Warpten

Hey thanks everyone! You all make really good points about this. You are right, I'm not going to get anywhere not asking her out, and if she says no, oh well! There are alot of other people out there! And as for my age, I'm in high school. Thanks for all the help everyone!

Hey, I haven't posted here for a while, but now I have a huge problem!! (and it still has to do with someone i posted about months ago) Alright, there is this girl who I really like. More than anyone I've ever liked before. I always think about her, and I'm just crazy about her! I don't really talk to her that much, because I am afraid of annoying her, because she knows that I like her. So I don't want to look totally stupid when I try make convorsation... And I haven't asked her out, because if she said no, I don't know what I would do. I would like be forever depressed! What should I do? I don't wanna risk getting shut down...

Hey everyone, I was shy, I posted about it too , haha but since school has started I forced myself to change, and I gotta tell you, it works! I am taking baby steps of course, not just a full blown change. I think with shy people, they are worried about looking stupid, but really, if you were less shy, you would sound just like everyone else, and they don't sound too stupid. I'm not a totally outgoing, constant talking, center of attentention kind of person though either. I'm still building up to being less shy. People will listen to what you have to say, not just ignore you and think of you as a nuesense (which is what I used to think they would). Trust me, it IS possible, I was worse than alot of people here for my shyness, but now its getting better. Just hang in there, and try to stay confident! If you slowly try to become braver, it'll all work out!

Hey hey, alright, I have one or two dilemmas here! haha okay... First of all, I like this girl (who i posted about before) and she might know that I like her, because she is acting a little bit different than before. (not as open to me as before) It hasn't gotten to bad, but what should I do? Tell her, or just keep talking to her like always! Second of all, which complicates the first matter, she has just started dating someone who is a druggy. I don't think she knows he does drugs either. I know that he will just end up hurting her in the end, because all he wants is to get through all the bases with a girl, and if she refuses he'll dump her... I don't know how to tell her about this, because if she know I like her, she'll just think I am trying to break them up so I could date her, and won't listen to me... What should I do!? I really don't want her to get hurt! Thanks for all the help everyone!

With me its weird... If someone talks to me, or is open with me, it totally becomes easy to talk with them! If they break the ice then I'm fine. It doesn't make sense. Lol. (Sorry that wasn't any help)

Haha thanks. That helps alot. As for that girl, the movie really is the only thing we can do here! Its sad, there isn't even a park here, and the bowling alley.... well that place is just horrible here. Its just weird here, everything you'd expect doesn't happen here. But you are all right, I gotta just ignore them, and do what I want! Haha, still, more advice would be appreciated too! (not that the stuff i got already isn't great ) Thanks again!

First of all, there is this girl I like, who is the sister to my friend (who is also a girl). But my friend gets mad when I talk to her sister... Anyway, this girl is two years younger than me, and if I was to ask her out, everyone in my grade would think it was "weird". It would be hard to do anything with her either, because my friends are always at the movie (including the sister of the girl i like). It would make things very complicated. Plus its a small town so there isn't that much to do. (population only about 2000 or so) Another thing is, I'm very nervous, and I don't like to draw that much attention to myself. In a group of people I will just listen, and not talk much. How can I change this? I know I wouldn't be annoying if I talked more, but I never know what to say... If its a group of my better friends though, I'm fine! It doesn't make sense. I was thinking about just going through, totally just doing what I'm afraid to do, talking more, trying to become more confident, and all of that. How does that sound? I'll appriciate all of the help I can get, this is my first time posting in a forum like this so sorry if I sound weird, lol. Thanks again for you help!