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Jimbo10

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  1. hmmm, that question was asked in sex ed in PE, and the truth to that was it's unrelated. We were told wet dreams used to be thought of as young boys dreaming of women, but studies now prove that, although you can have dreams in which your get off, the 'wet dream' is basically a test. These 'test's, for lack of a better word, do not tend to occur than once, twice, or sometimes just a few times. Dreams in which you 'get off' are not usually as, wet either, so don't worry about them too much. It is all prety embarasing, and, when puberty begins and you go to sleep every night wondering if your going to wake up in...a mess...it sucks. All the sex ed instructor could tell us was not to sleep on our stomacs for a little while hahaha.
  2. I remember you last post, and I commented on how great it is your still responcible, and I just want to say that again, that's ausome, too bad there isn't more young fatherrs like you out there....anyway I think your better off not asking for legal help on a website, the answers you get always have a chance of being wrong, especially on the internet, with a site your new to. Go see a family lawyer, a concultation probably wouldn't cost much, or would be free, and it is the only thing i could recomend. I hope it all works out for you, good luck, and congradulations.
  3. I don't get it. You sound to me like your just being cruel! If you don't want to give your attention to him, why don't you just tell him gently your not interested. You don't need to waist your time trying to hurt someone, just to let him know that he doesn't get you, that's sick, and it disgusts me as a man I think your a mean person even asking how. Sorry for the bitterness, but don't come on this site to ask how to hurt someone
  4. just go up to him and start the flirting back up. Yea, I know it's easier said than done, but you can't just try and sit behind him in one class and hope it all goes down like a fairy-tale! Any of the girls i flirt with usually have a way we flirt, or a standing joke. Like one girl i kinda like always says my full name, and then i say hers. I know it sounds stupid, but it's funny, and a good way to start a conversation. I'd bet you guys used have some way of flirting you used to do. Just start it back up, start a conversatoin about a teacher you hate, or the homework from the class your in together Good luck, don't be shy.
  5. It's really hard for anyone to tell you that! I mean, We all have friends on different levels. Some friends you just party with and such, others you can tell everything you think about. I think the best judge of what is taking to far should really be you, because we don't know the finer details of your new friendship. But if you just ended a relationship, and are just trying the friend thing, I would try not to be to physical for a bit. Good luck man!
  6. THat's a kinda sad outlook on our day to day lives. I'm not saying it's not beatiful, i just hope you don't really think every day is pointless!
  7. I've always like the more common, as well as biblical names. Mathew, Robert, yeaa
  8. errrrrr. I don't know about that. Family is the most important thing you have. Keep your ties. Ticklebug is right. Their roof their rules. Just do your best to keep the best of both worlds.
  9. I've noticed lots of stuff about todlers. I went from having no baby counsins, to 4 years later having 9, haha. If she won't give you hugs, and she can run to daddy for comfort, that's really bad. She could end up using him as a safty net her entire childhood. You need to be on the same side as dad. If she is rude to you, dad can't be right behind her to give her a hug. He needs to say "no" and tell her to be nice to mommy. If she still won't listen, she doesn't get hugs/kisses from daddy. That's the best advise I can give. PS. Here's a tip. You can't sit down, and reason with a 3 year old. Sometimes tough love is the only way. They arn't old enough to do things like sit down and tell you the way they feel. Time-out/A swift smack on the bottom is a great disipline. Taking away things hurts too! Hope I was a help. Good luck, happy newyear.
  10. Aww shucks. Anouther one! There is no #1 way of telling if a guy likes you or not, so that answers your second question. You can't sum up flirting in a few sentences for each sex, not at all possible! In this perticular situation, I'd bet he likes you if your other friends say he does, and he spends more time with you. Flirt back, see if he gets the energy to ask you out. Otherwise, although some might argue this, a girl asking out a guy is 100% ok in my mind.
  11. This might sound corny, and unoriginal, but the fact is love comes in all shapes and forms. I think you just know, and your heart will let you know it. Who know's if we can stop ourselves from falling in love. Love is one of god's mysteries, and we shouldn't spend our lives trying to understand its true meaning, we should spend our lives trying to find it in true form. And when you find it, hold on tight, you'll know how.
  12. why don't you just stop playing the stupid games we play in high school and ask him out for coffee? What could it hurt right? Just don't ask in front of all his friends or anything! I'd bet he likes you though.
  13. I think the only thing that you can do is tell her the way you feel about her, and about her relationship, without being rude about it. Tell her she means the world to you, and you can't get her off your mind. Tell her that she isn't with the right man, and she deserves so much more It needs to come from your heart though, not my post ok. Just be real, and upfront with her. Let her know what you feel down deep in your heart. Good luck my friend.
  14. If you seriously want to be involved, and you are able to help financially, and be a part of this childs life, for its ENTIRE LIFE MEANING: If you walk out of this boy/girls life when they are five I hope they hunt you down and beat you to a pulp, because that is worse then never being there if you ask me! Then I would seek an attourny in family law or what ever the correct term is. Just because the mother of a baby carries the child, doesn't mean it's HER baby, and that dad is just there for the ride. You have rites the same as her, and if this is really really something you want to do, which, by the way I find very impressive, then the law can help you out. Good luck my friend, and it's very brave, and noble of you to be so responcible and loving at age 20. Good on ya!!!
  15. Ok this is kinda weird, but there is this kinda strange PE teacher at our school, who makes absolutly NO attempt to be attractive at all (that's ok if it's ok with them) but she is about 45, and openly professes when it's time for SexEd, that she is still a virgin!
  16. I'm gunna say this even though it's crude Who the heck want's to performe oral sex on a woman if they are going to come up for air with a mouth load of pubes?????????? Anyway, like someone else posted "whatever turns your crank"
  17. I am truly sorry. Losing family is the hardest thing you can go through, trust me, in only 9 months, both my Grandfathers died, and my Great Grandfather. You need to make the very very most out of every miniute of every day you get with your mother. Make it special, don't fight with her, don't argue, becuase you need to understand this. It MUST be eating her inside that she is going to leave you at such a young age. Infact, I'd bet that it's harder on her! Help her out too. You both need to spend quality time together. Just be there for each other, and love every miniute of it. Be optomistic, and cherish the time you have, don't dwel in the inevitable. I am very sorry. remember that the lord works in mysterious ways, and faith is a great thing. I recommend it to all. Just know that god does everything for a reason, and after our lives on earth, we can be with our family for eternity in paradice. PM me if you want to talk about anything.
  18. I'd go to a specialist if I were you pal. There is always always a chance your doc. could be mistaken, and you don't want to wait to long on the off chance it is serious.
  19. I would say make it a group thing. Don't go this one alone for several reasons. There is a girl your after, and your friend's relationship with her went over poorly. So invite other people for sure, and make it a group outing so it's not a date. Make sure it doesn't feel like a date ie: dont invite other couples alone, or it'll just be a double date. Good luck, and keep after the girl you like, talk to her about your relationship, and tell her your serious.
  20. PLEASE DON'T TAKE THIS GENTLY!!! The second your done reading this advise, go tell mom and dad ON THE DOUBLE. You don't know what this guy has on his mind, and it could be scary. I think you should get mom and dad, and go visit your Aunt up-town or something. Tell the police that you are seriously frightened this man is going to hurt you or someone close to you. RESTRAINING ORDERS ARE LIKE TRYING TO HIDE IN A GLASS BOX IF THE PERSON THEY ARE RESTRAINING IS DANGEROUS. I am serously begging you to tell the authorities and mom and dad, and don't stay at a place he could come and find you. Your life is to precious to geuss with. DONT WAIT and don't put this off anouther miniute!!!
  21. Haha. If your going to try and play hard to get, when you don't think your his number one anyway, your taking a pretty grand risk he's just going to walk on you. I'd try and show more interest. Just be normal and natural. Flirt a little more, and a little more obviously then what you think is obvious. You just need to make yourself look as attractive as you can be to him. But you need to remember you can't force love, so don't stress too hard over this guy if you just can't get him. Good luck PS. I'm from Vancouver (Canada) too.(North)
  22. 2 hours is a long time bro. I'd do this. Asume she's into ya, and do what ever feels right from there to you. other then telling you that she's into ya, it's just to easy, and too wrong for anyone to tell YOU exactly how to play the cards. Everyone has there own style and speeds, ect. Good luck, and keep your stick on the ice
  23. if lotsa guys like her, you gotta cowboy-up and be a many buddy. Get there first, and like my boss says, "go big or go home." Good luck, and "no" doesn't draw blood.... wow, i thought that up at 1:00 in the morning hehe. Go get her man.
  24. What makes me steaming mad is being sterotyped. Anyone who remembers my other posts knows that! I find it so rude, and sexist, either stereotyping men or women, or people of certain ages or jobs, or anything. I don't like it when girls are so empowered they cant' stop duming males.
  25. Drinking alone at age 15 is kinda funny. Does anyone not think so? I mean, drinking alone at any age isn't the greatest habit to get into!!! You really just shouldn't be drinking when your 15! If you don't want him to , then you need to stop, and warn him that you hate it so much your willing to leave him if he can't be responcible. If he won't stop it's up to you to leave him or not, but you don't really need that in your life at your age! Good luck
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