comment on each other choises, good or bad. Talk about school, movies, something you both love/hate. Tell her about funny thing happened with you at work/school/home/store. Every time she talk about her self , try to connect your ideas with hers. Lets say she is talking about her sister. So you talk about your sister/brother too. Thats what I always do. I continue her idea and its quite nice because you know her and she knows you... "What time is?" - "1:06!"
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Wasup Colls ! I'm chatting with one girl over the Yahoo MSN, every day. And many times i writte something and she is not answering for 5 minutes, and then I ask - "R U DER?" ,And she says "yea". You basically sitting in the AIM to chat, she , in your case he. Are just doing stuff over the internet, and by the way sitting in the AIM. I hate when they do it. You wanna chat. CHAT. You dont , so dont sit in the AIM. He is probably busy.....If I wont want to talk with someone , I just turn of the messanger or say "I need to go , bye". So..... Next time, wait till he will send you a message first , then you will know for sure if he want to talk with you. And tell him "Last night , you were busy. I hope to talk with you today , I really like to chat with you , you are nice...bla bla bla. Trust me If he will not want to talk to you. YOU will notice. ! No answers for months from him over the messanger......You get the point.... See ya !
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Wasup Smiles ! I didnt the same "game" in Yahoo MSN, Every day I sent a smiley to this girl and a hi. Only once she said hi to me, first. So he want you back, by sending those messages. And you start to wonder , why this time he is not sending. He is testing you. I did the same, and i see that she never replied to me. So.....it bothers you a little why he is not answering. Maybe he is just giving up...........I dont know....
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WASUP Lipstick ! basically , he doesnt care that you are white , Right ? Its his friends and family. I can tell you that people from Africa dont like white people "enter" their comunity. THey like to stay black ! If you will have children they will be half white , etc...... I think, that you need to talk about that with him, Does he have problem that you are white, if not. Just keep dating him , and dont listen to his friends. If he have a problem with that , becasue his guys are teasing him. Tell him that you like him and you want him, but you fell not comfortable around them. OR he will ask his buddies to act good with you, or that you will not go out with him when he is with them. Give them more time to "absorb" you as part of them, it will take time, but then you would see that they will like you and wont have problem with you that you are white. [bTW : where do you live ?] I know that , When living in Israel , the locals didnt acsept Russians at all. Now you see how they mix up with each other. Just give it a little time [in my case it was about 8 years, but dont worry] Luck and ****.
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Wasup eNotalone people ! I have a question , and you may help me. Me and one girl kinda were getting closer and closer. In night school, over the telephone, chat. We went out together [not alone] couple of times. So basically when I asked her if she would like to come to see a movie, she was surprised and asked - "DATE ?" I dont know how to respond to this question and said , "Yea.....". After that conversation she said that she cant be my girlfriend and that she would like to stay friends. But since then [1 month] she is denying me in every posible way [no answers to e-mails, messages] when i talk to her over the phone , she doesnt seem to keep the conversation going and says "Ok, so....see ya around.....bye...." I asked her to come with me to a movie, festivals and so on. [And i put my acsent on that we are friends and not a "date" stuff] She all the time says , "wow cool, but I think I'll be busy......." [AND I KNOW SHE IS NOT BUSY !!!!] One girl she said [when I wasnt around] that she is so bored at home and she is a couch potato and she want to go out. So basically I dont know , if after that "date" how she called it, she is mad at me that I wanted her as a gf and not as a friend, and now she is cutting connections with me and denying me. Thanks for the help, stay smooth and smile ! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [You dont know what Icon sutse me, trust me , after seeing my real Icon you will want this one back.....hahahahah] Thanks again, and i'll see what she would do when we meet at school again. Maybe she would change a little.....who knows , if not.....better for me.....Becasue she is faiding away time to time.
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WASUP Daddy ! THats good you have her number, thats a progress already. I think that you exchanged numbers becasue of the fact that you would call each other. So call her 2 days after you had her pgone number, And just call and ask "Hi Crisy, Its John [if she would remember your name and respond positively , thats good] There is a "dance" coming soon at school, would you like to go with me ?" She can say only 2 options, Yes or a No. So just call becsaue you want to go with HER to a dance. If you talked and knew each other a little bit , thats okai. If she like you she would respond positive, otherwise..... Good luck !
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Its a very non-regulat way to do , but try , it wont hurt. You sit next to each other naked , and mustubate "on each" other. WITHOUT any phisical touch from both sides. THese are the rules. So you watch each other how she/he enjoy sex, and you enjoy becasue you partner enjoys. But you dont have any physical conection. Mind , cool isnt it. Aks your guy , and I think he may like it.... Try it !
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Confused about different kinds of pleasure.
Yahko replied to ConfusedLonely's topic in Sex and Romance
WASUP ! So when you watch tv , or fanetesize, put the vibrator in. And slowly make your way throught your fantasie. Combine the 2 together. As you said that it make you more *AHHH* then watching.....So act dont just sit there , operate ! As a guy , i dont know how is it posible not to have an orgasm. But even me , while musturbating many times you just pass time or just want to sleep well. Some times, maybe 3 time a month I have a really good one. So basically the same with you. Dont start to *you know* unless you really FEEL hot and you cant conltrol your self. The same minute grab your vibrator or your hand and do it as soon as posible. Trust me you will get a grat one. But do it slowly.....dont rush...... Gently....... Hardcore dont work here.... See you around, Confused & Lonely [i dont like the lonely , becasue You are not alone........ ] -
MAN , its my damn story. That happened exactly with me, and yeah I'm going to see her soon at school too. To tell you the truth , I'm loosing interest about her each and every week that passes. As soon as you will forget her, another female character will enter your life [somehow , I can say how]. Trust me ! And you would go after her. Just let it go. [My heart was so broken that I just was cring at nights before going to sleep.] Let it go .......[sorry......]
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Wasup ! If they are strickt , YOU dont want to meet them. Trust me ! I dont know how old are you , but just go after school to some park or a mall , and she would say her parents that she went with her girls from school. But plan it carefuly , so the girls will answer the cell and say , "Yes we are with her !" Bla bla bla....
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Dating, ok. But if it will reach sex, you may be introuble. Becasue if someone will know about it , seconds after you will be charged with rape, even if she would say no, and she did it becasue she wanted too. So, i dont know date , but be careful.
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very stupid small question...but anyone have a minute?
Yahko replied to smiles314's topic in Getting Back Together
Wasup Smile ! As a guy , If i'll get drunk with a girl. i'll try my 101 % to have sex with her! If i say to a girl [and thats what i did] "Lets go to a Beer Festeval, or lets go drink some beer" My intention here , is just to be more relaxed and free and just know her better. But if I'll say lets drink [especialy after 20:00] the intention here is more likly to have sex. Becasue i know that girls that are drunk , take their bras like nothing and alow to touch them , and it will end in sex after all. So I may wonder that he dont just want to have moody time with you after couple beers. [Girls loose their mind when they are drunk , and its easy to please them to have sex.][Especialy , as you said, that you hadnt been drunk before, so you dont know how to act when you drunk, it may be risky. Because I know girls that drink Vodka evey week, and they "sober" with thir acts even when they are dead drunk , but you for the first time , you dont know your self after 0.05 % in your blood] -
All the signes she give you. Its a "friends" signals. Only friends act like this. So she probably consider you as a friend and not as a posibility for a BF. So you may ask her, if is it posible to be gf and bf, but then she would say "Stop it, get over it!" So basically she want you as a friend and not as a bf.
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Race ! She is hot on you ! She as you ,just cant aproach you and say "Hi , you look good, would you like to go for a movie ?" So basically , you need to be alone. i think that you would be nurveous aproaching her while your friend is around. Same with her. Look at her, smile. Nod with your head. Silent moves. So do everything you can , to talk to hor alone after the training. EVERYTHING. Try to look at in her eyes 3-4 seconds.....without looking aside. Thats very important...... she will defenetly understand that you like her. Make any thing you can to talk to her alone.
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Wasup man ! I dont want to be rude, but she is a B*. Playing around, keep you on a string, and just play with you. Hang around with oter guys.... She just like attention, and she know how to receive it from you... And other guys..... Maybe i'm wrong, but thats how it looks like from your story. Forget about her, she is not loyal.
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Wasup Don ! Let me see........ First of all , its your dress. Outgoing girls like nice dressed up guys. Your t shirt your pants, and the most important is the shoes ! If you are just not out going , becasue you never did this before , so just go out with the guys to disco , bubs , bars..... All you need is to speak with more girls , no matter where , in the store , bus , gym , school , every where.... Just ask "Nice weather today , isnt it...... /Bad weather today , isnt it...?" Just talk about life, and girls like it as guys do...... Just talk more, thats it......
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Just come stariat to her and say "HI !, how are you ? i see you are doing well on ice." You know keep the conversation going on...Just swalow hard and just aproach her..... I dont know, I need to think about that stuff a little more time.
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So I can consider my self Most Luckiest Guy in the world, becasue the Radio works 24/7 at my work place ! Every second I have I sing,dance,scream the lyrics lowed so everybody hear.... Especialy I cant listen to calm music, I need power and noize ! Then you really feel good. Every body and his stuff ! Its really truth that music make you less stressful.........Try it.